Taking a risk - help me ladies

[annabel taylor]

Having met Bogman a fair few times, its safe to say, he actually gets off on, the thought of being caught.... maybe he'll wake up and realise this was all just a fantasy...

I'm sure it's real.... ur so cynical sophie...
P's must send u today's cock pictures

[Prickly]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

I can't answer your question because;
(a) I'm not a lady.
(b) I am not - and never have been married.






But to answer you question. "Are you f**king nuts??????????"

[bollocks]

Having met Bogman a fair few times, its safe to say, he actually gets off on, the thought of being caught.... maybe he'll wake up and realise this was all just a fantasy...

Being discovered that you visit escorts, would not be good, especially if all your reviews were read, plus the expenditure. Could happen from leaving your special phone around,etc,etc.

Living with a second partner could end up costing you half your assets,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and if the second relationship ends up in pregnancy,,,,,,,,,,,,leave you with very little indeed.

Personally i sometimes regret leaving any reviews, as they could be used as evidence against you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,especially if you forgot to log off

On the other hand, they were good experiences

Problem is we cant keep our minds shut.

[Flappy]

I'm sure it's real.... ur so cynical sophie...
P's must send u today's cock pictures

Ohh she likes the odd cock picture, u should've said

Must take my antibiotics before the photo-shoot this time

[Flappy]

you know, you two make a lovely couple...... perhaps take a leaf out of Bogmans book.....

Naah I'm a cunt apparently

And she'll only want me for my tits

[ford pefect]

So you expect to approach one of your lady friends and say "Look, I dont have sex with my wife anymore, but I would like to have sex with you instead, No strings attached... like..."

Insanity...

I think it's more a fantasy !
Sounds good but , the reality of it probably won't work,
I don't think women do NSA attached like blokes do

[Curvaceous Kate]

I think it's more a fantasy !
Sounds good but , the reality of it probably won't work,
I don't think women do NSA attached like blokes do

They do, they're just more choosy

[ford pefect]

Ha that's because they hold the balance of power

[Best Before]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.

Don't do it man.
If there was some requited chemistry with these other women, you would know and not be asking the question here.

Stick to the ladies here, you might think its more economical to have an affair, but It will cost you more in the long run.

[Bogman]

Thanks for the time you have all taken to express your opinions, its exactly what I wanted and its good to see a well mannered, reasonable debate, with the odd deviation thrown in for good measure. I suspect I am not alone in my thoughts on the matter so if its helped anyone else then that's a bonus.