Longtime user, first-time poster. I was in an awkward situation this evening and I want to post about it because I think itís important.
I made an appointment to meet a girl tonight at eight. I wonít name the girl, the name doesnít matter. I rang her an hour ahead of time, made the appointment and she texted on the address. Great.
I went to the address for eight and rang again. She answered, and said sheíd text on the house number. And then I got concerned.
I texted her a shit cancellation excuse and got an angry text back, which is fine. The excuse was shit. Iíd be angry too. The real reason I cancelled is because I was worried that the girl Iíd meet wouldnít be the girl Iíd been talking to on the phone.
That happened me once before and I hated it. I had no idea if the girl wanted to be there or not, and that isnít right.
So I backed out. If youíre the girl in question and Iíve misjudged your situation, Iím very sorry. This is my real reason. I know itís a pain for girls when people make hoax appointments, or donít show up, or mess around like that. But if the situation repeated Iíd do what I did again, rather than go through with an experience that I had doubts about. Iím interested in other peopleís thoughts on this.