Problem

[tonnylone]

Pardon the pun son but its all in the head. The more you fret over it the worse it will get.

They getting yeself a gf to get cosy with.

maybe it is but was never like this, even when back to see the same girls after not masturbating for days but didnt clamax and then the girls are annoyed as they think you dont find them attractive and its them... the ladies did mention on my arrival, you going to cum this time

[Amy Alison]

You need a clear "reset" of your body and even mind. Don't play with yourself as often, you're actually getting too used with masturbation as way of coming.
Make a few healthier life styles changes. Adjust to the idea that yes, sometimes it is OK not to come if you had a beautiful foreplay.
Perhaps go and see a lady who doesn't mind taking charge, as you said yourself you feel sometimes put on the spot to perform and this is inhibiting ... well, it doesn't have to be that way.

[DenaliGirl]

maybe it is but was never like this, even when back to see the same girls after not masturbating for days but didnt clamax and then the girls are annoyed as they think you dont find them attractive and its them... the ladies did mention on my arrival, you going to cum this time

So there's the pressure put on ya , no wonder your head playing tricks on you !!

RELAX !!

Try to find a provider who offers Time and Companionship and not one who tries to whack you off and out the door .

Slow down !! enjoy the moment you are in , instead of trying for some imaginary Finish Line .

So what if you don't come ?? Your time with a companion in itself should be enjoyable ! : kissing , touching ,

sucking , stroking , hugging , looking , licking , etc. and more , all fun !!

You'll find -- in time -- that you're enjoying these things so much , you'll spontaneously will have an orgasm x

( trust me , I have 'cured' many of you guys of PE , and / or inability to climax .)

Also , try to find a girl who will take her time , who will NOT just lay there for you to 'do your thing and "perform" ' .

My Gents I always take care of in a way that I tease them , build their anticipation and desire til they feel they 'must'

do something about it : then if they wish , they can do their acrobatics , but I always always start by pleasing

them in a most leisurely way ... without any rush , just enjoying each and every moment for what it is in itself .

Try to find someone like that , and all the best to you xx

[Oh Kevin]

I know a few guys that their doctor had refused and when with them again told they him they were thinking of buying the merchandise on ebay as they were hard-up and just like that the doctor whipped out his pen and wrote out the script, worth a try

[tonnylone]

So there's the pressure put on ya , no wonder your head playing tricks on you !!

RELAX !!

Try to find a provider who offers Time and Companionship and not one who tries to whack you off and out the door .

Slow down !! enjoy the moment you are in , instead of trying for some imaginary Finish Line .

So what if you don't come ?? Your time with a companion in itself should be enjoyable ! : kissing , touching ,

sucking , stroking , hugging , looking , licking , etc. and more , all fun !!

You'll find -- in time -- that you're enjoying these things so much , you'll spontaneously will have an orgasm x

( trust me , I have 'cured' many of you guys of PE , and / or inability to climax .)

Also , try to find a girl who will take her time , who will NOT just lay there for you to 'do your thing and "perform" ' .

My Gents I always take care of in a way that I tease them , build their anticipation and desire til they feel they 'must'

do something about it : then if they wish , they can do their acrobatics , but I always always start by pleasing

them in a most leisurely way ... without any rush , just enjoying each and every moment for what it is in itself .

Try to find someone like that , and all the best to you xx

thanks but
have to say these escorts were great, no rush and did try their best but when you think about it, a girl would probably be thinking whats wrong with me, am i not attractive if she has guys not cumming so they do like their men to cum

[tonnylone]

I'd go along with the massage idea , but look at your overall lifestyle, nothing like a few hours of fresh air to liven you up , walk run cycle climb a mountain jump out of an aeroplane, all better than viagra. Your way to young of that,

that is probably why the doctor refused me, youth, I thinkyou can become dependent on viagra and without it you just wouldnt function at all and that may not be a good thing

[tonnylone]

My advice is save your money, don't blow it.

I have a good time all the same but like the lady to be happy as well, when they say 'are you going to cum this time', its not always about me

[Nason]

Ok, you're problem is that experienced by many of your generation. It takes effort and time to fix so you will need will power. the problem is that through puberty you've had access to hardcore pornography. Whatever you were in the mood for was accessible . Your generation was prob the first to have such widespread access (porn sites, laptops in rooms) as opposed to having a mag and letting the mind do most of the work. This "on-demand" nature of gratification has made it difficult for regular old gals with their regular old bits to stimulate an endorphin release within your brain compared to you wanting to see an asian woman dressed like an octopus drinking milk and getting it with a few clicks of a mouse. The longer you've been using porn the longer it will take to reset yourself. Persevere and you'll fix the problem.

[LuckyLu]

Hello, i am a 29 year old guy but having problems keep hard and dont cum most times even with beautiful girls. I do get hard but then lose it a bit but have no problems masturbating and can cum 4-5 times a day.
I tried to stray of masturbating as had a visit yesterday and stayed of it two days in the hope it would help, it did but only a little as didnt climax, Its putting me off visiting the escorts now

probably will not say anything new, but I know a person who had similar issues,
it was all in his head, the stress just completely prevented him from keeping it up and climaxing.
maybe it a good advice to establish a connection first, go for few massages with the same lady and see where that leads you to..?

[alcatel]

Try Viagra it is known to help with that.

Viagra is to get or maintain an erection. However, I have heard a number of escorts say, that with viagra, the guy tends to be much slower to cum or may not have an orgasm at all.