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    Hi, new around here
    Just wondering, are prices stated generally fixed, or a starting point. Not wanting to insult, but buying a car online prices expect to be negotiated.

    Personally I hate negotiations, I'm bad at them!

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    I agree, I don't like it either.

    It is generally felt that negotiating brings unease to the encounter.
    It's probably best to just discreetly hand over the listed amount for the required time.
    Everyone is then happy.

    Always discuss your needs, such as possible extra like Anal. Sometimes favourites can be extra.
    Better to be happy that she is giving what you want before handing over cash, then everyone is happy. Girls aren't mind readers, they only pretend they are

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    Probably better not to try to negotiate, some ladies have stated it on profile so I assume they do not like it just ask what you need, and price.
    Imagine if girl is getting 100 calls a day and every one starts to negotiate, she would rightly get pissed
    Hope everybody has a safe, peaceful holiday season
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    I can imagine lots of things!
    Thanks for the info, good to know.

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    I dont exactly have a shopping list. Was thinking more of turn up and see what was on the menu?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Froggie View Post
    I can imagine lots of things!
    Thanks for the info, good to know.
    You're not buying a commodity here, we are people, so best to remember that and assume that the rate is fixed unless you are made an offer. If you say you can't afford a rate, then the sex worker has the choice of letting you go or making an offer, but if you say you don't want to pay their rate, then you are implying they are not worth it. See the difference?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Froggie View Post
    I dont exactly have a shopping list. Was thinking more of turn up and see what was on the menu?
    You don't want to do that either. We put a lot of time and effort into writing up our profiles (the Independent ones anyway), so we like you to read it and decide if that is what you want. If you turn up and start asking for services that are not available, we're not going to be too happy to be fair. If you leave because we don't do what you want you would be labelled as a time waster.

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    Thanks for taking the time to give me advice Kate, I appreciate it, it helps

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    My policy is to not to negotiate, and I almost always stick to it. As Kate points out, we are dealing with people. I believe that if you successfully negotiate the price down, the escort may quietly resent it, and will not deliver the same level of service. I have a budget in my head that I am prepared to spend on any encounter, and I am very rarely going to spend more. Most of the time, my budget is more than adequate to meet the escorts price.

    There are a few escorts who advertise at a higher price than the usual. If I am very highly attracted to them, I might contact them to explain that I would love to meet them, but that I have a specific budget. I then leave it up to them. Sometimes they agree to work to my budget. On 1 occasion, the escort asked me not to contact her again, which I have respected.

    I would never turn up to meet an escort without having an understanding on the fees that was acceptable to her, and having met up, I prefer not to have to discuss money at all. Just pay up discreetly, and concentrate on more pleasant matters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Curvaceous Kate View Post
    You're not buying a commodity here, we are people, so best to remember that and assume that the rate is fixed unless you are made an offer. If you say you can't afford a rate, then the sex worker has the choice of letting you go or making an offer, but if you say you don't want to pay their rate, then you are implying they are not worth it. See the difference?
    So it is possible to negotiate a rate if the client claims he just hasn't enough money.
    Good to know

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