If we use escorts does that mean we do not love our wives or girlfriends?

[silo]

interested to hear your opinions. do you feel guilt? have you been nearly caught? what would your answer be if you snoozed off at your pc with this website up and you woke up with your partner (arm crossed) beside you, how will you explain that haha?

If we use escorts does that mean we dont love our partners?

[Doozer]

Yes no and I swear honeyI was loking for Ford Escorts in Ireland.
I dont know how this came up.
must of doozed off and click on a link in my sleep

[wiseone]

Hi Silo!

Escorts provide a safer way for a lad to express his 'excess' love.
I am single and feel a little 'bemused' at these situations, though.
If I found myself going to shops in a taxi; and my car, sitting in the drive?

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[thehighwayman]

If a man really loved his other half he wouldn't be seeing escorts.

[Doozer]

If a man really loved his other half he wouldn't be seeing escorts.

yes and no highway. mayebe his wife/partner has lost interest in sex and he actualy dosnt want to have an affair in the proper sense so he uses an escort to see to his needs and not have an emotional attachment with the escort in which he might with another thord party.

Im sure many of the men here who are either married or in a relationship love their wives but see escorts for a variety of reasons. maybe they like the exicitment maybe their wives dont hit the right buttons anymore because their marraige has become routine.

who knows. but it does not mean they do not love thier wive.

[rover]

yes and no highway. mayebe his wife/partner has lost interest in sex and he actualy dosnt want to have an affair in the proper sense so he uses an escort to see to his needs and not have an emotional attachment with the escort in which he might with another thord party.

Im sure many of the men here who are either married or in a relationship love their wives but see escorts for a variety of reasons. maybe they like the exicitment maybe their wives dont hit the right buttons anymore because their marraige has become routine.

who knows. but it does not mean they do not love thier wive.

Let's be point blank honest about this, I know the truth hurts, but a married man in a relationship that lacks sex, if he sees escorts then he's an Absolute RAT, he should go to counselling or try and make a effort into reviving the marriage, usually it's the selfish male that is the cause of the problem in the first place, I repeat he's a RAT there's no excuse. This is just my own conscience talking, I am that RAT.

[silo]

yes and no highway. mayebe his wife/partner has lost interest in sex and he actualy dosnt want to have an affair in the proper sense so he uses an escort to see to his needs and not have an emotional attachment with the escort in which he might with another thord party.

Im sure many of the men here who are either married or in a relationship love their wives but see escorts for a variety of reasons. maybe they like the exicitment maybe their wives dont hit the right buttons anymore because their marraige has become routine.

who knows. but it does not mean they do not love thier wive.

This is my reason, now tell me yours:

My marriage is very healthy, I adore my wife, she is beautiful and a lovely person too but since I go to escorts I do question myself, going to escorts have made me discover more about myself, actually has help my marriage in a way, I am much better in bed with my wife, she loves it more now, because I am more dirty it makes her more horny, lets just say I was a nerd in bed at the start ten years ago.
Anyway, It has help me in another way to save my marriage, before even my first visit to escorts, I was tempted by other girls, I can say I am an attrative man and girls do throw themselves at me, one I was working with could have turned into an affair, that type of an affair would include intimacy, and love, and then lead to a messy relationship between two partners.
In that case it would be worst, I would eventually have to choose between two is I fell in love with the mistress.
The good thing about escorts is its just sex, thats it, now I would never consider leaving my wife for a more stunning girl! that would be just lust! and to satisfy my lust I can just go to escorts with no strings.

Why do I need to go?:
Before we ever had partners, especially in ours teens, this is our ultimate sexual fantasy, to have sex with that curvy blue eye playboy model pornstar blonde/brunnete.
I only have one life and I want to try it!, unfortunately easy escorting only appeared after I got married, I know I am sinning but its hard to be a perfect human being!

A simplified explanation:

your dream car is a Merc SLK, you say to yourself now that you will be satisfied when you have one. you finally have one and is happy in love with it, but there is a new race track for testing out sports performance cars 150/30mins, if you are a man you will be tempted to go and enjoy the adrenaline rush.

[Heidi Baby]

If a man really loved his other half he wouldn't be seeing escorts.

I do not agree with U! Sometimes ur relationship just get bored!!!Sometimes U need something new!This dont mean u dont love ur partner!I think......if u "use" escort every week..... THIS MEAN U DONT LOVE UR PARTNER!!!!!

[Tommy Singh]

I do not agree with U! Sometimes ur relationship just get bored!!!Sometimes U need something new!This dont mean u dont love ur partner!I think......if u "use" escort every week..... THIS MEAN U DONT LOVE UR PARTNER!!!!!

and heres why.True love involves more than just intimacy.When you truely love another ,their feelings become part of you and you do not want to hurt them ever.Thats true love.A shag is only a shag but intimacy is different and intimacy involves sharing your true feelings for another.If this wasnt the case an escort couldnt do her job.

Sorry but if a guy sees escorts behind his wifes back then he obviously dosnt love her enough to understand that this would destroy her feelings (the feeling of not being good enough for him whatever good enough means).Sure ppl would say but how could you get caught but thats not the point at all.

And before you ask i am not married and dont have kids and the main reason why, is i could not devote myself to being as good a husband or father as i could be so i dont bring kids into this world or marry someone when they could have someone else.Having said that i dont punt hardly ever either.A punt to me is a small baby boat.


This will change with time though,
Westside.

[silo]

Yes no and I swear honeyI was loking for Ford Escorts in Ireland.
I dont know how this came up.
must of doozed off and click on a link in my sleep

In the early days when I couldnt figure out how to clear the yahoo search list I did type in all sorts of ford escorts to blend it in haha , i hate ford escorts "oh, I was searching for escorts for a friend!"