Girls phoning you?

[TonyStark]

She rang back so many times to tell you that you are a tool in my opinion. If she is hard to contact she must be good at her job why is nobody else complaining about her ? Just you.

Wahtever white knight

[Mister Anderson]

What I thought, one call was enough and I could have phoned back another time, but twenty ffs

Was she from Youghal? I've probably dated her.

[Lickalotofpuss]

She rang back so many times to tell you that you are a tool in my opinion. If she is hard to contact she must be good at her job why is nobody else complaining about her ? Just you.

Are you for real? How are you interpreting all this? You're a sad man

[bedders1]

I'm not sure how you get that I sound like I was "an asshole", but can't have been that much of an asshole if she rang back so many times. And this is a lady who was hard to contact anyway. If "ok this isn't working goodbye" is being an asshole then you better buckle up you delicate flower.

I agree with AssHunter, I think you could have put it better than "ok this isn't working goodbye". I would think that a bit rude.
I would have said "oh sorry, just remembered I cant make it today, sorry for wasting your time" A little courtsey goes a long way and that way you are also clear about not seeing her today, and therefore wont get the phone calls.
"This isnt working" could be construed as many things
Just a thought, be nice to people and its pays on. Her next client might have got a bad experince because her mood from your encounter could have been off

[Sexy Sandy 69]

How do you guys feel about girls phoning you?

Today I tried to arrange an appointment but the girl seemed a bit frosty so I ended any interest during the phone call. She rang and rang but I couldn't answer as was with company, thankfully the phone was on silent. Exchanged a few texts and got one back saying I was rude and didn't have decency to answer and told me not to respond.

Anyway how do you guys feel with ladies phoning you, if not arranged?

If I have missed a call & it's within an hour, I usually ring back once, either hang up or if the guy answers, I ask him if he's ok to talk. If it's been over an hour, I usually drop a text saying that I can answer calls at the moment. If the guy doesn't ring back, then I don't contact him. Discretion all the way for me. Personally, I think excessive calls from either party are out of order & not acceptable.

Sandy x

[justfrank44]

I agree with AssHunter, I think you could have put it better than "ok this isn't working goodbye". I would think that a bit rude.
I would have said "oh sorry, just remembered I cant make it today, sorry for wasting your time" A little courtsey goes a long way and that way you are also clear about not seeing her today, and therefore wont get the phone calls.
"This isnt working" could be construed as many things
Just a thought, be nice to people and its pays on. Her next client might have got a bad experince because her mood from your encounter could have been off

Not having the full transcript of the call means you are being very judgemental without having the full facts.Maybe she was being unhelpful, either way , "ok this isn't working, goodbye" is not being rude, and does not seem to warrant the subsequent calls he received. But , as I said before, without knowing what exactly was said, we cannot really comment here.

[f1 away]

If I have missed a call & it's within an hour, I usually ring back once, either hang up or if the guy answers, I ask him if he's ok to talk. If it's been over an hour, I usually drop a text saying that I can answer calls at the moment. If the guy doesn't ring back, then I don't contact him. Discretion all the way for me. Personally, I think excessive calls from either party are out of order & not acceptable.

Sandy x

Well said
My sort of lady

[bedders1]

Not having the full transcript of the call means you are being very judgemental without having the full facts.Maybe she was being unhelpful, either way , "ok this isn't working, goodbye" is not being rude, and does not seem to warrant the subsequent calls he received. But , as I said before, without knowing what exactly was said, we cannot really comment here.

he offered a direct quote "ok this isn't working, goodbye". Its not the freindliest message now is it?

[justfrank44]

he offered a direct quote "ok this isn't working, goodbye". Its not the freindliest message now is it?

You have no context for the quote, maybe she started getting abusive, as I said , without the full conversation , you have no idea if it was justified or not.

[bedders1]

You have no context for the quote, maybe she started getting abusive, as I said , without the full conversation , you have no idea if it was justified or not.

frosty "but the girl seemed a bit frosty"