Happy Endings are possible

[stevie wonder]

Though I’d share this story for anyone that has fallen for their masseuse.
I first met chai [not real name] 12 years ago in an Asian massage shop. Nice girl, had the massage and went home. Sometime later I met her again at a different shop. Again, no big deal, nice massage and that was that. A year later, I bumped into her for a 3rd time. She was about to start working for herself so she gave me her number.
I soon became a regular, visiting at least once a week. As the years passed, we became friends. It was small things at first, I’d help her with some translation or a phone call maybe. Later, we began going for a bite to eat after my visit. She’d always insist on paying I might add. Over time, we did more and more, even going on holiday together.
Chai makes good money doing massages and always insists on paying for everything when we are out. Of course, I object but Asian women are hard to argue with so more often than not, I’d concede.
I still get a massage every week. I have to insist on paying but in reality, she has probably spent as much on me as I have on her.
So where are we 12 years on? We see each other 3 or 4 times a week. She usually cooks me a meal if she’s not busy or else we go out when she finishes work. We go shopping together, go to pubs, to the cinema, drives down the country. Neither of us wants to get married, we’re both happy with the relationship as it is. We are the same age which is nice.
Having a girlfriend, a best friend, and a masseuse, all rolled up in one…That’s what I call a happy ending.

[blue rebel]

Though I’d share this story for anyone that has fallen for their masseuse.
I first met chai [not real name] 12 years ago in an Asian massage shop. Nice girl, had the massage and went home. Sometime later I met her again at a different shop. Again, no big deal, nice massage and that was that. A year later, I bumped into her for a 3rd time. She was about to start working for herself so she gave me her number.
I soon became a regular, visiting at least once a week. As the years passed, we became friends. It was small things at first, I’d help her with some translation or a phone call maybe. Later, we began going for a bite to eat after my visit. She’d always insist on paying I might add. Over time, we did more and more, even going on holiday together.
Chai makes good money doing massages and always insists on paying for everything when we are out. Of course, I object but Asian women are hard to argue with so more often than not, I’d concede.
I still get a massage every week. I have to insist on paying but in reality, she has probably spent as much on me as I have on her.
So where are we 12 years on? We see each other 3 or 4 times a week. She usually cooks me a meal if she’s not busy or else we go out when she finishes work. We go shopping together, go to pubs, to the cinema, drives down the country. Neither of us wants to get married, we’re both happy with the relationship as it is. We are the same age which is nice.
Having a girlfriend, a best friend, and a masseuse, all rolled up in one…That’s what I call a happy ending.

Stevie a blind man could see this will all end in tears .but enjoy it while it lasts , great story.

[SteveB]

As the Ancient Greek Herodotus said, "Count no man happy until the end is known.”

[stevie wonder]

Stevie a blind man could see this will all end in tears .but enjoy it while it lasts , great story.

Thanks for the reply, Blue Rebel.
Naturally, I hope you’re wrong.
It has been 12 years though, so I’m finding it hard to see what can go wrong at this stage.
I’ve even met her family and am friends with most of them on social network.
It would take something major to end our relationship, but of course, anything is possible!
As you suggest, I’ll enjoy it while it lasts... which will hopefully be for another 12 years at least!

[stevie wonder]

As the Ancient Greek Herodotus said, "Count no man happy until the end is known.”

Thanks, SteveB
I’m certainly not going to dispute Herodotus!
He is correct of course, I’m just not sure when to say the end has arrived.

[EIFII]

Stevie a blind man could see this will all end in tears .but enjoy it while it lasts , great story.

Normally I'd agree, but if I'm reading the OP right he has been seeing her several times a week for 11 years. It seems like this really could be "The End" for the OP.

It'd be interesting to hear more from him...

[blue rebel]

Normally I'd agree, but if I'm reading the OP right he has been seeing her several times a week for 11 years. It seems like this really could be "The End" for the OP.

It'd be interesting to hear more from him...

The first part of my post was me trying to be funny, blind man ........ Stevie wonder??
Why is it only the girls seem to get my sense of humour

[stevie wonder]

The first part of my post was me trying to be funny, blind man ........ Stevie wonder??
Why is it only the girls seem to get my sense of humour

Can't believe that joke didn't register with me! My apologies for being so slow!!

[EIFII]

The first part of my post was me trying to be funny, blind man ........ Stevie wonder??
Why is it only the girls seem to get my sense of humour

i know i know. But a sense of humour is best enjoyed, not replied to!

[Dubguy34]

First off.
Fair play for sharing.
But can I ask do you still visit escorts or other masseuses
And if not is it a loyalty thing?
Would she have an issue with it?
You obv don't have an issue with her and other men as it's 'work' But does she see it the same way?