Lists - Food for thought
To all involved, here is my thought on the "lists"
I have been an escort for close on 7 years, both as a independant lady residing in London and also as a touring independant lady in various european countries as well as here in ireland. I was in fact one of the first ladies to travel over to ireland on a regular basis, in these seven years i have made an untarnished and exellent reputation for myself with regards to discretion and service, i consider myself a down to earth and genuine lady who is maticulous when it comes to etiquette. As all of you know i never once gotten involved in message board squabbles, however now that this whole situation has come to light and gotten out of hand i feel i need to be dignified and make my honest statement of the fact.
In these seven years, I have heard of and been the victim of violent attacks, verbal abuse and theivery by clients. Not pointing fingers at anyone in particular but these types of activities occur on a regular basis (we as girls i.e. advertisers, have our own private section, on both this and the other site, where we regularly report these incindences to help each other from experiencing trauma of this nature).
What we do is just as dangerous, if not more, than being on the frontlines in war...at least in war you know who your enemy is because in this game you dont. Everyday we put our lives and physical health on the line, simply by opening the door and welcoming you into our life for a short while, because this is an intimate industry where acts happen behind closed doors, however I daily meet gentlemen which I dont know from a bar of soap, they could be serial killers, wife beaters or carry a variety of sexually transmittable dieases that could affect my life and future... not only do I have to deal with all of this... but on top of it that, there are ladies who like to stir the pot and post unscrupless messages without any proof just to pull other girls down. I have to deal with hotels that are always on the lookout for ladies, however in all my years i have never been asked to leave, been kicked out, thrown out or told off by any member of hotel staff. In actual fact i have used the same locations for numerous years, as many of my regular gents will verify.
Because of these prevailant dangers, I now find a useful means of protection (i.e. the list which i was asked to join) is getting blamed for what?... absolutely nothing.....! This list merely allows us to make judgement calls when it comes to accepting appointments... (as i said our lives are on the line). How many of you gentlemen out there can honestly say that this list has caused you any harm... no physical, emotional or social harm has come your way since this list has been in circulation, and believe me its been around for a while...
If you think about it in context... this list gives you more access to girls than anything else, girls are more trusting of you because there is record of you being a gentleman and a good client... this list is only a protection measure and any of you that are worried need to rather do more of a background check on your choice of escort rather than spend your energy crying about some list that has never once harmed you in any way. Your name has never appeared on this list, nor your full number......thus no evidence. In america, for instance, if you wanted to see a lady you have to give your full real name, drivers id or some form of actual identification when wanting to meet a lady, there is also a site which registers gentleman and stores their details so other ladies can verify them in much the same way. Any lady who regularly travels to the states will verify this also.
If you were so naive to think that we never kept your numbers on your phones in the first place...then you are mistaken to begin with... Every lady i know of will not meet a gentleman without a mobile phone number, witheld numbers and landlines cannot make an appointment. You hence freely give us the number you punt with when you call us, we keep it as a frame of reference to know that it is you calling when you arrive at our hotel or apartment. With the referencing system that was in place last year, lots of ladies were only meeting verified clients. How do you think you got verified? For example: i call another lady and ask her do you remember bob, you met him in dublin, 6 months ago.... how on earth will she honestly be able to verify him without a phone number...?
As said so many times before, if you are worried about giving your number out, then why call from a number that you dont want exposed. Most gentlemen have 2 different numbers, one for his personal life and another for his private life.
All this list has effectivley done is put all the girls good and verified phone numbers into one spread sheet, with no names, half the number showing if you're a good guy... so why the tears...
If you look at this in perspective, whomever it was that leaked this list to the clients who are claiming that they have a copy on this messageboard, is in fact the person you should be worrying about, and who is clearly happy to share this information with other clients. I have only used the list to my own safety requirements, and tried to help others who might have been a bit nervous to meet a new client. I have never abused the information nor have i given its details to anyone. Whomever gave out the list does not have discrection in mind.
Lots of Thought
Lynne
xoxo
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