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    I had been keeping my eye on a 'Dominatrix' on this site for a while and I had an acquaintance recommend her to me as the best around at the moment. I booked an appointment with her and went for an initial 'interview' in her room (actually a suite) in a hotel in the west of Ireland a few nights ago. We discussed what I was looking for, my experience to date, dislikes, limits etc. She seemed like an nice person, cute, shorter and younger looking than I had expected. Having met her, I was happy to go ahead with the appointment, as was she and she then told me that she wanted me to drive her somewhere first so she could take care of something she had to do (now I'm thinking maybe she wanted me to taxi her to and from another client). I had left the car at home as I wanted to have a drink afterwards. I was then directed to wait in the bar downstairs for an hour and she would return and we could get to it. One hour turned into two and a half and I was on the verge of leaving and starting to get a bit impatient and nervy as the bar was closed and I wasn't a resident and I had no valid reason to be there if the staff started to ask questions. But I thought to myself this is probably her style, keep a guy hanging on, tease/denial, show me who is in control etc. So against my better judgement I stayed. She finally showed up and we went up to her room, I paid her the 220E she requested, we had a brief chat and she then tells me to have a shower. She brings me into the bathroom and turns the shower on. I'm just about to get into the shower when I realise I had left all my clothes with my wallet in the room we had just been in. I learned a long time ago if you have a shower when you're with an escort undress in the bathroom and keep your wallet in plain sight. I drank about three pints whilst waiting for her so I put this error on my part down to being slightly tipsy and full of expectation for what was about to commence. I'm not sure why I did what I did next, maybe it was me remembering 'my keep your wallet in your sight at all times rule' or maybe it was a gut feeling that pretty looking and nice person as she seemed to be, that she was untrustworthy. I didn't get into the shower and returned (naked) back to the room we had just been in. Upon entering the room my trousers were on the floor at her feet and she had my wallet in her hands and she was rifling through it's contents. Another thing I learned years ago is only to bring the price of the session booked with you to any appointment. I brought a little extra with me but it was almost gone buying the three pints and coffee for her. There was only 5E in my wallet but a credit and debit card and a driver's licence (none of which were taken, probably because she didn't get the chance). As soon as she noticed I was in the room watching her she dropped the wallet on the floor and then spent about 15 minutes trying to convince me I hadn't seen what I had just observed with my own eyes. I blew a fuse (verbally) and spent about 15 minutes asking her (mostly shouting, in fairness) if she thought I was blind (imagine if I was!). She kept asking me to continue with the session and redirected every request I made to give me back the 220E to another request for me to continue with the session. For anyone reading this who may not be familiar with the whole Domme/Sub interaction, trust is paramount. The sub voluntarily hands over almost complete control of pretty much everything to the Domme for that limited time period and that's the kink, surrendering to a dominant female that you trust who will take you to the edge of what you can handle. Without trust there's no kink as you have to be able to give yourself permission to surrender. Given the recommendation of my acquaintance and the 'interview' I thought I was in good hands. Unfortunately, this was not the case. Each time I asked for the money back she kept asking me to continue with the session and blatantly denied that she had ever even taken my wallet from my trousers. I hadn't noticed where she put the money so I started to open all the drawers in the desk in her room. At this point she went to her handbag and returned the money. I was leaving anyway but left mostly because I was afraid of what I would do to her. I was mightily pissed off but had the presence of mind to realise that if I put a hand on her that her junky streetwalker behaviour would be vindicated and I would most likely, as the aggrieved party, wind up in a police cell. After leaving she sent me a bunch of texts telling me to come back and then a few more calling me a pathetic slave and that I had drank too much and what I had missed out on by leaving. This 'lady' has since opted out of reviews on EI and has no facility to leave reviews on her own website. I texted her two days later when I had calmed down a bit and asked her what the hell was she playing at and told her that she was lucky I was a gentleman about the whole thing and that she would have fared a lot worse with someone who didn't mind spending a night or two in a police cell. No reply of course. This 'lady' is a well known Dominatrix on this site and has advertised on here for quite a while and is still advertising. Her profile went down for one day after this incident but I see she's alive and well and back at it in the south of the country at the moment. She didn't steal anything from me for two reasons. One, I brought only enough to cover the cost of the session and two, I caught her redhanded. I would gladly name her on this site but have been advised by a moderator that I can't do that. I reported the incident and the moderator told me the only recourse I have is to post this warning without naming her. PM me if you want to know who she is.
    Last edited by LuckyLu; 02-04-17 at 09:24.

