Being Someone's Doormat.

[DreamCatcher]

I had a relationship with a girl who I thought was the best thing since sliced bread, I really thought we would be together forever. So things went sour eventually as is very often the case. We stayed in touch and recently started contact again, only text messages though. I put my cards on the table and told her that I still have feelings for her, only to be quickly told that she doesn't want to see me again, doesn't want to talk to me again etc etc. However, she got in touch yesterday and asked me for €500. I told that yes I would give her the cash if we could meet, but she refused and said I could transfer the money into her bank account. I'm actually in shock as to the bare faced cheek of her. I'm lost for words, not lost for tears though.

[AndyLuck12]

I had a relationship with a girl who I thought was the best thing since sliced bread, I really thought we would be together forever. So things went sour eventually as is very often the case. We stayed in touch and recently started contact again, only text messages though. I put my cards on the table and told her that I still have feelings for her, only to be quickly told that she doesn't want to see me again, doesn't want to talk to me again etc etc. However, she got in touch yesterday and asked me for €500. I told that yes I would give her the cash if we could meet, but she refused and said I could transfer the money into her bank account. I'm actually in shock as to the bare faced cheek of her. I'm lost for words, not lost for tears though.

€500 on some of the girls on this site VS €500 on one ex
I know what I'd pick lol

[bettercallsaul]

I had a relationship with a girl who I thought was the best thing since sliced bread, I really thought we would be together forever. So things went sour eventually as is very often the case. We stayed in touch and recently started contact again, only text messages though. I put my cards on the table and told her that I still have feelings for her, only to be quickly told that she doesn't want to see me again, doesn't want to talk to me again etc etc. However, she got in touch yesterday and asked me for €500. I told that yes I would give her the cash if we could meet, but she refused and said I could transfer the money into her bank account. I'm actually in shock as to the bare faced cheek of her. I'm lost for words, not lost for tears though.

Buddy it's tough now as you had feelings,but In time you will see what she asked you is the best thing that could happen,in time you will see her for what she is,at the moment it's difficult but you will be a better man for this,chin up!

[DreamCatcher]

Buddyit's tough now as you had feelings,but In time you will see what she asked you is the best thing that could happen,in time you will see her for what she is,at the moment it's difficult but you will be a better man for this,chin up!

Sound man, wise words indeed. I have to say that I wasn't your biggest fan before but I appreciate your words, I really do. My head is spinning though, she thinks I'm such a fool.

[bettercallsaul]

Sound man, wise words indeed. I have to say that I wasn't your biggest fan before but I appreciate your words, I really do. My head is spinning though, she thinks I'm such a fool.

I am not here to have fans mate,I normally joke at others expense all the time,but I do have a heart and your story is not something I would joke about.

their is one fool here,it's not you it's her,you really will in time be a stronger person for this,sounds stupid now but It's true!

[johnb59]

be a man tell her to fuck off your better off rid of her and find someone who likes you for who you are not what she can get out of you

[casman]

I am not here to have fans mate,I normally joke at others expense all the time,but I do have a heart and your story is not something I would joke about.

their is one fool here,it's not you it's her,you really will in time be a stronger person for this,sounds stupid now but It's true!

You old romantic you,i knew there had to be more of a reason than your humour,why Claudia like you

[bettercallsaul]

You old romantic you,i knew there had to be more of a reason than your humour,why Claudia like you

Caring about someone who is obviously hurting is not romantic,it is something all basic human beings have.

[Petros]

I had a relationship with a girl who I thought was the best thing since sliced bread, I really thought we would be together forever. So things went sour eventually as is very often the case. We stayed in touch and recently started contact again, only text messages though. I put my cards on the table and told her that I still have feelings for her, only to be quickly told that she doesn't want to see me again, doesn't want to talk to me again etc etc. However, she got in touch yesterday and asked me for €500. I told that yes I would give her the cash if we could meet, but she refused and said I could transfer the money into her bank account. I'm actually in shock as to the bare faced cheek of her. I'm lost for words, not lost for tears though.

There are people out there like that! They play on you because they know you care — they live life like a parasite! It is hard on those of us who they prey on but I think one good thing has come to pass here — you now know just how low that girl will stoop. It is now time for you to come to terms with this realisation and move on in the hope that you will recognise the signes in the future and not fall for another parasite like her!

[Its only me]

I had a relationship with a girl who I thought was the best thing since sliced bread, I really thought we would be together forever. So things went sour eventually as is very often the case. We stayed in touch and recently started contact again, only text messages though. I put my cards on the table and told her that I still have feelings for her, only to be quickly told that she doesn't want to see me again, doesn't want to talk to me again etc etc. However, she got in touch yesterday and asked me for €500. I told that yes I would give her the cash if we could meet, but she refused and said I could transfer the money into her bank account. I'm actually in shock as to the bare faced cheek of her. I'm lost for words, not lost for tears though.

I had the kinda same EX. Move on there are far better people out there. There are far better thing to spend money on.