Extras etiquette?

[ClarkKent]

I did. Just waiting for it to be approved.

[philipkntz]

Personally i never ask whats included/extra on the phone. If I'm meeting someone for the first time, I like to book a 30 minute appointment as a get to know you experience. Most times its worth the €100.

[Barney Rubble]

I did. Just waiting for it to be approved.

Look forward to reading your review !!

[ClarkKent]

Personally i never ask whats included/extra on the phone. If I'm meeting someone for the first time, I like to book a 30 minute appointment as a get to know you experience. Most times its worth the €100.

We asked for 30 minutes with the option to extend for an additional hour if we were all clicking. We clicked.

[ShadowEmpress]

Personally i never ask whats included/extra on the phone. If I'm meeting someone for the first time, I like to book a 30 minute appointment as a get to know you experience. Most times its worth the €100.

We asked for 30 minutes with the option to extend for an additional hour if we were all clicking. We clicked.

Oh absolutely, for us we like knowing that there is some chemistry and it is absolutely worth having a 30 min get to know you experience. I guess my question would be, if you do this, when do you ask about extras (or do you ask at all?) When booking the second appointment? I guess another factor would be what if they were only in town for a limited time, and only had room in their schedule to see us once? We really enjoyed booking a definite 30 min appointment with the possibility of extending, so again there is sort of the question when do you ask if not when booking.

I think our concern would be letting things flow as they may, perhaps having a very amazing night, only to be somehow unprepared for extras. We have only had one (amazing!) experience so far, so we don't know what to expect as far as charges for extras go. Our escort Sarah was very understanding of us being new, and told us that her favorites were included (we paid extra as a couple, and we were completely expecting that and understood!) So we are still a little lost when it comes to those who may charge for extras in the future... We aren't going to turn up with only 20euro extra in our pocket, but we are kind of going, "Is 100 enough? Do we need to bring double our rate?" We just don't know due to our inexperience.

Personally, it is just in my nature to treat other people with respect and politeness, and I certainly get the appeal of just not asking at all... But at the same time, I recognize it may be worth it to be a bit more "professional" when booking, and be prepared for if your appointment turns out to be wonderful.... rather than to have a beautiful time, only to have that experience perhaps soured a bit by unpreparedness (that's not fun for anyone.) I guess that is one of my biggest fears as far as things that could go wrong, which is why I started this thread to get advice and learn what others recommend

[philipkntz]

Oh absolutely, for us we like knowing that there is some chemistry and it is absolutely worth having a 30 min get to know you experience. I guess my question would be, if you do this, when do you ask about extras (or do you ask at all?) When booking the second appointment? I guess another factor would be what if they were only in town for a limited time, and only had room in their schedule to see us once? We really enjoyed booking a definite 30 min appointment with the possibility of extending, so again there is sort of the question when do you ask if not when booking.

I think our concern would be letting things flow as they may, perhaps having a very amazing night, only to be somehow unprepared for extras. We have only had one (amazing!) experience so far, so we don't know what to expect as far as charges for extras go. Our escort Sarah was very understanding of us being new, and told us that her favorites were included (we paid extra as a couple, and we were completely expecting that and understood!) So we are still a little lost when it comes to those who may charge for extras in the future... We aren't going to turn up with only 20euro extra in our pocket, but we are kind of going, "Is 100 enough? Do we need to bring double our rate?" We just don't know due to our inexperience.

Personally, it is just in my nature to treat other people with respect and politeness, and I certainly get the appeal of just not asking at all... But at the same time, I recognize it may be worth it to be a bit more "professional" when booking, and be prepared for if your appointment turns out to be wonderful.... rather than to have a beautiful time, only to have that experience perhaps soured a bit by unpreparedness (that's not fun for anyone.) I guess that is one of my biggest fears as far as things that could go wrong, which is why I started this thread to get advice and learn what others recommend

Usually on a first appointment, I let the escort decide the pace, often getting more than I expected. It's been years since I've been asked for extra cash, but I only visit classy ladied.
I find the chat afterwards a great time to discuss the next appointment, she knows I'm not a time waster by then. I do not discuss such things on the phone other than shared showers/bathroom fun, nice to know if the shower is built for 2 or they might like time to run a bath/heat water.
Can be a problem if she's moving on soon, you have to think is she worth travelling for, or will you wait for her to tour your area again. Ireland is a small country, personally I travel upto 100 miles to see the right lady, that covers most of this island.
I do not show up to a first appointment with excess money unless it's a lady that I'm very sure of. Saying that, I've never been robbed in this country but had a bad experience in London.

