The underlying pattern....

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Anyways - naturally - this is a fairly profound topic.

One that must be addressed gradually - and whose explanation must be tailored to the audience - so I'll give it to you in baby spoonfulls.

By example - anyone watch that documentary on I think RTE about a month or so ago - called, "Stressed"?

Done by - I dunno - some woman who's a columnist for some newspaper or some shit.

Anyways - therein, was an interview with one of the foremost authorities on behavioral psychoanalysis in Ireland, a Professor from the university in Galway, in addition to some dude from Trinity commenting on neural inflammation relative to stress - but the former we'll focus on for the moment.

Prof Malie Coyne (you might see her on TV/media from time to time) - her primary concern and focus of academic research, focuses on what she refers to as, "Compassion focused therapy".

It effectively works on the premise that, during childhood - we're programmed neurally with certain response patterns that ultimately dictate emotional responses and regulation throughout our adult life.

There is certainly substance to it - it is effectively how things work; the point to focus on here is, "EMOTIONAL, REGULATION".


Okay?


Now - where does escort work come in?

Well - SEX - fornicating, boffing, plowing, slaying, a bit of the ol' in-out/in-out - whatever you wanna call it - it is predicated on

EMOTIONS.

Okay?


That - is the core concept to grasp.

So - the difference between having sex and feeling like you're giving it to a hole carved in a plasterboard wall, and having sex and feeling like your dick is on cocaine - is predicated on your EMOTIONAL RESPONSE - to that individual.

So next time you're looking at a dude and thinking, "I wonder can he satisfy the ladies in bed?", think to yourself, "what kind of emotional reaction can I imagine he would illicit?" - and the answer to the former question will be more forthcoming.


But yeah - the core concept to grasp here is - quality of sex, is predicated on, EMOTIONS.


Is everyone with me so far??

Or are you like.....





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[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

But I'm a criminal now!

"Rachael Moron was a practicing sex worker in her time also - don't forget - so there may well be some defectors amongst the ranks currently.
Typically it's the, "hating-man-bastard", chip on their shoulder types."

Yes, yes, but-but I'm a criminal now and can lose my job if I get a conviction!

Okay okay - you broken record.

I'll address your petty concern.

Short of walking in and seeing some chick chained to the bed, and proceeding regardless - you should be fairly okay.

Obviously being a new law, and the Irish police force being what they are - it's not being rigorously implemented.

The pattern emerging is - in serious cases of reported coercion - action is being taken (naturally - as well it should).

That is to say - clients who proceed with discretion and cognizance - aren't gonna have their reputation overly tainted.
From the outside - that certainly appears to be the situation.

As for these lobbyist groups - just bear in mind - they're effectively women with an axe to grind.

And by that I mean - aging chicks who've lost the sense of validation their youth once brought them - and desperately clinging onto any remaining dreggs of said validation they can get - even if it means lowering work and living conditions of hundreds of people.
Unhappiness is as unhappiness does.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Punt much?

Not since the new law came in!!!

[Cassandra]

Did you know?

There's - no such thing as "true random".

It doesn't exist.

Everything, on earth, and outside it - is dictated in some capacity by a mathematical formula.

I guess we were exposed to that a little via films like the DaVinci Code and Pi - exploring mathematical sequence progressions; relative to growth and development etc.

And ultimately - technical jargon aside - it's mostly rather straight forward.
I think academics can overly jargonize certain topics - as a weird way of saying, "we're smarter than you - you mortal".

Long since in the area of behavioral psychoanalysis - the contention has been, "we can't apply a left brain solution, to a right brain problem".

Which is basically like saying, "we're stumped - and this is our cop out".


But -



- what if I told you....

There is a base underlying mathemical'esque formula to sexual gratification.

If sexual gratification is proportional to sexual attraction - and sexual attraction is dictated by personal status/self development - then you could say - there is a mathematical'esque formula to dictate lifes progression, which ultimately revolves around, good sex.


Why - of all freaking places - would I post this on a escort forum?

Well - 10 reasons.

Maybe 15.

But - as we're all aware, the practice is currently under fire from a variety of lobbyist groups and individuals.

The aim here, one of many - is to, elucidate - that the sex trade is simply - misunderstood, on a broader scale, by the general public.

It's like a, "burn the witch" type of mentality - I use that figuratively of course, not in reference to any sex worker, per se.

Education, awareness, understanding - but in an area deemed by the most revered authorities on the subject, to be effectively - unintelligible.

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True random does exist. That is the pattern, we're just not big enough to look outside it.

[lesbianlover]

Why do we endeavour to try and understand things that really ought not be understood?

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

True random does exist. That is the pattern, we're just not big enough to look outside it.

Your wrong - sister.

For real - I don't know about astrophysics but, computer science clearly dictates, there is actually no such thing as true random; there is no possible means to generate something which cannot be predicted - regardless of how convoluted said prediction may be.

Err'y thing has as pattern.

The water droplets that form on your window.
The shapes flocks of birds fly in.
The contours of clouds in the sky.
The symmetry of stars patterns.
The life cycle.

Aaaaaaand - relationships - sex - juxtaposition of one person relative to another.

As humans - we need to understand things; we need to put logic to something that makes no sense to us.
So - often, to ourselves, we shoehorn something in, which is clearly a low level explanation - but it quenches our wonders.

In regards to the former - the greatest minds in behavioral and interpersonal reasoning, have yet to be able to establish the pattern.

What they've got - is the childhood base neural firing incitation; which I believe there's some credence to - but it's certainly not the full picture.

They're working on what they refer to as, "reprogramming" - they know there's something there - but again - the understanding is not yet there.


What I'm alluding to is - understanding sexuality - is PREDICATED, on understanding it's inextricable link to EMOTIONS - and most importantly - HOW to harness it......




But sex is unquestionably at it's core - and like I said - the industry is under fire; and as some posters allude to, the proponents are not favouring so well at this current stage.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Why do we endeavour to try and understand things that really ought not be understood?

Cause mother nature fucks us in the anus at every given opportunity.

It is the purpose of humanity to understand, to evolve, to create a better quality of life.