Sex toys, etiquette, and escorts

[Amy Alison]

Good point, I hadn't considered that. Would that not also work in reverse for clients letting escorts use their toys on them?

My opinion is a bit different. If it's for client use, clients can bring any toys they like.
It's not a big deal for an escort to pick up the toy by the part that never goes inside and slide a condom on it. Or use gloves or whatever else works.

Clients brining their own toys are very few tho. In 6 years of work I only had one such situation, as far as I remember.

If it's for escort use, yes, toys have to be personal or brand new in an untouched box.

And regarding the "reverse" situation from your question, technically, as escorts we should know better and desinfect any sex toys after each single use.
Plus, it's a lot more easier to get an infection on that particular part of a woman comparing to having anal play.

[TwistedTransistor]

My opinion is a bit different. If it's for client use, clients can bring any toys they like.
It's not a big deal for an escort to pick up the toy by the part that never goes inside and slide a condom on it. Or use gloves or whatever else works.

Clients brining their own toys are very few tho. In 6 years of work I only had one such situation, as far as I remember.

If it's for escort use, yes, toys have to be personal or brand new in an untouched box.

And regarding the "reverse" situation from your question, technically, as escorts we should know better and desinfect any sex toys after each single use.
Plus, it's a lot more easier to get an infection on that particular part of a woman comparing to having anal play.

Thank you for the detailed answer Amy, very much appreciated.

The reason for this thread is that it's something I'd like to try. My last gf introduced me to the wonders of prostate play. Some of the most memorable orgasms I've ever had were between her legs with either a finger or toy in my ass. There's been quite a few with prostate play and nothing else, I'm of the opinion that the prostate is the male G spot. It's a bit hard to pick up on how acceptable any of this is with escorts so I do appreciate the input.

[ClarkKent]

The Mrs. brings toys for herself and this has never been a problem. The rule for using the escorts toys seems to be that a condom must be on it; I imagine if a lady was amendable to using your toy the same rule would apply.

[WatWatWat]

No one else gets to touch my Lego. Let alone play with it ffs.

[The Libertarian]

You can hardly expect an escort to use sex toyz you brought with you as she doesn't know where it's been! The same with an unwrapped box of condoms, which a client may bring!

[J4you]

I've only ever used toys at home with the missus. Never brought one to an escorts session. I think I'd love for an escorts to massage me while taking me with a strap on. Now that's a service I would find awesome........If not really difficult to find..

[Amy Alison]

Thank you for the detailed answer Amy, very much appreciated.

The reason for this thread is that it's something I'd like to try. My last gf introduced me to the wonders of prostate play. Some of the most memorable orgasms I've ever had were between her legs with either a finger or toy in my ass. There's been quite a few with prostate play and nothing else, I'm of the opinion that the prostate is the male G spot. It's a bit hard to pick up on how acceptable any of this is with escorts so I do appreciate the input.

I used to do prostate massages on a regular basis some time back and I know what you mean.
But given the choice between a prostate massager or my finger (carefully wrapped in a condom), most clients actually decided the finger was the way to go.

[TwistedTransistor]

You can hardly expect an escort to use sex toyz you brought with you as she doesn't know where it's been! The same with an unwrapped box of condoms, which a client may bring!

For the sake of clarity, I'm not talking about bringing a sex toy and expecting an escort to use it on herself. I was raised better than that.

How is what I've stated above not clear to you?

I used to do prostate massages on a regular basis some time back and I know what you mean.
But given the choice between a prostate massager or my finger (carefully wrapped in a condom), most clients actually decided the finger was the way to go.

Either one is good but something like the Lelo has the advantage of being hands free which introduces new possibilities. Plus that remote control thing is awesome.