[ShadowEmpress]

Usually on a first appointment, I let the escort decide the pace, often getting more than I expected. It's been years since I've been asked for extra cash, but I only visit classy ladied.
I find the chat afterwards a great time to discuss the next appointment, she knows I'm not a time waster by then. I do not discuss such things on the phone other than shared showers/bathroom fun, nice to know if the shower is built for 2 or they might like time to run a bath/heat water.
Can be a problem if she's moving on soon, you have to think is she worth travelling for, or will you wait for her to tour your area again. Ireland is a small country, personally I travel upto 100 miles to see the right lady, that covers most of this island.
I do not show up to a first appointment with excess money unless it's a lady that I'm very sure of. Saying that, I've never been robbed in this country but had a bad experience in London.

I really do appreciate your insight, it is along the lines of what we enjoy. We are so much more interested in the quality of the experience (or quality of future appointments!) than we are in trying to get the most "value" for the money or anything. For our first appointment, I think we both expected to spend most of that first 30 minutes just drinking wine together! Now our escort ended up having very different plans for us, but as far as meeting new girls I think we still feel the same way. For us, a 30 minute appointment to establish a degree of familiarity or comfort toward future appointments is money well spent indeed- and I hope escorts don't mind being professional wine-drinkers when meeting us for the first time

We aren't strangers to driving here either, we actually recently had a rather extensive trip driving from Dublin to the Galway area, then Cork, then back to Dublin, then past Belfast (Giant's Causeway), and finally home to Dublin again over a 3day/2nigh period of time. My husband is a runner and also regularly drives across the country for races.... So the right lady is certainly motivation enough for us to travel! I think we would still try to book our initial meetings with girls in Dublin, but having to travel a bit for future arrangements is not a deal-breaker. If someone is recommended enough I think we don't mind traveling a little for a first meeting.

(Glad to hear that you have not had problems here in Ireland, nice to hear that our impression of it being a very safe and friendly country verified by someone else... but you bring up a valid concern to keep in mind too)

[philipkntz]

Oh my God!! I don't even like crossing the liffey.

I seem to have that problem myself. Although I'm a regular visitor to Dublin, I can count the number of my punts on the northside during the last 10 years on my private parts. Not for want of trying though, there's 2 ladies northside that I've yet to see despite my best efforts.

[philipkntz]

Your reviews would be worth a pound of gold a word.

Must start working on that book.

[lactatinglucy]

I'm coming in on this a bit late but thought I'd offer my two pence because I can....so here goes.....
I've seen a few couples during my career and so have my friends. I do charge extra for a couple but this is usually standard and you should be told what the rate for couples is. I'd always go for a more expensive lady with reviews and good english ect as you'll find that they won't charge for 'extras' and communication is much simpler. (My only extra charge is for milk but only because I'm the only only woman in the country offering this service and it's called liquid gold for a reason ;-))
For me, I make it an absolute stipulation that I must speak to the lady (if it's a MF couple and the M is calling) before I will agree to an appointment. This is because sometimes men will get silly or super excited and forget the limits that have been agreed between the couple. Us ladies tend to keep our heads abit more and can discuss the finer details making the whole appointment a very fun affair without stepping over the agreed lines.
My friend (UK) had an awful situation where a couple turned up and she had only spoken to the guy who had said that he wanted to have sex with her whilst his wife watched and vice versa, turns out that this is NOT what had been agreed between the couple and they ended up having an almighty row in the middle on the appointment and the wife stormed out!!! Eeekk.
I've seen that others have given you great advice and although I haven't ever sought services, if I did then I would defiantly be speaking to the lady in question before trusting a guy to book....happy punting xxx