Taking a risk - help me ladies

[Stephanie]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

Have your divorce papers drawn up and ready to sign if you go down that road .

I think it would be terribly foolish to take your extracurricular activities so close to home .

Are there not enough lovelies to satisfy you as is ??

Or you looking for the extra 'Thrill' of might be getting caught , of might destroying your life ??

Remember : she'll take half , no ?? X

[ford pefect]

Then again you only live once, as Del Boy says " who dares wins"

[Flappy]

She tells me a different story, she's probably just playing hard to get, don't tell her i told you....

I've sent u my cock picture

Your opinion will change when you open it

[Flappy]

Thats a hen you divvy....

You're just trying to ruffle my feathers ,aren't you ?

[Bogman]

None of the ladies I am thinking of are in any way connected to my wife, they are all friends of mine only and none have ever met her either. I am unable to father any children due to medical reasons so no risk of a pregnancy.

Some people do love risk taking and the thrill of maybe being caught.
I think being discovered visting Escorts is enough of a shock fot any wife but at least only her husband is guilty and she can turn to her friends for support.
Discovering your so called friend betrayed you and wondering how many knew is too cruel.
How much damage can be caused is worth considering, money can not be the only consideration.

[Flappy]

you've had enough pics....

I have a quota to fill you know.

Nearly have the wall of my bedroom covered now

[Flappy]

I daren't ask with what.....

Stalactites from the ceiling!

[Flappy]

You're sicker than i thought.....

Your opinion can only get better from here on in

[bettercallsaul]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

If you are taking medication then stop,if not then consider starting.


(no offence meant but that is not the post of a sane man)