im having midlife crisis help me
im having midlife crisis help me
MidlifeCrisis (18-01-17)
As one user said "sexual counselling". Does a person feel bad if they have to go to Physio when their other half can't massage the problem away? No, they do not.
Escorts everytime (and I'm single)... watch Fatal Attraction and Disclosure, that will help you make your mind up............Originally Posted by fluffy69
Both have advantage and disadvantage as date site is people looking for companionship as trust build up slowly as you go on few date if lucky and can be costly because no guarantee of nailing bedpost with Lady on tow..But if lucky you can have sex is special as their a connection and it much better as you wake up to a lady you feeling for..
Meeting a Escorts can be a hit and miss to as no guarantee of good sex or even sex as she has right to refuse sex with anyone as they not robot..Escort are NOT prostitute where them poor ladies force to have sex with bloke as being control by pimp..Escort are a lady you spend time and company with and like I said earlier has control of meeting and what happen in time spent with her..So us guy already know that but you live and hope when you meet escort to have sex with a beautiful lady..Yes if lucky you click and sex is fecking Awesome as I know and guys already know that..But clients and escorts do develop feeling as look at it this way you look at her profile pictures and fancy her and saying to yourself I want to have sex with her as majority guys go to meet a escort for sex but that why best to see other escorts and not meet same lady to often..But depend on what you want in life but meeting Escort is safer sex of two..But single guys don't stop trying to find that one special lady as she could be closer than you think..
Last edited by Mr Sweet Guy; 20-01-17 at 12:28.
alyx (24-01-17)
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Cost/Benefit, Risk/Reward.
We all have to do these things when we make the decision to punt or fool around on a partner. As many others have said here, going on dating sites and apps does imply that you're looking for a possible relationship. And in my limited experience with dating apps, I can tell you this: While I managed to shag 7 different women in 4 1/2 months using a dating app whilst living in Asia, and went on at least one date with a few others that didn't lead to anything more, I can tell you this for sure:
There is A LOT OF 'CRAZY' on those dating apps... loads of ladies on the rebound, women in their 40's desperate to snag a guy just to get married and have one last-ditch effort to have a baby before it's completely too late, and loads of super 'clingy' types... So I assure you, you definitely DO NOT want 'Crazy' to know that you have a wife, kids, etc-- it's like willingly giving someone some serious black evidence against yourself, and if you're just looking for a bit of action on the side, there's no good reason why you should run the risk of losing it all.
Escorts, as others have said here, are indeed the 'safe' option; no complications, no risk of her calling your wife and ruining your life, no 'Crazy' and drama to deal with while you're around the wife and kids...
Keep yourself safe, see an escort.
Fighting the Good Fight...
Depends. I've done both.
Escorts involve far less groundwork (a bit of research, a phone call and hey presto) and carry less risk of getting caught.
Meeting women through dating apps, especially if you're married, involves a lot more work and patience and carries more risk. The upside is, with a little luck, the sex will be far better. With a bit of persistence and application I've had quite a bit of success as a married man using Tinder. The less said about Ashley Madison and craigslist the better though!
Hi , the title of this thread made me curios and after I read it I will write my opinion.
First cheating in my opinion means when you have feelings for the second person.
And talking about dating site hmmm
1. You can live a double life where everything you put there is a lie total lie when come to say more about you , you have every time to keep in you're mind what you lied her last time.
2. Tell everything what is true that you have a wife etc ... and I don't think will work to we'll. My opinion.
I remember I have register to a website like this by curiosity a long time a go and our conversation start with tell more about you .... bang . ( I didn't want to tell to a total stranger things about me so bad ideea and I delete the account )
But when we talk about escorts that mean discretion ( discretion for and for us aswell)
A escort will never go in you're personal details like wife etc .
With a escort you can discuss about life, hobbies, music so many other things and have a really good fun xx. And at the end of the of the session we shake hands say goodbye and both of us we are Happy . Not so much Hassle.
xagerate (25-01-17)
Two words of warning: Ashley Madison.
If you want some possibility of saving your marriage if she finds out, an escort is a much better option.
That said I'm not a married cad, so what would I know. Your mileage may vary.
Last edited by gonzo76; 25-01-17 at 00:48.
Used it a few years ago. Don't know why anyone would dream of using it nowadays after they got hacked and their users' private was dumped onto the internet.
That was my point, I've now edited the post for better clarity!
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