and your about the only attached client I have ever seen voice an honest and open opinion on that in which you don't make excuses for the fact that yes you are cheating and I admire your honesty here albeit with a made up name if not directly honest to your Wife. I never, nor have I the right to judge anyone for path they choose, nor they me is all I am saying.
People dress it up and say they are not cheating emotionally etc, maybe there is some truth in that I don't know for sure but I really doubt that if a spouse found out that they would not be emotionally hurt so I don't buy that get out clause but I do admire when someone comes out and calls it like it is.