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    damn, that sounds not cool! trust is paramount
    PM please

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    I can count on one hand how many clients have taken their clothes into the shower room with me and I would hate to think it was because they didn't trust me. I normally ask clients to put their clothes on a chair which is next to the shower, but in the bedroom and I leave the door to the shower open so I can have a good perv while they get cleaned.

    It is sad that we can't always trust each other, but I guess sometimes that is the case. I've had a few clients try and tell me they have had a shower when they are bone dry and I've had to get them to do it again wasting their time.

    I'm not making excuses for the lady, but it might be that she is having some problems at the moment and did a silly thing. It doesn't mean she has done it before, otherwise I'm sure your friend would not have recommended her. A sad situation all round.

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    can u pm me please !

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    Just after posting this I checked out her profile and saw her review section was switched back on again so I posted a shortened version of the warning above on her profile and referred potential clients to the warning section and advised them to read it in full. The review was rejected as apparently the appointment never happened at the time or in the place that we met. Minutes later the review section is closed again and I get 2 phone calls from her asking me to delete the warning and brazenly telling me I imagined the whole thing and that I have no clue what she does for Ireland. I tried telling her I saw what I saw and there's no denying it but she persisted telling me it's all in my head. Go figure. Don't get me wrong, good luck to her, I've no axe to grind here, not looking for any pound of flesh but the cards are all stacked in the escort's favour in this kind of situation. I can't name her on the warning section and she's free to reject my review or switch the review section off. I'm not about to go the cops and tell them what I was doing there and even if I was there was nothing stolen as I caught her in the act. Anyway that's me done with this. I'm not about to invest any more time in what I agree with you is a sad state of affairs for all concerned. The damn shame about the whole thing is I thought she was pretty cute looking and liked her even more when we spoke. I probably would have become a regular. Silly Girl. Goodnight and thanks for the response.

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    Sailor, send u PM

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    sailor pm sent to you

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    Got your pm yesterday. None received today from you

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sailor View Post
    Just after posting this I checked out her profile and saw her review section was switched back on again so I posted a shortened version of the warning above on her profile and referred potential clients to the warning section and advised them to read it in full. The review was rejected as apparently the appointment never happened at the time or in the place that we met. Minutes later the review section is closed again and I get 2 phone calls from her asking me to delete the warning and brazenly telling me I imagined the whole thing and that I have no clue what she does for Ireland. I tried telling her I saw what I saw and there's no denying it but she persisted telling me it's all in my head. Go figure. Don't get me wrong, good luck to her, I've no axe to grind here, not looking for any pound of flesh but the cards are all stacked in the escort's favour in this kind of situation. I can't name her on the warning section and she's free to reject my review or switch the review section off. I'm not about to go the cops and tell them what I was doing there and even if I was there was nothing stolen as I caught her in the act. Anyway that's me done with this. I'm not about to invest any more time in what I agree with you is a sad state of affairs for all concerned. The damn shame about the whole thing is I thought she was pretty cute looking and liked her even more when we spoke. I probably would have become a regular. Silly Girl. Goodnight and thanks for the response.
    Hey Sailor,

    It is an unpleasant experience, especially with a Dom, where as the trust plays a key role.

    Thank you for sticking to the rules of the warning section.
    Please understand that we will not be able to publish your review as this would directly indicate who was the advertiser in question.

    x

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    LuckLu,
    I presume there would be no problem with me posting a glowing review of her (as I have of many escorts over the years) as this would contribute to increasing the amount of clients that go to see her which in turn would go towards ensuring EI keep getting her advertising subscriptions. But when I witness her trying to rob me, EI don't allow me to name her in the warning and won't allow me to post an account of the experience in her review section which is where it needs to be so clients can be warned and make up their own minds. By this logic it's evident that the protection of her and EI's continued income stream is obviously of greater importance to EI than the protection of clients she may try to do the same thing to in the future. These clients might choose to visit another escort and thereby avoid attempted robbery or even robbery if they're not as fortunate as I was to catch her in the act had EI made them aware, as I have made EI aware, of my experience.

    Posting my review on her profile would lead to one of two things. 1. She would be forced to give some kind of account for what happened and I have no problem backing up what I witnessed and have already posted here, or 2. She would have to switch off her review section if she didn't want prospective clients to read the review and consequently get less business. This seems like a pretty light sanction given what I saw her try to do to me . I was using this website for years before I even knew there was a warning section. An anonymous warning in a part of the website infrequently visited by most users is about as much use as a chocolate teapot in this situation and not much of a stretch from EI actually condoning her behaviour.

    But I'm starting to get it now. Maybe I'm a bit slow on the uptake. I thought you guy's might actually do something. Good to know where I stand. Thanks for the clarification.

    Sailor

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