should I tell her?

[carlos marvado]

Tell her the real number e.p. (just don't say that a lot of these were escorts) and she'll probably think that you're boasting and won't believe you. On the off chance that she does believe you, tell her that in your younger days you were a bit of a jack the lad, but that you have now matured and feel the need the settle down and put down some roots.

P.S. I hope you're not too young, so that there is a respectable timespan between your "younger days" and the present.

But on the other hand, you could always confess to being a sex addict, but that since you have met her, she has totally changed your outlook.

[Patricia]

Sorry EP but your taking the piss right?? Tell her, hell no, it doesn't matter how open minded she is you admit to sleeping with an escort and it's bye bye's. Just pick a reasonable number but no more than 5 and make shit up...

Oh dear... If max 5 is what's considered acceptable these days, I am soooooooooooo going to hell

[Wildthang]

Tell her the real number e.p. (just don't say that a lot of these were escorts) and she'll probably think that you're boasting and won't believe you. On the off chance that she does believe you, tell her that in your younger days you were a bit of a jack the lad, but that you have now matured and feel the need the settle down and put down some roots.

P.S. I hope you're not too young, so that there is a respectable timespan between your "younger days" and the present.

But on the other hand, you could always confess to being a sex addict, but that since you have met her, she has totally changed your outlook.

You could do all tht e.p and bore the girl to tears! where there is a good chance she will leave you anyway or you could just stick your mickey in her every time she asks and hope tht your good enough to distract long enough so she forgets the original question.

[anitasizzle]

Are you stupid are what? Hell no don't tell her that you've been seeing escorts, and don't let her know that you're a recovery PORN addict or show her your substantial Porn collection.


She's fishing around to see whether or not you're a ''WHOCHE MAMA''-male hoe

[Wildthang]

Oh dear... If max 5 is what's considered acceptable these days, I am soooooooooooo going to hell

I think anon means per day pat! But tht still leaves you fuked(lol) and going straight to hell.

[experienced punter]

Are you stupid are what? Hell no don't tell her that you've been seeing escorts, and don't let her know that you're a recovery PORN addict or show her your substantial Porn collection.


She's fishing around to see whether or not you're a ''WHOCHE MAMA''-male hoe

No look its nothing to do with being stupid not at all its just I'm that kinda person we're all different I was on the brink of going to tell her lastnite more Womens opinions pls

[anitasizzle]

No look its nothing to do with being stupid not at all its just I'm that kinda person we're all different I was on the brink of going to tell her lastnite more Womens opinions pls

I understand your dilemma, some Working girls don't think one should tell potential partners that one is or had been a prostitute. I've always been of the school of thought that one should, but now I'm starting to realize that not everybody is MATURE ENOUGH FOR THE THRUTH

[Last time]

Guilt is in your conscious mind and infested your subconscious mind, as soon as guilt plays your head you have to distract yourself with other thoughts to break this guilt ridden thinking pattern.

Using the above mind set...if you tell her, all she will remember from now on when you are having sex...or an argument....or anytime good or bad, is that you slept with escorts. She will think...you pay girls for sex! She will not see that these girls are lovely, good looking and sweet. She will see them as abused, manipulated poor little girls that you have exploited.
As Silo said...guilt is in your consious mind....tell her and it will be in her subconcious mind. Meaning that you can get rid of you guilt by not letting the thought go any further and dismiss it but it will go into her memory bank for ever and even if you do not last she will have to tell someone of your secert who will tell someone else and so it will continue....

[silo]

Do Not Tell Anyone! they can use it against you if you fall out, even your best friend can backstab you with this type of information if he fancied your wife in the future, trust no one!

[experienced punter]

Using the above mind set...if you tell her, all she will remember from now on when you are having sex...or an argument....or anytime good or bad, is that you slept with escorts. She will think...you pay girls for sex! She will not see that these girls are lovely, good looking and sweet. She will see them as abused, manipulated poor little girls that you have exploited.
As Silo said...guilt is in your consious mind....tell her and it will be in her subconcious mind. Meaning that you can get rid of you guilt by not letting the thought go any further and dismiss it but it will go into her memory bank for ever and even if you do not last she will have to tell someone of your secert who will tell someone else and so it will continue....

great answer

I've taken a day off work due to the stress of this situation