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    My husband and I are new here, and while we are looking forward to our new experiences, we are also a bit clueless regarding what is considered the right etiquette... and the last thing we want is to offend or commit some sort of faux paux! We have our first appointment scheduled for tonight, and I thought the forums were probably a good place to get answers, for now and any future plans we make!

    Now, as a couple we understand and rather expect that the rates someone charges are likely different since there is 2 of us, and I am hoping it is not rude to ask about what the couples rate is when booking an appointment! But what about other extras- I know that not everything an escort lists in their favorites is included, but when/how do you ask what is extra? Is it rude to ask ahead of time? We had planned on bringing extra cash in addition to what the rate is, but it is something I was wondering about.

    I was also wondering, what sort of things are typically included and what are things that are generally extra? For example, I expect OWO to be extra, but what about something like GFE or French Kissing? I know it will probably vary, but just as a general rule of thumb for what should we expect in the future

    Thanks!!!

    (PS, bonus gratitude to anyone who knows what is common regarding small gifts, like flowers or wine! Are presents a common thing, or something that escorts like? And is it better to bring as a surprise, or should you always ask just in case an escort may have a reason not to want a gift, such as not drinking, or having allergies to flowers? We are not looking for a girlfriend haha, it is part of why we decided on the escort route as far as planning our threesome, but we do like to treat others nicely and with respect.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by ShadowEmpress View Post
    My husband and I are new here, and while we are looking forward to our new experiences, we are also a bit clueless regarding what is considered the right etiquette... and the last thing we want is to offend or commit some sort of faux paux! We have our first appointment scheduled for tonight, and I thought the forums were probably a good place to get answers, for now and any future plans we make!

    Now, as a couple we understand and rather expect that the rates someone charges are likely different since there is 2 of us, and I am hoping it is not rude to ask about what the couples rate is when booking an appointment! But what about other extras- I know that not everything an escort lists in their favorites is included, but when/how do you ask what is extra? Is it rude to ask ahead of time? We had planned on bringing extra cash in addition to what the rate is, but it is something I was wondering about.

    I was also wondering, what sort of things are typically included and what are things that are generally extra? For example, I expect OWO to be extra, but what about something like GFE or French Kissing? I know it will probably vary, but just as a general rule of thumb for what should we expect in the future

    Thanks!!!

    (PS, bonus gratitude to anyone who knows what is common regarding small gifts, like flowers or wine! Are presents a common thing, or something that escorts like? And is it better to bring as a surprise, or should you always ask just in case an escort may have a reason not to want a gift, such as not drinking, or having allergies to flowers? We are not looking for a girlfriend haha, it is part of why we decided on the escort route as far as planning our threesome, but we do like to treat others nicely and with respect.)
    To avoid all confusion it is better to ask up front about rates and what is included and what is extra
    As long as you are polite and not too explicit the vast majority of escorts have no problems with this
    I assume you did your research and have booked an escort who has verified photos and allows reviews
    You must also ensure that an escort is genuinely bi and not just states it in her profile
    This is best done by reading the escorts reviews or checking out other couples reviews
    A couple called seriouslyhot have visited a few escorts and checking their reviews will give you some idea
    Have the fee ready in an envelope and hand it to the lady or just tell her that you are leaving the fee on a table
    as you are putting it down
    She will leave with the fee to check it and return immediately
    I am not sure of the etiquette with couples but most escorts will offer/insist on a client taking a shower in their apt/room first
    A nice bottle of wine or chocolates or even a bottle of perfume is always appreciated

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    Still love the colour of your hair.
    Had a similar one when I was a bit younger. brings back nice memories.

