Am I just too easy put off?

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have to say I largely disagree with that.


It my opinion it depends on the person.
I've met many lovely ladies charging less and some charging more who were less satisfactory.

This said I think it depends on the client too.
Women respond better to a friendly face.

It also depends on the value of the money received. For some 80e is the equivalent of 100e for another, so in essence the service should be the same. Does that make sense?

[Oh Kevin]

So today I phoned 5 escorts. Their English was not great but more surprising was the fact the 3 Spanish escorts did not speak Spanish and the French escort did not speak French.

By the time I phoned the American I was just so cross I hung up when confronted by the wrong accent.

So why do some escorts (maybe most escorts) tell lies on their profiles I mean shaving a few years off their actual age I can understand but telling lies about the languages they speak, the services they offer or indeed having fake pictures I just do not understand.

A while back I arranged to meet a girl (actually currently advertising) and was greeted by another girl (also currently advertising) When I asked where the girl who I arranged to meet was the girl said "it is me, I have dyed my hair Is problem?" I answered well yes actually it is first you thinking I would believe that is insulting and 2nd you have wasted my time. I then just walked out passing some strange looking Indian or pakistani fellow who like something out of a sitcom had his ear on a glass pressed to the wall.

After much thought I have come to realise that the problem with the industry is not the girls but the punters because they tolerate a substandard and often overpriced service instead of just walking away.

I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either

[Jgoldsmith1977]

Nationality shouldn't even come into discussion at the same level as fake pics or fake services. In fact it should never come into discussion unless you want to book someone for language grids ... yeah, what are the chances of that. Watch out if the escort has reasonable English, that's an important factor. But if her profile is genuine, nobody should care where is she from. An escort could lie abut her nationality for privacy reasons or for fear of not being discriminated, those are reasons that are a lot more important than some unfonded curiosity where she may be in fact from.

I really wish E-I would not make the nationality field on our profile mandatory. Or, as I said a few times with zero success, just create some more general classes, similar with how there is a "south american" class. Nothing wrong to add "western european", "central european" etc and the problem will be solved elegantly with no need to lie anymore.



That's just so funny. What kind of people are you making appointments with ?



Yes, clients should leave if obviously conned. But if they chose wisely there would be no need and both good genuine escorts and clients would be happy.

I mentioned nationality only in the context of language and I do believe that communication is important. Also if someones English is not good and I speak their language am I not allowed to speak to them in their language.
I do expect Spanish people to speak spanish the french to speak french and I would imagine that Germans 'Deutsch sprechen.'
If someone is telling lies about their nationality or anything I am going to question their integrity and ask why. This is not unfounded curiosity but it is good business practice. A separate and yet altogether more important issue is the fact that persons for some parts of the world are more at risk of trafficking and abuse than others. I do not care where the girls are from as much as I care about being able to communicate with them and knowing they doing what they are doing of their own free will. So I disagree with you and firmly believe nationality is a factor. A factor I will continue taking it into account to make an informed decision and it does not make me xenophobic.

[JimmyJim]

I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either

Eejittt roflmao

[Jgoldsmith1977]

I wouldn't worry about it, shure the Irish Escorts don't speak Irish either

I have to admit kevin of the many languages I speak Irish is not one of them.

[Amy Alison]

I mentioned nationality only in the context of language and I do believe that communication is important. Also if someones English is not good and I speak their language am I not allowed to speak to them in their language.
I do expect Spanish people to speak spanish the french to speak french and I would imagine that Germans 'Deutsch sprechen.'
If someone is telling lies about their nationality or anything I am going to question their integrity and ask why. This is not unfounded curiosity but it is good business practice. A separate and yet altogether more important issue is the fact that persons for some parts of the world are more at risk of trafficking and abuse than others. I do not care where the girls are from as much as I care about being able to communicate with them and knowing they doing what they are doing of their own free will. So I disagree with you and firmly believe nationality is a factor. A factor I will continue taking it into account to make an informed decision and it does not make me xenophobic.

You obviously didn't properly read or understand my previous post.

You don't marry the escort if you chose to book her. It's an exchange of time spent for money and where is she from should be none of anybody's business.
Most foreign escorts lie about their nationality for their own safety or for the fear of discrimination, those factors are a lot more important than a single guy (as you clearly see you are in minority here) questioning their "integrity".

What is next, will you require to see their passports too

[bettercallsaul]

You obviously didn't properly read or understand my previous post.

You don't marry the escort if you chose to book her. It's an exchange of time spent for money and where is she from should be none of anybody's business.
Most foreign escorts lie about their nationality for their own safety or for the fear of discrimination, those factors are a lot more important than a single guy (as you clearly see you are in minority here) questioning their "integrity".

What is next, will you require to see their passports too

Is it really too much to ask that the escort would show us her passport,perhaps also give her home address and allow us be friends on Facebook?

[Curvaceous Kate]

You obviously didn't properly read or understand my previous post.

You don't marry the escort if you chose to book her. It's an exchange of time spent for money and where is she from should be none of anybody's business.
Most foreign escorts lie about their nationality for their own safety or for the fear of discrimination, those factors are a lot more important than a single guy (as you clearly see you are in minority here) questioning their "integrity".

What is next, will you require to see their passports too

I agree that the nationality option should be optional or deleted altogether. If we want to say where we are from we can add it in our advert. It would be better to just have 'languages spoke' and 'first language' or something like that. Often it's more about wanting a bit of banter with some than caring about where someone is from anyway. The most important factor should be discretion and safety of the sex workers.

[Vitruvian]

I mentioned nationality only in the context of language and I do believe that communication is important. Also if someones English is not good and I speak their language am I not allowed to speak to them in their language.
I do expect Spanish people to speak spanish the french to speak french and I would imagine that Germans 'Deutsch sprechen.'
If someone is telling lies about their nationality or anything I am going to question their integrity and ask why. This is not unfounded curiosity but it is good business practice. A separate and yet altogether more important issue is the fact that persons for some parts of the world are more at risk of trafficking and abuse than others. I do not care where the girls are from as much as I care about being able to communicate with them and knowing they doing what they are doing of their own free will. So I disagree with you and firmly believe nationality is a factor. A factor I will continue taking it into account to make an informed decision and it does not make me xenophobic.

Good business practice for Escorts, is to protect themselves, first and foremost.
My advice, improve your research or curtail your expectations.
No point blaming other people, if you can't find any satisfactory service here.

[Cortez]

Without wanting to sound too condescending to the OP I don't think you really did your homework here before you decided to make contact with any of the ladies. If you had spent any time at all looking through this website, and in particular to threads which relate to nationality and other personal details then you would be well aware of the reasons why most women put down a different country of origin. Discretion and privacy are paramount in this profession. You have no entitlement to any personal details of any lady who allows you to see her. The only thing that I would agree with you with is the ladys' command of the English language but even then I would say to you that you should have looked at the reviews for the ladies. If they had little or no reviews that there is no way of knowing if her English is any good or not. Escorts with a good few positive reviews normally have reasonably good English, if they didn't it would be mentioned in the reviews.

I would also say that you shouldn't be too clever speaking the native language of the lady, that might frighten the bejesus out of them. Many escorts are not comfortable meeting clients from "The homeland".

Everytime there is a thread on this topic it reminds me of the episode of the Simpsons where Bart spends the whole year learning Spanish because the family are going to Brazil on holidays. Lisa decides to tell him on the plane that he has actually learnt the wrong language.

Stick to what you know and not what you think you know.