Suggestions for a better punt...SEDUCE HER! seriously some of you guys WTF???

[Arthur Guinness]

If I could seduce 'em, I wouldn't have to pay for 'em.

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[philipkntz]

It is the sincerity of how you say it not the sales pitch

My biggest compliment is the look in the eyes when I open the door and they sigh with relief and the eyes light up - I have no pics - no one knows what they are in for -

Compliments are never old or tired, the trying to stay over for free is old

Pay compliments if it feels natural - if it doesn't and you try to force it that would be awkward.

go with the flow is my motto

That look says. Omg, dem boobs are real.
I spent a good hour in your company and I'm still not sure if I'd recognise you on the street. When are you coming back south?

[xagerate]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

Im expecting your review replies to be excellent
Don't let us down

[philipkntz]

It's been mentioned a few times that sometimes clients show up in a bad mood, and at first I was thinking why would anyone visit an escort in a bad mood. then I remembered an escort telling me that her previous client was really hard work, that he was was after walking out of his house after having a row with his wife and had left her so down that she had considered phoning me to cancel our arrangement but decided to go ahead as she knew I was a nice client.
So I wonder how often does it happen that clients show up after having a row with their partner?

[Cassandra]

Then why didn't you address the issues that shocked and appalled you the most on that thread and who made them instead of creating this cringe worthy "Please give me kudos cause i am so respectful like" thread.

There seems to be some sort of fantasy going on by posters on this site where they like to paint sex work in a different light than what it actually is.

And what, oh wise one, is it? Oh no, please do tell, I'm sure you can enlighten all of us...

[laapd]

Perfect right sweetheart x

Oohh , Gosh ... If most of the people will think Like you ...
LOL

What Spunki is saying is another extreme. Which is not good either. I think escorts should be respected but I don't think most escorts want to be seduced. It's all well and good to be nice and respectful and a bit of chat about the weather. I think that is where it should end. Getting too personal and trying hard to please the escort beyond the business relationship is so far as I'm concerned inappropriate. It's a bit different from picking up a girl that you hoping to build something long term. I think some punters see escorts as their de facto girl friends. Most punters however have their families and they just escape for a little fun and don't like to appear to be too involved. Even on subconscious level, it brings along some guilty feeling. On the other hand most escorts prefer a more business relationship but to be treated with respect. They also have their personal life's and they don't want to get too involved either. At least majority of them. I know some regulars feel too attached to the escorts they see. We just have to keep it simple

[tom rambo]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

I like what you are saying respect is the way to go,but if I started this thread I don't like to think what would be said to me,but Fair play to you

[philipkntz]

Maybe not a bad temper but certainly highly stressed from work, interviews, travelling, someone ill, that is quite usual.

I love seeing a tired, stressed person come in and having to tell them to remember not to look too happy going out or people will be asking what they were up to.

I have to watch that one myself, many of my visits to Dublin escorts, are combined with driving people to medical appointments or visiting family and friends in hospital. I've had an inappropriate smile on my face a few times.

[circumcised guy]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

Well said lad you deserve a clap on the back for that post. The ladies here are like every other ladies they like to be spoilt and seduced and go be told how beautiful they are exceptionally beautiful intact going by my experiences. And they deserve to be shown the utmost respect. Alright I hold my hand up and admit I'm no Casanova and not great at seduction but I've always shown the ladies I've seen the greatest respect and I've received exactly the same right back. Some guys think just because their paying to spend time with the ladies that they can call all the shots and Don't realise that their with real human beings who have feelings and if they treat them like crap then they only deserve the same treatment back.

[scouserpete]

the rules are pretty simple, be a gentleman, be clean, spotless in all those hard to reach areas, be on time, be nice, give her the respect she deserves, and then you will have a wonderful experience, we are all human, we all have feelings, and we all want to have a good time, so if you treat the ladies here the way they deserve, like ladies, the fun will be had by all.