I'm not going to pretend that I read all of what you wrote but I would like to say that those feminists that you talk of are not 'true' feminists. They are 'radical feminists. The true feminists believe in equality and balancing things out so things work more cohesively in a world where we can all choose to be independent or be in harmony with each other. Ie, equal pay for equal output kind of thing. Radical feminists are the ones that believe that tings should not be equal, but that women are in some way superior, as men are inherently bad in some way.
I watched a programme Yesterday on Irish telly where they were suggesting that all women are lesbian to some degree, where as men are not all homosexual in the same way. They suggested this was due to it being socially acceptable. I would tend to be believe that it has absolutely nothing to do with gender and more to do with a sliding scale that belongs to both genders that starts with zero and ends at 10. Some people will fit into 0 and have o desire at all for the same sex and then others will be somewhere between the two at varying degrees. As a woman I can categorically say that I would hit the '0' and have never wavered from that.
Radicalists tend to have no notion of what other people believe and are not interested in other people's experiences or thoughts. They tend to have the biggest voices and talk as though they are talking on behalf of the majority despite of it normally being on behalf of the minority. Their thoughts and notions tend to have little to do with anyone else and what they think or feel. Feminism is NOT anti men, it is not accusing men of being rapists and it is not about belittling the opposite sex. Many feminists are against the Swedish law and believe that women have the right to do what they want with their bodies, including giving consent for money.
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