ClarkKent and ShadowEmpress

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Dear CK and SE,
How did you decide that you want to expand your intimate group and how long after your relationship started

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Dear CK and SE,
how would you describe your threesomes experiences regarding your relationship besides the fun/pleasure part

[ana massage]

Dear CK and SE,
does it involves some kinky stuff?! Please do share some of them

[ShadowEmpress]

Dear CK and SE,
How did you decide that you want to expand your intimate group and how long after your relationship started

The initial idea sort of popped up after we first got married, so we had already been together for just over two years at that point. We aren't into any of the "scenes" so to speak, but are pretty adventurous so it was just one of topics that was bound to come up as a conversation at some time. While it certainly had an appeal (because what's "naughtier" than a threesome?) we ended up deciding not to pursue it then, because we valued our relationship more than anything and recognized that while we had been together for a while, we were still newlyweds. Looking back, we both agreed we made the right call then. Would our relationship have survived should we have gone through with it then? Yes, probably, but it probably wouldn't have gone quite so smoothly and may have as a result shut the door on that avenue for good. We are actually celebrating our 5th anniversary this weekend, so we have certainly had the time to get cozy with the idea of expanding our relationship, and are both very comfortable with it now. Lots of honest discussions! Being new to things of course we still get nervous, but it's not about each other and more so meeting our new partners; it's a bit like trying to date again after being a couple for 7 years!

Now we didn't just table the discussion, and then wake up one morning 5 years later and decide to pursue a third party. We flirted with the idea a bit, you can kind of test the boundaries in other ways first. Nothing can completely prepare you for taking that new step but it certainly helped us. And while we were prepared in case either of us experienced unexpected jealousy after our first encounter, we talked and were very pleasantly surprised how ok we were with everything. Not everyone in a couple is always going to be on the same page, but we were fortunate in that regard I suppose.

[ClarkKent]

Dear CK and SE,
how would you describe your threesomes experiences regarding your relationship besides the fun/pleasure part

Well we didn't jump straight away into it. We've always been the odd pair and have been intrigued by things strange and taboo. Yet at the same time we've been married for a few years, so we have a strong foundation from which we can try new things and still be comfortable. A while ago we tried out going to strip clubs together. Turns out we had a great time, no issues. Somewhat more recently at a strip club, we had a VIP experience with two ladies, and us, together. It was incredibly hot. Afterwards we talked and found that neither one of us had any regrets or mixed feelings.

It wasn't until very recently that we thought about seeing an escort (partially because we didn't know it was legal). We had talked about a threesome, and discussed each others boundaries. We agreed on no males, no wife swapping, no "adventures" which left one of us out. Our concern with a "civilian" lady joining us was any awkward emotional attachments or conflicts. What if the girl started calling one of us or was pursuing one of us and excluding the other? What if the girl was not purely bi, and through leaning one way or the other in bed, again left someone out. We didn't want any potential feelings of resentment, any potential stalkers (we've both dealt with this!), and or any drama. And we weren't sure how to find someone that we clicked with. As it turned out, this site provided us with everything we were looking for, with none of the hangups.

Our first adventure was with the lovely Sarah. I can't speak for Shadow but I can say my heart was POUNDING. I'm on my way to meet another lady, and not only does my wife know about it, but she's coming too?! Super duper uber nervous. No judgments against anyone here but I've never had any interest in straying. To be honest I was very worried that maybe this was a mistake, that it wouldn't work out, that my wife would feel jealous or not included. I'm sure Sarah was a little worried to haha, I mean I get the impression that there's not a lot of us couples out there (I think seriouslyhot was the only one we've talked to). Bless her heart, Sarah was amazing. Neither one of us was left out, it was a great experience, AND I had a couple new songs to add to one of my playlists The next morning we talked about everything and found that we had no jealousy issues at all. In fact Shadow already had some ideas for the next adventure haha. I was still nervous our second time but through two adventures now we have woken up the next morning with no regrets and no worries. We have a great relationship. We go to the gym together, we go on dates, we socialize with other people and have what I would consider a normal, positive relationship.

