Giving it a go

[Brianmcginn]

My girlfriend has been talking more and more lately about wanting to be with another man, now I'm all for it and excited about it but still nervous at the same time, we are a young couple in our twenties and we are going on holiday soon and thought that would be a perfect time to do it, but before we dive right in we want to ease into it and maybe start off with me watching her giving a blowjob or something, just to see what's like before we go all the way. I was just wondering has anybody any experience with this? And any advice would be appreciated. And also we haven't got a third person to join us so pm me with some details tell us a bit about yourself and you never know what might happen.

[Petros]

My girlfriend has been talking more and more lately about wanting to be with another man, now I'm all for it and excited about it but still nervous at the same time, we are a young couple in our twenties and we are going on holiday soon and thought that would be a perfect time to do it, but before we dive right in we want to ease into it and maybe start off with me watching her giving a blowjob or something, just to see what's like before we go all the way. I was just wondering has anybody any experience with this? And any advice would be appreciated. And also we haven't got a third person to join us so pm me with some details tell us a bit about yourself and you never know what might happen.

This is an are where I have zero experience - but may I ask, are you really comfortable with watching her with someone else? What about if it was the other way around - you with another girl? Has that been discussed at all? Maybe it would be better to share with another couple?

[Brianmcginn]

We haven't tried it yet so I don't really know myself, but we have both been fantasising about it for a long time, and iv been giving the go ahead for a threesome with another girl aswell just waiting on that to come to fruition

[ford pefect]

I also have this fantasy, but I think I will leave it as a fantasy , if you and your girlfriend are going to be a long term item I would advise you to also keep it as a fantasy.

[Liberty Love]

My advise is to go for it. It's only sex!
People get so hung up on it!

[Mr Sweet Guy]

My advice is don't do it.

I was in the same situation with my first love.

Great! She wanted to be with another girl. I thought all my birthdays had come at once and didn't need any persuading. Anyway I was cheating on her with everybody including escorts, no harm you would think?

I could not have been more wrong.

I only found out how deep my feelings were for her once we had the threesome and they developed feelings for each other.

The whole thing is messy and you need to ask yourself do you care about her?

If the answer is no and she is not your life partner I say go for it.

If the answer is yes you should be asking yourself why does she want this? Whats lacking in our relationship?

I don't think you are that sure yourself by the fact that you are asking the question on here in the first place.

Wow Irishdeltaforce that sad to hear your first love falling for someone else.
Life know when to kick you down and must hurt like hell to move on.
Probably today you question yourself why did I done it or allow it to happen.
Been there myself and honestly your feeling or Love for them never leave you, as their always in your thought at times.

Fecking suck when you like someone and for some reason you can't date them
or both you can't date, as life is complicated with so many reason.

Like your case your first Love fell for someone else and it took a threesome to realise how much you Love and want to be with her.
It thing like another person come into your relationship when you realise you want to be with them for life, but then it can be too late as could had push them away to another person.

So I say to that chap if your relationship is strong, then don't consider it or act upon.
Cause it end in heartache and heartbreak for one or you both.
If you truly love or have strong feeling for each other then try role play

[Cannonshot88]

ease into it and maybe start off with me watching her giving a blowjob

would love to be your man for that
i'm 26
but only problem is id want my identity kept secret.....

[TonyB]

I have done this many times with different people.
Personally I love it.
Occasionally jealously has caused real awkwardness and in one or two cases aggression.
My advise is make very sure it is definitely what you both want and if so then go for it.
It really is the best fun