    Back on topic:
    From what I know the favorites are always performed at the advertiser's discretion, depending on many factors.
    Always better to agree everything before handling the donation, did not mean to disrespect anyone, but it is always better just to have clear expectations on both sides.
    Xxx

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    Quote Originally Posted by happygolucky View Post
    To avoid all confusion it is better to ask up front about rates and what is included and what is extra
    As long as you are polite and not too explicit the vast majority of escorts have no problems with this
    I assume you did your research and have booked an escort who has verified photos and allows reviews
    You must also ensure that an escort is genuinely bi and not just states it in her profile
    This is best done by reading the escorts reviews or checking out other couples reviews
    A couple called seriouslyhot have visited a few escorts and checking their reviews will give you some idea
    Have the fee ready in an envelope and hand it to the lady or just tell her that you are leaving the fee on a table
    as you are putting it down
    She will leave with the fee to check it and return immediately
    I am not sure of the etiquette with couples but most escorts will offer/insist on a client taking a shower in their apt/room first
    A nice bottle of wine or chocolates or even a bottle of perfume is always appreciated

    https://www.escort-ireland.com/user/seriouslyhot.html
    Thank you, your advice was really helpful! We have been participating in a few forums with other couples, and talked a bit with seriouslyhot. I took a look at their reviews, but I don't think anyone they had reviewed was touring now. Who we have our appointment with happened to be recommended by some of the other forum members though. With this being our first time, nothing can completely help with feeling nervous, but knowing what to expect a little more definitely helps!

    Is it common for girls to list themselves as bi, without actually being so?

    We are both big on personal hygiene and are going to shower at home, but wouldn't be offended at all if asked to take a 2nd shower.

    (and extra thanks for gift advice! I hadn't thought of perfume before)

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    A one for all voucher is always appreciated by the ladies

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyLu View Post
    Still love the colour of your hair.
    Had a similar one when I was a bit younger. brings back nice memories.

    Back on topic:
    From what I know the favorites are always performed at the advertiser's discretion, depending on many factors.
    Always better to agree everything before handling the donation, did not mean to disrespect anyone, but it is always better just to have clear expectations on both sides.
    Xxx
    I say, you are never too old for fun hair if anything, it makes you look younger!

    And on topic, absolutely, we never would want to assume or act entitled to anything. It was more about how much in addition to our rate should we bring with us, just in case! I guess I was curious do most people settle all of that while making appointments, or is it something where you just bring extra in addition to your rate, and hope you brought enough should the evening take a certain turn? Would be nice to know when making future arrangements

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    Quote Originally Posted by redforever View Post
    A one for all voucher is always appreciated by the ladies
    For perfume, yes? (since I have always found perfume to be a very personal thing)

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    I like the way you asked the questions first of all. Being polite will get you very far around escorts. It is always okay to ask when you book if there are any extras. It's your right to ask for that to know and be prepared. since I see you are a very friendly person, it won't be a problem. But always be careful when you choose a girl. Reviews are a good way to start. Asking around on the forums about girls that do couples and can genuinely give you a good time is okay again because it gives you a great starting point and it narrows the searches to only a few girls.

    Girls love gifts. It doesn't matter what it is, whether it's a perfume, flowers, chocolates, a bottle of wine, a girl will appreciate it. In my opinion I don't think you would fail with a box of chocolates and a bottle of wine.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ShadowEmpress View Post
    .. We have our first appointment scheduled for tonight, ..

    We all wish you the very best.

    Extras and couples rates - you should ask before. They may say all included but sometimes a lady charging below 160/hour may have extras. Phoning before will also tell you if there's any language problems.

    Its always good to sit down and talk about what you expect for 2 minutes before anything else.

    Gifts; I would give something from the second visit, as it will be more personal.

    Remember the ladies are experts, and this is all about sensory pleasure for both of you and not a new relationship. Like going back to a doctor the second time, it's mostly because you like the way they do what they do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Larrii View Post
    We all wish you the very best.

    Extras and couples rates - you should ask before. They may say all included but sometimes a lady charging below 160/hour may have extras. Phoning before will also tell you if there's any language problems.

    Its always good to sit down and talk about what you expect for 2 minutes before anything else.

    Gifts; I would give something from the second visit, as it will be more personal.

    Remember the ladies are experts, and this is all about sensory pleasure for both of you and not a new relationship. Like going back to a doctor the second time, it's mostly because you like the way they do what they do.
    Hmm I think Mrs Shadow and I both agree that this adventure worked out very nicely!

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