Cancelling an appointment at the last minute

[SteveB]

I give a location landmark never an address never ever text address

Too many messers around wanting to know where you are with no intention of coming, could be reporters or anyone

I. never ask for an exact location, just a general location to be at, at the appointed time, too much emphasis on the exact location may put the person off, but I usually have an idea of where I am going anyway.
If a hotel, you will usually be told its name alright.

I started asking for a location after I had met a girl at a location that I particularly didn’t like.
The next escort I booked after that sent me to the same area. I went but thought that if I had known where it was I wouldn’t have booked.
It was after that I started to ask for a location.
I know it may not be a good idea, but as I said, no-one seems to mind.
I am concerned that most escorts prioritise money over security (their security and their clients) but that seems to be the way it is.

[SteveB]

I. never ask for an exact location, just a general location to be at, at the appointed time, too much emphasis on the exact location may put the person off, but I usually have an idea of where I am going anyway.
If a hotel, you will usually be told its name alright.

Yes, and that is another story;

[alcatel]

Yes, and that is another story;

Yes, it's called lots and lots of experience and mostly staying in the same part of the country.

[TonyB]

Well for me there's areas of some towns that I don't punt in, theres even areas that i wouldnt even park my car in. There's also a lot of hotels that I'm well known in.

Yes but you'd know this when you get the directions initially and would cancel then. Not on the door step at the last minute.

[annabel taylor]

Don't be shocked the day your number put on Gumtree selling a sold out concert or match for cheap quick sale

[annabel taylor]

I don't have time to read it all but just now I texted my 11.15 booking asking was he near, he replied cant cme

No cancellation so is he one of the many many pimps booking to run girls out of town

Cancel in good time or pay

I doubt it's pimps Joe

[MidlifeCrisis]

I. never ask for an exact location, just a general location to be at, at the appointed time, too much emphasis on the exact location may put the person off, but I usually have an idea of where I am going anyway.
If a hotel, you will usually be told its name alright.

I often ask for a suggestion where to park. The answer is usually a car park at a hotel or shopping centre. That lets me work out when I need to leave and also lets me plan somewhere to freshen up .

[Dom Dunn]

I give a location landmark never an address never ever text address

Too many messers around wanting to know where you are with no intention of coming, could be reporters or anyone

A problem I have often encountered is girls who have very poor English and are unable to give accurate directions over even quite short distances. I recently encountered this problem when I contacted a lady from a Luas stop that I had been directed to. That is when the fun started. After almost an hour searching and 4 or 5 conversations I finally located her app complex which was less than a minutes walk from the tram stop. It is a very large complex with hundreds of units and she was then unable to give good directions about finding her room. I had to abandon the punt as I was in danger of missing the last train home. A text (some girls do this) would have greatly simplified matters and both parties would have met up. I appreciate the security risks attached to giving out such details but for some it is necessary or they will lose potential custom.

[duppyc0nqueror]

On the topic of location I'd like a bit of advice. It's interesting to see the comments on here but I've got to say it is an issue.

I'm in Belfast. (That ought to say it all, eh?).
It's a small town and a couple of locations are used. Even before the law change I was always wary about going there - if I know about them then I'm pretty sure loads of people & even the authorities know about them. It's made me much more reluctant to visit.
& of course there are areas where I just wouldn't go anyway, or if I did it would be the one time & while it was in the only thing that was on my mind was being in that particular area..
Obviously hotels and out calls are ideal but sometimes that's not possible..

So I guess I'm saying, I do tend to seek out some info on the location before I can commit.. The girls usually provide the post code and from there I'd know the lay of the land and whether to proceed or not.

[philipkntz]

Yes but you'd know this when you get the directions initially and would cancel then. Not on the door step at the last minute.

You try phoning and explaining that you will be driving 30 minutes or longer and trying to make sure that she answers the phone again to you at the appropriate time and you get " yeah, I'm in Portlaoise/ Kilkenny/Whatever baby, phone me again when you get to town. I did have one occasion where I explained that I could not visit a hotel in a particular town but the final directions brought me straight to that hotel.
I've also had one occasion that an escort thats responded to this thread, didn't show for an incall appointment. Phoned her once every half hour for 2 hours, to be told that she had been on an outcall when she took the short notice appointment and she couldn't get a taxi back, then said "O I didn't thought you'd be gone to someone else when I texted you that I was running late and I have another client on the way now.