Suggestions for a better punt...SEDUCE HER! seriously some of you guys WTF???

[TonyB]

I'm crap at talking to women.
Seduce her ??? If I knew anything about seducing women I wouldn't have to pay for it.

[funlover12]

Does it not get old hearing that all the time? It's what unfortunately makes me clam up because what can you say to genuinely compliment someone that isn't some tired old cringy cliche that they're sick of hearing?

"nice curtains but they will look better later on after I wipe my cock on them "

[FatBastard]

I'm crap at talking to women.
Seduce her ??? If I knew anything about seducing women I wouldn't have to pay for it.

You and me both Tony, it's not that you don't appreciate what they're doing it just that it sounds awkward or cringey.

[Best Before]

you've gone all Soppy again......

The calm, before the storm perhaps

[FatBastard]

It is the sincerity of how you say it not the sales pitch

My biggest compliment is the look in the eyes when I open the door and they sigh with relief and the eyes light up - I have no pics - no one knows what they are in for -

Being totally lost socially makes the sales pitch hard to come across as genuine, I feel. And when the door opens I end up more panicked for a split second that person standing there is exactly who's on the profile and the sudden realisation that holy shit, I'm actually here.

Compliments are never old or tired, the trying to stay over for free is old

Pay compliments if it feels natural - if it doesn't and you try to force it that would be awkward.

go with the flow is my motto

Good way to look at things there.

Hopefully with a few more visits I'll learn to relax and enjoy it more. I appreciate your insight.

[Bongo]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

Then why didn't you address the issues that shocked and appalled you the most on that thread and who made them instead of creating this cringe worthy "Please give me kudos cause i am so respectful like" thread.

There seems to be some sort of fantasy going on by posters on this site where they like to paint sex work in a different light than what it actually is.

[Mr Cuddles]

I'm crap at talking to women.
Seduce her ??? If I knew anything about seducing women I wouldn't have to pay for it.

x3

however, I have found that my time with the girls here has made me much more confident and I find myself complementing a companion on how well she looks or how impressive her achievements are, without thinking or feeling awkward

[Arthur Guinness]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

Couldn't agree more with your post mate and you should be applauded for your contribution.
But I feel my thread got lost in translation with you.

See below at no point has anything I have said in my opening post disagreed with anything you have posted.
I posted about seeing a favourite number of ladies and the inaccurate reviews on the site
At no stage have I ever being disrespectful to Escorts or not tried my best to make the lady feel special.


"After another disappointing appointment today I think I will change my punting ways.

There are 4 top class ladies that I have seen in the past and I think this is the way forward.

At least then a fella is guaranteed a good experience.

I'm Tired of going on the reviews that well reviewed posters leave on here as their clearly on a different page than me.

I'm surprised that there is not more posts about this obviously people are either easily pleased, afraid to voice their opinion or just cant be arsed."

[spunki]

Couldn't agree more with your post mate and you should be applauded for your contribution.
But I feel my thread got lost in translation with you.

See below at no point has anything I have said in my opening post disagreed with anything you have posted.
I posted about seeing a favourite number of ladies and the inaccurate reviews on the site
At no stage have I ever being disrespectful to Escorts or not tried my best to make the lady feel special.


"After another disappointing appointment today I think I will change my punting ways.

There are 4 top class ladies that I have seen in the past and I think this is the way forward.

At least then a fella is guaranteed a good experience.

I'm Tired of going on the reviews that well reviewed posters leave on here as their clearly on a different page than me.

I'm surprised that there is not more posts about this obviously people are either easily pleased, afraid to voice their opinion or just cant be arsed."

Nothing wrong with your post, it was more this type of thing that made think

Is OWO an option?
4. Location.............is it in an area that I like to punt in?
5. Do I feel attracted to this particular escort?
6. Has she acquired any BAD reviews? and why?
7. Are the breasts natural? I find that some girls with silicone are more interested in their breasts than in my cock. (I'm paying)
8. While I prefer when "English Good" it isn't a deal breaker.

[MisterSmith8091]

reading through the "time for a new take on punting", im quite appalled and shocked. Yep, Shocked AND appalled.

Do you guys apply the same criteria for chatting up non escorts? I think not, so why apply them to an escort?

Escorts are PEOPLE, with feelings and humour and everything else.

Treat em like a robot and thats what you will get!

I treat escorts no differently to non escorts.

A bit of banter, being friendly, goes a long way. It does not matter if you are paying for her company, seduce her!

compliment her, make her feel safe and like a million dollars and NOT like a hooker and your chances of a good punt increase 100%
You chose her because she is beautiful, so treat her like it!
A small gift does go a long way, exchange a few pm's find out what she likes (Maya x loved chocolate)

of course you get a few who dont respond, but man, treating her like you own her like a piece of meat is not the way to go, so what if you have paid for her, its really no different than taking a lady out to dinner and you dont treat them like a piece of meat

so what if its an illusion, escape with her into it, 30 mins or 1 hour of escapism with beautiful lady who is a sure thing, yes she wants your money but she is capable of enjoying it as well so make it so for her.

Make her laugh, go in with your best happy attitude (and why wouldnt you, you are about to spend quality time with a goddess)

I guarantee you she will be thinking oh I wish all my punters were like him!

go for it guys, adjust your attitude and have a better punt

good luck out there!

Fucking this 100%, I totally and absolutely agree bud