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    Default What is the best way to make initial contact?

    I recently joined the forum and have commented on a thread related to couples. My wife and I have been looking to try something new and have a pleasant experience with another beautiful lady.

    Anyways more to the point, as this is something new we've both been pretty shy. Being relatively young and tech savvy, we were excited to see a PM option! Tbh, calling someone is still a little intimidating.

    Having said that, we've gotten no responses to PMs. And I'd like to think I was in no way rude in the messages. We did get a response to one of our calls. This surprised me as I personally don't like phones (my family knows not to even bother, and instead just talks to me via email or FB), and I thought PMs would be the way to go.

    Is that not correct? Should we be making calls the first method of communication?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClarkKent View Post
    I recently joined the forum and have commented on a thread related to couples. My wife and I have been looking to try something new and have a pleasant experience with another beautiful lady.

    Anyways more to the point, as this is something new we've both been pretty shy. Being relatively young and tech savvy, we were excited to see a PM option! Tbh, calling someone is still a little intimidating.

    Having said that, we've gotten no responses to PMs. And I'd like to think I was in no way rude in the messages. We did get a response to one of our calls. This surprised me as I personally don't like phones (my family knows not to even bother, and instead just talks to me via email or FB), and I thought PMs would be the way to go.

    Is that not correct? Should we be making calls the first method of communication?
    Pms are often not answered , or maybe answered days later, make a call and discuss what you would like ,

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClarkKent View Post
    I recently joined the forum and have commented on a thread related to couples. My wife and I have been looking to try something new and have a pleasant experience with another beautiful lady.

    Anyways more to the point, as this is something new we've both been pretty shy. Being relatively young and tech savvy, we were excited to see a PM option! Tbh, calling someone is still a little intimidating.

    Having said that, we've gotten no responses to PMs. And I'd like to think I was in no way rude in the messages. We did get a response to one of our calls. This surprised me as I personally don't like phones (my family knows not to even bother, and instead just talks to me via email or FB), and I thought PMs would be the way to go.

    Is that not correct? Should we be making calls the first method of communication?
    Hi, newbies are not taken seriously on here and I was in the same situation as you, only when I got a review up was I taken seriously, its takes time and lots of effort and patience, also being new means your PM's will not be answered, well, I got a few replies from the escorts but only to tell me they were leaving the country when I wanted a date, only got serious replies from the Mods but dont let it put you off, just interact more here and will all come good, welcome anyway
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    I think you need to get over your phone phobia tbh. Do some homework and try to identify escorts who appear to provide the service you require and contact them. If you are willing to travel I'm sure you should be able to find someone suitable quickly. Also since you are a couple I would have thought that you would consider swinging as an option either by attending parties or via the internet. Again if you are prepared to travel there are a number of really good swingers clubs across the pond and on the continent. Best of luck

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    calling is by fair the best option.
    there are by far too many time wasters and for this reasons the advertisers are very clear what is their preferred contact method.

    Having said that, you might get your PMs answered, just not as many and not as promptly as you might wish.
    Some of our advertisers are more, some less active on the forums.

    Additionally you could post in the clients request area and ask for the interested advertisers to PM you.
    You never know. It might work

    Anyway, welcome to the community and good luck,
    Xxx

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    Hmm ok. I didn't realize that I might not be taken as seriously due to being new but that makes sense!

    Haha in regards to the phone phobia it looks like I will have to get over it

    We talked about looking for someone in the swinger scene, but are a little worried about stalkers, weirdos, and std's. I hope this doesn't sound silly but we are looking for a nice, classy and pleasant experience, without the potential baggage from the swinger scene. We're not interested in wife-swapping or large group things and my impression has been that there's not a lot of single ladies just out there looking for a couple to have a good time with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClarkKent View Post
    Hmm ok. I didn't realize that I might not be taken as seriously due to being new but that makes sense!

    Haha in regards to the phone phobia it looks like I will have to get over it

    We talked about looking for someone in the swinger scene, but are a little worried about stalkers, weirdos, and std's. I hope this doesn't sound silly but we are looking for a nice, classy and pleasant experience, without the potential baggage from the swinger scene. We're not interested in wife-swapping or large group things and my impression has been that there's not a lot of single ladies just out there looking for a couple to have a good time with.
    What part of the country are you looking to hook up , as plenty of girls advertise for couples in Dublin,
    Can't convince my wife though , your a lucky man

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    Quote Originally Posted by ford pefect View Post
    What part of the country are you looking to hook up , as plenty of girls advertise for couples in Dublin,
    Can't convince my wife though , your a lucky man
    Anywhere in the larger Dublin area. And thanks, it was actually her idea

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    the escorts who are well reviewed and who post on EI will always reply to pms when a definite request for a meeting is stated. That's been my experience.

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    Libby in Dublin, she is in the Independant escort section , she could be worth talking to ,

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