Why I'll never leave a negative review here.

[FatBastard]

I suppose this could happen anywhere reviews are left, but at the time I didn't know how much of the profile the advertisers can see and I didn't want the hassle so I caved. This was a few months ago too.

So I arranged to meet an advertiser at 10am the morning after I called, booking accepted, told to call at 9am to confirm and get general area to head to since I was coming from outside the city and had limited time so if it wasn't going to happen we could rearrange for another time. So I call at 9. No answer. Call at 9.15. Nada. Left a voicemail at 9.30 saying I'm running out of time so leave it till another day. Get a reply 15 mins later sorry they're running late head to X street they'll be ready. Meh, shit happens, people are late I still could squeeze in an hour so I headed to that location, and called. No answer. I get a text a while later saying call for final directions. Guess what, no answer for another 15 mins. So I just texted back sorry I'm out of time we'll have to try again another time. She replied back ok and I went about my business.

So I get home, decide to write out a review filling the option 'arranged but couldn't meet' with a brief outline of what happened, can't remember the exact wording (I should have saved it) but was basically along the lines of 'agreed a time, advertiser had me sitting about over an hour until I was out of time, was disappointed the meet couldn't happen since their profile and mostly positive reviews had me very interested.'

Then the text messages start, from a different phone number. Here's the thread in its entirety:









Note they started at 4am the next morning. So obviously I used a burner phone, the sim went straight out the window, but my email address I've registered with has some identifying information that's why I caved. I initially contacted the mods with the screenshots and said what was going on, they said that the review has to stand and that they will contact the person in question telling them to drop it. Of course teacher telling the bully to stop bullying goes exactly as planned and the threats ramp up. So I go back to the mods with it who finally relented, but only after the advertiser claimed I was over an hour late and that I was harassing them. The screenshots of the original text conversation with time-stamps didn't seem to matter but I understand, it turned into a he said they said shit show so I can understand them just deleting the review and being done with it.

I'm only posting this now as I just put it out of my mind, until in another thread finding out that no, advertisers can't in fact see email addresses anyway so I should have told the person to swivel and let the review stand, but given E-I is based in the UK (isn't it?) my information could be subject of a warrant since I was in the north at the time, and even though I'm pretty sure the advertiser was bluffing, you never know. And even though I done nothing wrong, and have dashcams in my car that would prove I didn't leave it once while in the area, it had the potential to start alot of bullshit I've no interest in dealing with.

So there it is, be careful out there folks, even if someone has a ton of good reviews.

And to conclude, no, I'll not be naming who it was here in the open OR in PM, so don't ask.

[TonyB]

She's some nasty piece of work.

[FatBastard]

She's some nasty piece of work.

Worst of it is, I spent ages trying to craft the review in such a way that it was honest about what happened, but also not accusatory or nasty. Was a bit of a shocker.

[blue rebel]

Worst of it is, I spent ages trying to craft the review in such a way that it was honest about what happened, but also not accusatory or nasty. Was a bit of a shocker.

I agree it was a horrible thing to happen to you and I think she should be named and shamed as
not much point in telling us horror stories if we are none the wiser who the perpetrator is imo.

[FatBastard]

They havn't been advertising in a few weeks anyway, plus it's against the rules.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Worst of it is, I spent ages trying to craft the review in such a way that it was honest about what happened, but also not accusatory or nasty. Was a bit of a shocker.

I have no idea who sent you this but I would have called her bluff and told her to tell the police. You never met her, so what can they do?

[TonyB]

I have no idea who sent you this but I would have called her bluff and told her to tell the police. You never met her, so what can they do?

While I would of told her to F off, but I can certainly understand why many would be worried by shit like this.
If the Police get a complaint they have to act on it, and who wants that grief?

[FatBastard]

I have no idea who sent you this but I would have called her bluff and told her to tell the police. You never met her, so what can they do?

Hindsight and all that, anything for a quiet life.

[Curvaceous Kate]

While I would of told her to F off, but I can certainly understand why many would be worried by shit like this.
If the Police get a complaint they have to act on it, and who wants that grief?

It's not a serious enough thing for a sex worker to jeopardise their work for. Yes I still feel I can rely on the Police in the North should I get abused or hurt in anyway, but they would then know where you work from and anyone making a complaint would only be taken seriously if they are willing to give their real details. You can't just say this phone number is harassing me, arrest them! They would tell you to change your number and let them know if it continues etc.

It's an empty threat.

I have never kept anyone waiting past 10 mins and that is normally if they have arrived early. I don't really understand why some feel it is okay to keep people waiting 30 minutes or more and don't think this is a reason for complaint. Of course you're going to get pissed off. All she had to do is reply under the review to say that she would make it up to him and apologies for the wasted time. Likely he would have seen her again and replaced it with a glowing review. I'm not sure if that is likely to happen now.

Threatening people isn't on. Sex workers get loads of threats from people who need to get a life and having to handle them day in, day out just makes me feel frustrated and they don't actually accomplish anything (normally).

If you really believe there is fault on both sides and that the review isn't fair then take it down, otherwise don't write what you don't believe. Try to be honest and that means by your side of the events as well. If you were being rude on the phone and not just asking directions etc) then state that too. I hate it when guys keep asking me dirty stuff or swearing etc. I'm not going to tell you what I'm going to do to you on the phone. If you want that ring up someone who provides phone sex.

Now FatBastard, I'm taking it you never did any of that?

[FatBastard]

It's difficult enough for me to pick up the phone to begin with. I'm seriously introverted, to the point that if someone asks 'any requests' when making a booking, I clam up and can't say it. And, as I'm fat fuck, I'm already on edge enough that the person would take a look at me out their door and tell me to fuck right off (thankfully that's never happened) - so I always keep it polite and respectful - because that's all I hope for in return. I'm not some big shot with a big wallet that can be out doing this every week, I've saw 3 ladies over 5 years for a total of around 10-12 visits, and genuinely still shit myself when I get the final text to 'come on in' even with someone I've saw recently.

As for the lateness, exactly as you said they way I worded the review I finished with 'I hope we can work it out for next time' or something like that. But now? It'd make me want to stick to those I've saw before and not dip my toe any further in the water.

And it's not that I don't get that shit can come up last minute. It happens, but there was over an hours worth of '2 more minutes call at X' then no answer when we could have easily left it and rescheduled - no issue. I had an appointment booked with a popular woman on here a few weeks ago but found out a couple of days before I was being shipped out of the country for work - so I made my apologies as soon as I knew and the door appears to be still open when shit settles down and I can make a firm booking to see her again. Other than that one time I cancelled I've never once been late or fucked around on the day.

Actually come to think of it, the last lady I saw we'd arranged for a Tuesday appointment. She couldn't make it. Rinse and repeat on Wednesday, and Thursday and we didn't get to meet until the Friday. Did I still see her? Of course, and it was a great time. It's not like I'd want someone on their knees begging forgiveness - just the basic courtesy of 'can't make it how about X time instead.'