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    I notice that some escorts opt out of reviews, and others prefer that the experience is a private one between escort and client. I thought that those who opt out were once accepting reviews, but then, for their own reasons, decided to opt out. I assumed the others never opted in from the start.

    However, there is a certain escort on here who used to accept reviews, then got a bad one, so opted out. I now see that she has changed to "prefers that the experience is a private one". I think that she is misleading the punters.

    Is there an EI policy on this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anitafan View Post
    I notice that some escorts opt out of reviews, and others prefer that the experience is a private one between escort and client. I thought that those who opt out were once accepting reviews, but then, for their own reasons, decided to opt out. I assumed the others never opted in from the start.

    However, there is a certain escort on here who used to accept reviews, then got a bad one, so opted out. I now see that she has changed to "prefers that the experience is a private one". I think that she is misleading the punters.

    Is there an EI policy on this?
    I very much doubt that ei have a policy on this, they are basically a hosting site that we, escorts, choose to advertise on. We are given the choice of what to offer, what to allow etc, it's the escort's choice, ei don't stipulate that escorts have to allow reviews/certain services to advertise here, it's entirely up to the individual escort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sexy Sandy 69 View Post
    I very much doubt that ei have a policy on this, they are basically a hosting site that we, escorts, choose to advertise on. We are given the choice of what to offer, what to allow etc, it's the escort's choice, ei don't stipulate that escorts have to allow reviews/certain services to advertise here, it's entirely up to the individual escort.

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    HI Sandy. Thanks for your reply. I obviously did not make my point clear. I fully respect the rights of an escort to refuse reviews. The message that comes up most of the time is "Unfortunately, X prefers her service to be a private affair and does not want reviews". Sometimes you see the message "X has opted out of reviews". The second message suggests that the escort has had a bad review or 2, and wants to get rid of them.

    This is what happened to a certain escort that I know. Now, I see her message saying " "Unfortunately, X prefers her service to be a private affair and does not want reviews".

    I think that this is unfair on other escorts who never accepted reviews in the first place.
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    Any other views on this?

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    As a couple who are new to this, my wife and I have been all over the forums, looking for advice. It seems to be almost 100% across the board among clients that if you see an escort that doesn't allow reviews, you move on to another one. Of course you have the right to do whatever you want with your profile, but the consensus seems to just be so overwhelming that when we see someone who refuses reviews (regardless of the phrasing), that they most likely are a fake profile or there's something shady going on.

    It's very intimidating for someone new to the scene. For better or worse, we've had to make the unfortunate decision quite frequently to overlook someone who looked just gorgeous and had an interesting profile because of what often was a combo of unverified photos and refused reviews.

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    Yes but I think that there should be a difference between somebody who for privacy reasons has decided to never accept reviews, and somebody who opts out after receiving a bad review.

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    As a client, how can you tell the difference? Can't a fake profile just say they don't accept reviews for privacy reasons?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClarkKent View Post
    As a client, how can you tell the difference? Can't a fake profile just say they don't accept reviews for privacy reasons?
    You are right where fake profiles are concerned. But I see a difference between escorts who used to accept reviews, and those who never did.

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    What is the difference? Can you only select the privacy option if you previously allowed reviews?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ClarkKent View Post
    What is the difference? Can you only select the privacy option if you previously allowed reviews?
    NO, you can opt out from day 1. I can think of at least 1 fantastic escort who I would recommend who never accepted reviews. This is different from somebody who was happy to accept reviews until she gets several bad ones.

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