Seriously Guys WTF !!!

[redforever]

Im still relitivly new to all this still (only about 4/5 weeks) but ive noticed in last week or 2 the posts have started to get abit more out there.

I have no problem what so ever with anyones fetish each to there own. If we was all the same the world would be one dull place. Hell i got few fetishes of my own nothing major quite tame really.

BUT...

i dont agree with the shitty comments about the ladies on here. If you have a problem with escorts DONT USE A ESCORT SITE. And as for the recent request thats been out up about used condoms which im sure you have all seem well like i said wach to their own but keep my man juice out of it.

And what's your opinion on punters telling escorts that her pics don't do her justice and she should change them

Even though the punter has never met the girl in question

[TriplexXx]

Just a quick add on to my last comment...

I do think that if we go on so much about escorts verifying who they are then there should be some verification system for clients aswell. I know you can get refrences but anyone can write you a refrence. I mean some way EI themselves can verify who you say you are.

Just a thought

[justfrank44]

I must admit that I look at the clients requests sometimes and wonder what type of people are out there. yes, it might be difficult at times to draw the line between what some people deem to be acceptable or not. What 2 consenting adults agree to is their own business at the end of the day, regardless of whether or not money changes hands. I would consider myself to be reasonably open minded and non judgemental, I think since I started to use the services on this site you have to be. But some of the requests are very degrading, it does not reflect well on the vast majority of clients or escorts to see some of these requests. I think an awful lot of us would have to admit that we had a different view of escorting before we actually started using escorts ourselves. The ladies services are clearly advertised. The vast majority of clients requests, particular the stranger ones, are from people who post little or nothing on the site. Are they more established punters under another name? Or are they just chancing there arm? I think there needs to be some sort of vetting system for clients requests, I think members need to be a little bit established before they can make a request. That might sort out some of the nonsense.

Why do we need a vetting system??? It is only a request If escorts don't want to do it , they don't have to reply to the request. I have seen programmes on recently about people who like to dress up and act like dogs, another where people like to dress up as babies and have their dirty nappies changed. Now that is not for me, but a lot of people are into that , and good for them . No one is being hurt or exploited so what's the harm. This is an adult site for adult pleasures, what's the problem?

[justfrank44]

Oh nothing like i said each to their own theres alot more wierd fetishes out there then dressing as babies and dogs lol but the thing about verifying who a client is would be just for everyone peace of mind... i saw thing on internet while ago about a guy looking to act out a dominant fantasy (dont like using the R word but im sure you can out 2 and 2 together)

It turned out this guy was actually convicted of this sort of crime in past and the women he waa contacting had no way of knowing who the helk he was untill he walked through the door and it was too late.

Me personaly think that ye ita a adult site and ye the main priority is been safe. I would just say it would make things alot more enjoyable on the ladies sidenof things if they can just get abit of verification on who the hell they are meeting. Then you know maybe just maybe that piece of mind might just be reflected in the service.

So , how do you propose to verify identities while protecting those identities? I for one would not be interested in taking that sort of risk. And I would imagine 99% of the users here would be the same.

[lapd]

that crack whore is a person too and deserves some respect too, if i dont like what i see i just move on

I respect everyone including crack whores ,until they give me a reason not too,just some of crap on here is getting way overboard, again only my opinion but what next dirty nappies.

[TriplexXx]

So , how do you propose to verify identities while protecting those identities? I for one would not be interested in taking that sort of risk. And I would imagine 99% of the users here would be the same.

Honestly dont know but i would say you could opt in or out just like the escorts can then its up to the escorts to take the risk just like its up to us to take the risk... there has to be a way

I know not everyone is going to agree and to be honest i dont really care lol im not one for been all nice to people just to keep the peace and follow the crowd.

[David Feckem]

I am not trying to impose my views,just stating the way I feel,?

I respect everyone including crack whores ,until they give me a reason not too,just some of crap on here is getting way overboard, again only my opinion but what next dirty nappies.

You don't seem to realise you are trying to impose your opinion of correct sexual behaviour on other posters. If you find it disgusting you label it disrespectful. So what if a client wants a clean nappy or a dirty nappy, some sploshing, watersports, scat or anything else. If they word the request respectfully I really don't see the problem.

[Cortez]

Why do we need a vetting system??? It is only a request If escorts don't want to do it , they don't have to reply to the request. I have seen programmes on recently about people who like to dress up and act like dogs, another where people like to dress up as babies and have their dirty nappies changed. Now that is not for me, but a lot of people are into that , and good for them . No one is being hurt or exploited so what's the harm. This is an adult site for adult pleasures, what's the problem?

I would agree with the vast majority of what you say but there has to be a point where the line is drawn, what If a guy came on the site saying he wanted to have sex with with someone at knife point or gun point, or would like to inflict pain or harm, would that be acceptable? Maybe vetting is the wrong word but if a client had a profile where he had a few reviews then at the very least an escort could contact one of his previous reviewees to see if that guy was genuine. I often wonder how many of the clients requests get answered or even looked at in general, not many I suspect, I would say most escorts don't even look at this section.

[justfrank44]

I would agree with the vast majority of what you say but there has to be a point where the line is drawn, what If a guy came on the site saying he wanted to have sex with with someone at knife point or gun point, or would like to inflict pain or harm, would that be acceptable? Maybe vetting is the wrong word but if a client had a profile where he had a few reviews then at the very least an escort could contact one of his previous reviewees to see if that guy was genuine. I often wonder how many of the clients requests get answered or even looked at in general, not many I suspect, I would say most escorts don't even look at this section.

But isin't this already possible?And in the case of a client with no reviews, the escort can ignore the request as they already do.

[Cortez]

But isin't this already possible?And in the case of a client with no reviews, the escort can ignore the request as they already do.

They can and do ignore them. That doesn't make it less degrading for them to have to see them.