View Poll Results: Waht should happen with the EOTM contest?

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  • Scrap it

    4 16.67%
  • Keep it as is

    10 41.67%
  • Dont care

    5 20.83%
  • Keep it but change it to somethng more revelant than reviews

    4 16.67%
  • Something else

    1 4.17%
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Thread: EOTM is sexist and no longer relevant and should be scrapped...discuss

  1. #11
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    Quote Originally Posted by zilch View Post
    Some just set up a domination account then contact all their clients from the escort profile and say big boy please write me a review on my new dom account so I can win.

    Wait. Then a lady or two pm their clients and ask then to write a review for that dom profile so they can gain favour because they hear the dom has an apartment they want to use.


    The sadder part is some suckers actually do it.

    Its a wonderful world hey..........
    It's not exclusive to Domination Accounts
    “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” - Oscar Wilde

  2. #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate View Post
    Admittedly this may change with the fact that clients can now review more than once to the same sex worker, but in my experience with another site that has always done this you may get a new review periodically, but not with every visit, as it becomes tedious and unnecessary to repeat what has already been said.

    The fact that so many clients don't use the forum or choose to review (which is understandable in the North) it does make it a little bit of a Ireland game now and not something all can be involved with.

    Maybe it would be nicer to have something like a 'Sex Worker' of the week award like a 'spotlight' where the spotlight is given them for whatever reason (I have no idea what that might be). Maybe for helping someone who was in trouble or for guidance. Supportive with where to stay or a place to stay if someone is kicked out of their hotel. Kindness could be the goal instead of numbers through the door

    I've heard some lovely stories about sex workers on this site that have helped others out and that never gets rewarded. Even clients could nominate sex workers for something like that. Maybe they would need to have 3 nominations to qualify or something.

    You might think that it's a crap idea, but it's got so dog eat dog recently. You never know, it might encourage people to be a bit nicer to each other?
    Hey Kate,

    I love the idea of nominating and awarding people for kindness, however not sure how we would make this competition open to all the advertisers, not only the forum users.
    There are many advertisers who are not active on the forums.
    The nominations would have to be done elsewhere, not only limited to the boards.
    I will put this idea forward up for discussion.
    Would invite everyone who has got any ideas to voice them here.

    Going back to the multiple reviews.
    Regular clients can leave one review every 7 days.
    This is provided different bookings took place, with a minimum 7 days gap.
    To limit the abuse of the EOTM scoring system, it is only the first review that counts towards the competition.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyLu View Post
    Going back to the multiple reviews.
    Regular clients can leave one review every 7 days.
    This is provided different bookings took place, with a minimum 7 days gap.
    To limit the abuse of the EOTM scoring system, it is only the first review that counts towards the competition.

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    Could that be posted somewhere on the site so people know?

    Also, was there ever any more thought put into being able to not publicly show a review location? (as in it can be shown to the escort and admins, but hidden from public view)
    https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-Bastard-story

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    What about client of the month, where the client wins a free month of hoop

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    The new system is more like feedback than reviews.
    https://www.escort-ireland.com/board...-Bastard-story

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    Thanks for the good times.

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    Ive had great fun with EOTM....

    "Hey girl... You're doing good so far this month... Fancy wining EOTM"

    "Gee.... I'd love to "

    "Norra bodder ... Me and me forum elite buddies will look after it for ya..Mwuaaaah"


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    Quote Originally Posted by Irish Sarah View Post
    Clients leaving multiple reviews is stupid. A lot of escorts text clients all the time and can get them to leave reviews without even having an appointment. It makes no sense whatsoever. It just makes the review system look like a joke tbh. At least before when a client left a review the previous one was removed. Should just go back to the way things were before it looked better

    Can't they do that anyway? I mean ring up a client and ask them to leave a review even if they are not seeing them? It's no more a joke than it already is in that sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Ive had great fun with EOTM....

    "Hey girl... You're doing good so far this month... Fancy wining EOTM"

    "Gee.... I'd love to "

    "Norra bodder ... Me and me forum elite buddies will look after it for ya..Mwuaaaah"


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    ETOM should be abolished.
    There would be less drama on the boards if it was done away with.
    This is a escort directory of service providers who provide the customer with services.
    If there is a monthly competition it should be for the client not the service provider.

    Escort of the year sounds like a better idea.
    And it rhythms to.

    Whoever wins escort of the year should get a free months advertising.


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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyLu View Post
    Hey Kate,

    I love the idea of nominating and awarding people for kindness, however not sure how we would make this competition open to all the advertisers, not only the forum users.
    There are many advertisers who are not active on the forums.
    The nominations would have to be done elsewhere, not only limited to the boards.
    I will put this idea forward up for discussion.
    Would invite everyone who has got any ideas to voice them here.

    Going back to the multiple reviews.
    Regular clients can leave one review every 7 days.
    This is provided different bookings took place, with a minimum 7 days gap.
    To limit the abuse of the EOTM scoring system, it is only the first review that counts towards the competition.

    L
    Xxx
    It may be excluding those that do not post on the forum, but you are neglecting the fact that the present system neglects those that give consistently good service to regulars rather than new clients. Over a period of one year to have continual 5 star rating would be a much better indicator than over one month if you want to work it like that? Is it quality or quantity that we are advocating here?

    It's also much less likely that people would engineer reviews to work within the same month if there was not such a brief window of time to achieve the goal. Sex Workers would be looking at long term consistently high service which can only benefit the clients.

    I don't think a sex worker would have to be on the site to be nominated for doing something kind either. It is only the person nominating who would need to do that and if they feel strongly about that act of kindness then they can do that. I have encountered one lady who did not post on here who I found to be very helpful and kind to me when I first worked in Cork and I may have happily of nominated her with a brief description of what she did for me if that had been a possibility. You could then put that nomination on an excel spread sheet and store it until there are 2 more nominations for her (which may never happen) and at that time she would get a 'spot award'.

    I've never really understood why quantity has been rewarded on here. The fact that often the winners are here for short periods of time or don't win a gain for a long period of time shows that it is not about consistency and to be fair it would be crippling to see that many people all the time, so it's not healthy for the sex worker to do that either. In my eyes, it is not showing responsibility, awareness or appreciation for the sex worker and encouraging sex workers to see more clients than perhaps they are comfortable with.

    That might be due to me getting old, but even young sex workers need a break and a bit of 'me' time, even if they have the energy to keep going.

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