Hard to Justify?

[lapd]

Hard to Justify.....
I'm a mature guy of 55 who started punting about four weeks ago. I started with beautiful ladies nearer to my age,who where all good, one exceptional.
Currently i'm looking on here and i see in my area beautiful ladies from 19 up...I would love to meet them but that nagging voice is saying " your getting too pervy".
I know i'm going to get some flak from you lads,but it's a dilemma for me...What you think?
Mikecraic..Cork

I am nearly as old and was same, so I do tend to stay away from under 23 but that,s just me,if you find girl nice then enjoy, but if you feel bad then go for maybe 30 and remember most girls take at least 8 years off their age on profile

[Barney Rubble]

There is some formula for this is there not. As regards age difference for partners that is not creepy,what is it again.......so yes it is the following.

Half your age plus seven-that is the youngest your sexual partner should be without the potential for awkwardness. so for you 55/ 2 plus 7 = 34 years. If your female partner is younger then 34 their is potential for pervy awkwardness. That is if you even take that formula on board or not.

Surely this formula relates to having a relationship with a younger woman ? If visiting an escort is defined as having a relationship then I must be a polygamyst & Tom Rambo ? Don't even think polygamy covers his exploits !!!

[Barney Rubble]

I am nearly as old and was same, so I do tend to stay away from under 23 but that,s just me,if you find girl nice then enjoy, but if you feel bad then go for maybe 30 and remember most girls take at least 8 years off their age on profile

I have to agree with u there as most the ladies I meet more than once are around the thirty mark, 1 or 2 over 40. Probably can relate better with a lady with a bit more experience. Oh btw I'm an oul git too !!

[mikecraic]

Thanks to every body who replied to this thread, at worst you made me laugh at best made me think.....do my own thing.thanks all.
Mike craic

[HardOnCommand]

I would say book a 30 minute appointment for a massage and see how you feel about it when you meet her. If you feel like a dirty old git you can just take the massage (nothing creepy there) pay her and leave, she won't be offended that way and your conscience will be clear. Obviously, it's not ideal seeing as it will cost you a few quid regardless of how far you decide to take things with her, but it's probably the best way to approach the situation if it's something you're on the fence about.

[mikecraic]

Thanks Sophie, definitely love to see you when you come to the real capital.

[scankman]

don't think age should cum into it look at Rupert Murdoch 84 banging jerry hall 58 0r 59 i surprised he can get up let alone get it up but if I had 12 billion in Assets i.d probably have a shot too !!!

[Barney Rubble]

I hear what you are saying. I'm a lot older than you and sometimes think the same.
I tend to draw the line at seeing someone under 20 and if I have often asked the escort if she wanted me to stay or leave due to my age.

Never been asked to leave So long as she's happy then I'm happy.

Agree with u there Zilch, life in the old dog yet !!
Btw is that an orangutan in you're profile pic- is he called the old man of the forest ?
Dunno what I'm on about I'm prehistoric !!!

[tom rambo]

I think if a lady don't want to see older men she would put it on her profile,same goes for younger men,most lady's want to make money. To me age is but just a number.as long as the lady is not under age,treat a lady with respect I have seen young lady's and older ladies,as I said be nice treat her with the respect she deserves.

[xagerate]

Thanks Sophie, definitely love to see you when you come to the real capital.

You are as naïve as the average 20yr old
(so don't stress about meeting the younger ladies )