For us what makes this threesome experience work is having three equal partners. That's our goal when we are looking for someone to share the evening with us. We are fairly strict with what we look for. The usual photos and reviews, but being listed as bi and having couples listed are also priorities. I think with those prerequisites it makes it much more likely for us to have a positive experience. We had to reschedule with Emma so we're actually making a few calls right now

[blue rebel]

Well we didn't jump straight away into it. We've always been the odd pair and have been intrigued by things strange and taboo. Yet at the same time we've been married for a few years, so we have a strong foundation from which we can try new things and still be comfortable. A while ago we tried out going to strip clubs together. Turns out we had a great time, no issues. Somewhat more recently at a strip club, we had a VIP experience with two ladies, and us, together. It was incredibly hot. Afterwards we talked and found that neither one of us had any regrets or mixed feelings.

It wasn't until very recently that we thought about seeing an escort (partially because we didn't know it was legal). We had talked about a threesome, and discussed each others boundaries. We agreed on no males, no wife swapping, no "adventures" which left one of us out. Our concern with a "civilian" lady joining us was any awkward emotional attachments or conflicts. What if the girl started calling one of us or was pursuing one of us and excluding the other? What if the girl was not purely bi, and through leaning one way or the other in bed, again left someone out. We didn't want any potential feelings of resentment, any potential stalkers (we've both dealt with this!), and or any drama. And we weren't sure how to find someone that we clicked with. As it turned out, this site provided us with everything we were looking for, with none of the hangups.

Our first adventure was with the lovely Sarah. I can't speak for Shadow but I can say my heart was POUNDING. I'm on my way to meet another lady, and not only does my wife know about it, but she's coming too?! Super duper uber nervous. No judgments against anyone here but I've never had any interest in straying. To be honest I was very worried that maybe this was a mistake, that it wouldn't work out, that my wife would feel jealous or not included. I'm sure Sarah was a little worried to haha, I mean I get the impression that there's not a lot of us couples out there (I think seriouslyhot was the only one we've talked to). Bless her heart, Sarah was amazing. Neither one of us was left out, it was a great experience, AND I had a couple new songs to add to one of my playlists The next morning we talked about everything and found that we had no jealousy issues at all. In fact Shadow already had some ideas for the next adventure haha. I was still nervous our second time but through two adventures now we have woken up the next morning with no regrets and no worries. We have a great relationship. We go to the gym together, we go on dates, we socialize with other people and have what I would consider a normal, positive relationship.

For us what makes this threesome experience work is having three equal partners. That's our goal when we are looking for someone to share the evening with us. We are fairly strict with what we look for. The usual photos and reviews, but being listed as bi and having couples listed are also priorities. I think with those prerequisites it makes it much more likely for us to have a positive experience. We had to reschedule with Emma so we're actually making a few calls right now

Hi Clark did you know or did shadow know that she was Bi before ye got married?.

[ShadowEmpress]

Dear CK and SE,
does it involves some kinky stuff?! Please do share some of them

Haha, I guess that depends on what you consider kinky or not! Now we don't have a dungeon or anything haha, but playing with things like blindfolds or light restraints is fun (or those silly feather tickler things.) I don't personally consider any of that particularly kinky, just some fun variety.

We are still meeting people, so nothing like that has come up yet. Should we get the chance to see someone a few times and build a bit more chemistry, it could be fun. We have both definitely noticed when ladies list "tie and tease" in their favorites, we've looked at each other and gone "yeah, that could be reeeeaaally hot". (As someone who is a self-professed enthusiast of the tease-and-torment-your-husband-game, the idea of having an ally in said teasing has a lot of appeal, and well I don't think he has complaints of that idea either!)

[tom sand]

hi clark
hi ShadowEmpress's i really hope you have a sword to go with that name
how come Clark
in this life
some guys have all the luck ????
welcome the 2 of you

[ana massage]

Dear CK and SE,

Would you care describing a bit more the fun of a threesome?!

That is only if you guys want to,it is more for my curiosity as I have never experienced all together but only seperatly

[ana massage]

Dear CK and SE,

What would be the decisive aspects of the girl for you both to make a choice?
Would you say meeting with an escort is less hassle or expectations rather then hooking up with a girl outdoors,as a couple of course?!
Is this just a transitory episode or you guys would think doing it as long as you want/can?