Why get married?????

[Tommy Singh]

So much for leaving.Anyway i often wondered and amazingly kept my mouth shut but i have to ask ,why the hell do some of you get married?

Personally i think the ass has fallen out of marriage now.I couldnt count the numbers of times i was at weddings ,parties etc and get some married one chasing me around in private.When i read about affairs,on here with married guys seeing escorts,divorce laws etc.Marraige doesnt mean the same thing anymore.Its turning into a joke.

Regardless why get married if a single life is what someone needs or can you hack it?Can you hack the fact that your friends are marrying and moving on?Do you fear being alone for the duration of your life?Can you hack the loniness at times?Or do you miss the freedom that single life gives?

Espeicially with the pressure of mortgages,raising kids etc?Why in gods name give up your freedom for this when you cannot commit to it?We have a situation where someone is trying to focus on opposite ends of a burning candle.If your caught your fucked,if your not caught then you have to live with this secret life away from the very person that apparently seems closest to you.

Im single and so ,do things single ppl do.Will i ever get married?Maybe who knows but what i cant understand or do is meeting someone marrying them and commiting myself to them and then attempting to be single.I havnt married because aside from not meeting the right person (i have met a few but they dont need to know) i have things i do for me that would prevent me from being the best father i could be to a kid that will obviously come along if i married.

I get most things but i really can never get why someone would take on such an undertaking yet cant be sure of maintaining it.

Plz give me a break of this "i need a break" bs.We all need a break.

Plz keep this thread on topic or i will call in the cavalry,
Westside.


PS i f you read the above and cannot understand it then your in good hands,neither can i.

[experienced punter]

Better to be single and lonely than married & lonely
I'm in lovelove5

[Tommy Singh]

I'm in lovelove5

Hate to disappoint you but i would never let a guy take advantage of me ,no matter how much i love him.

Hands off now buddy,
Westside.

[Tommy Singh]

why ppl bother to get married,bring the pressures that come along with marraige on themselves all in the while they have no intention of being 100% commited and end up trying to live a single life too.

All hail the single man,
Westside.

[experienced punter]

I can only speak from experience but sooooooo many people I know are in such dead-end marriages that it wouldn't entice u to get hitched, dont forget get wed & divorce she gets half your fortune (thats Westsides fear)

[Tommy Singh]

I can only speak from experience but sooooooo many people I know are in such dead-end marriages that it wouldn't entice u to get hitched, dont forget get wed & divorce she gets half your fortune (thats Westsides fear)

Nope any women that moves into Westville will be signing a little slip of paper wavering her right to that.Im not that dumb,yet anyway.Thats only applicable after marraige breakup or three years of co-habiting as far as i know.

Opps theres goes the thread gone off topic.Lads whistle whistle whistle,wait i can hear horseback from yonder the hills.Its a bird................its a plane...................its...................QPH with a pen.

Off to the Soap Opera,
Westside.

[Stewie]

why ppl bother to get married,bring the pressures that come along with marraige on themselves all in the while they have no intention of being 100% commited and end up trying to live a single life too.

All hail the single man,
Westside.

Who knows what a persons intentions were when they got married they may not have lived up to the intention but the intention may have been there at the time.

[Patricia]

Not a big fan of marriage myself but...

A couple of my friends got married recently after being together for years and initially feeling marriage was not neccessary. They said they did it purely because it was a romantic thing to do and a great excuse to throw a party and take a holiday!

[pats bodyguard]

its generally the women that love the whole marriage thing a lot more than men do.

it increases their sense of security both emotionally and physically since they,ve more right as a mrs if you pop your clogs.

but the whole thing of the wedding day, the thrill of getting a big white dress and walking up the aisle and the bridesmaids, flowergirls and honeymoons etc etc. sure its the height of romance and uniqueness to have the BIG DAY.

men generallly see it as the same as living together with an excuse for a big days party and of course a wild stag night

pb