Do escorts ever get lonely??

[Wolverine]

No it's not



No they don't.



No it doesn't.

Very compelling arguments there

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Very compelling arguments there

No they're not.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

I guess I posed this question initially as - it's been blindingly obvious that escorts - sex workers, are very, lonely.

More or less than other chicks?

I honestly don't know.

Other lines of work, they normally have some kind of skill base; even, the lowest paid work like, cleaning or something - there's always room for growth, development, climbing the ladder, etc.
Productivity attenuates feelings of isolation, and induce autonomy, confidence etc.

In sex work - the growth and development seems to constitute primarily of, getting new outfits, new make up, minor surgical enhancements.
Correct me if I'm wrong.

I've been with some happy out sex workers - but it was always a means to an ends; they were saving for college, had a future in mind.

The ones less so - they're saving so they can retire on what they make.
Little in the way of, development, I guess.

Perhaps there are occasional outliers, that somehow - have insight into what it genuinely takes to be a more sexual person, and be happy in the line of work, indefinitely.
Use the work to grow themselves as a person.
I do believe; fairly certain, that happens.

But - they are truly the exception it would seem; the vast majority of "chronic" workers - maybe that's a bad choice of words but, you get the idea; I guess they fulfill the paradox of being so jaded against men they induce their own loneliness.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

By example - chicks working in, windows; 'nuff said.

They were, ALWAYS, I kid you not; ALWAYS, on the look out for, "that guy".

The dude that could give them companionship.

Cause why?

Cause they're miles from home, foreign land, foreign culture.
I get it, the, "well it's the same for everyone" argument.

It's a little different - see the immediately previous post.

Some of them chicks, if they were in any other line of work - they'd have dudes queueing up to kiss their feet.

[philipkntz]

Heard on the radio today that loneliness is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and takes years off a persons life.

[DroppinLoadsOnYourFaceSon]

Heard on the radio today that loneliness is as bad for your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day and takes years off a persons life.

What radio station?
By whom?

Cause that's been the latest recurring theme in neural psychology currently; isolation induced neural leasoning, apoptosis (programmed cell death), contributes to cellular degeneration.

It's a theory - but it may have substance.

It's also one of the primary themes in old age psychiatry.

[ChaChaCharlie]

Hello.
Disagreeing with me is not an argument.
Goodbye.

[philipkntz]

Don't know what station, was in a shop and the radio was on. Clad to hear that psychology is taking an interest though.

[patty]

Well said.

It’s more of a judgement issue .
It’s not something I can tell my grandma at dinner tomorrow night .
Somethings are just best kept a secret . People who are not in this industry would never understand. That’s what I was trying to explain but maybe didn’t make it very clear.
I am happy in my own skin and have lots of great people in my life but like I said it is a double life .
I am an extremely sexual person & I enjoy all my rendezvous but it’s just a secret I have too keep to myself .

[patty]

Do you say to your family, friends and new people you meet that you visit escorts?

I'm sad to see you say you are ashamed, but I wonder if you really are? There is a big difference between keeping it secret out of shame, and keeping it secret because people you care about might judge you or see you differently.

As a client, I would not tell friends about my secret life for those reasons, but I feel no shame, and don't think of it as wrong.

I think escorts or clients who feel ashamed should probably quit - a long term feeling of shame can't be good for you.

You are a delightful young lady, and I hope that you are happy in your own skin.