The struggle is real ...

[TonyB]

Well I got up this morning with the idea in my mind of visiting a young lady.
I'm long overdue some fun. LOL

I've changed my mind about 20 times, and it's only now I have decided who I'll call.
If I don't get my finger out I won't do it.

Thanks to The Dirt Bird for helping me choose.

[The D Man]

So I've been punting a few years & I've always struggled with making decisions on who to visit. I normally have to wait until payday b4 I have any spare funds & I find myself deliberating for days about who to call. I read the reviews like a maniac looking for info on girls that catch my eye, I work out the maths in my head about whether an hour long session with one girl is worth it or should I just spread my cash over two 1/2hr meetings with two different girls. Should I try a massage instead, just to satisfy my needs for a cheaper rate. What if I make a bad decision & waste my cash, will I 'click' with the girl & will I be able to 'do the dance' to our mutual satisfaction. Can I go twice in the hour or will I finish quickly in the 1/2 hr & spend 15-20 engaging in chat with someone I've just met (small talk is not my strong point).
I almost find myself gravitating towards girls with little or no English sometimes, just so I can avoid the sometimes awkward chit chat .... Then I realise what I'm at & scold myself for being such a coward. I then spend ages perusing the Irish girls profiles trying to prove to myself that I can be engaging & witty with someone who speaks my own bloody language!!

Basically, this punting lark is a lot harder than it looks ..... Especially if you overthink it like I do. ;-)

I could be wrong in saying the following but I think that you are looking for the perfect appointment all the time. Each appointment though will be different to some extent. Each lady will have her own personality, her own style and approach. Not every time will be perfect.
You mention about being able "to do the dance" so what if it doesn't go as you liked or planned. There is always another time.
As for " chit chat" talk about general issues. Another tip here would be to listen carefully to what the lady is saying. Then ask questions to get her to expand on what she is saying. This shows interest in what she is saying. Many people nowadays only listen passively rather than listen actively.