Discussing Escort Ireland in the pub

[Spanky Panky]

Or maybe these people haven't a shred of "cope on" or Discretion. A hotel reception where there can be kids running around!! What next, watching porn!!
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I'm all for not having the new law enacted, but meeting escorts is something that needs to stay as a guilty pleasure rather than the excepted norm and not something you discuss with your mates down the boozer...

I disagree. Why do you want to have guilt attached to it? Do you want escorts to have to continue living with stigma?

[Cable87]

Or maybe these people haven't a shred of "cope on" or Discretion. A hotel reception where there can be kids running around!! What next, watching porn!!

I'm all for not having the new law enacted, but meeting escorts is something that needs to stay as a guilty pleasure rather than the excepted norm and not something you discuss with your mates down the boozer...

I certainly understand and agree with the need for exercising discretion when it comes to 'Adult' sites/content, children absolutely must be protected from certain Adult content, and accessing E-I or another Adult site in such an open, public place as a hotel lobby, while we can have a laugh about it, is certainly an example of a poor choice of locations to see who's in town for a punt later.


But WHY the need for punting/escorting to remain a 'guilty' pleasure? Is there really a need for feelings of guilt about the healthy expression of human sexuality between consenting adults, even if there is a monetary exchange taking place as a pretext to the interaction?

And why not discuss it openly, especially with good friends? While I know that mates 'down the pub' talking about 'shaggin'/ridin' escorts' will almost inevitably take a turn towards merely being crude jokes and exaggerated bragging about supposed sexual prowess, why do you believe that an open, mature discourse about meeting escorts isn't something to be discussed, even with your mates?

[Best Before]

I certainly understand and agree with the need for exercising discretion when it comes to 'Adult' sites/content, children absolutely must be protected from certain Adult content, and accessing E-I or another Adult site in such an open, public place as a hotel lobby, while we can have a laugh about it, is certainly an example of a poor choice of locations to see who's in town for a punt later.


But WHY the need for punting/escorting to remain a 'guilty' pleasure? Is there really a need for feelings of guilt about the healthy expression of human sexuality between consenting adults, even if there is a monetary exchange taking place as a pretext to the interaction?

And why not discuss it openly, especially with good friends? While I know that mates 'down the pub' talking about 'shaggin'/ridin' escorts' will almost inevitably take a turn towards merely being crude jokes and exaggerated bragging about supposed sexual prowess, why do you believe that an open, mature discourse about meeting escorts isn't something to be discussed, even with your mates?

I have come from a time and place where discussing any sexual adventures is not the done thing. Perhaps i'm old fashioned like that. I also think with all the best will in the world Escorting will always be a bit taboo.
Should Escorting be Illegal, No. but you have to remember that a lot, if not most of escorts clients are married or have partners, so for that reason alone there is always going to be a moral dilemma.

[greenie]

I certainly understand and agree with the need for exercising discretion when it comes to 'Adult' sites/content, children absolutely must be protected from certain Adult content, and accessing E-I or another Adult site in such an open, public place as a hotel lobby, while we can have a laugh about it, is certainly an example of a poor choice of locations to see who's in town for a punt later.


But WHY the need for punting/escorting to remain a 'guilty' pleasure? Is there really a need for feelings of guilt about the healthy expression of human sexuality between consenting adults, even if there is a monetary exchange taking place as a pretext to the interaction?

And why not discuss it openly, especially with good friends? While I know that mates 'down the pub' talking about 'shaggin'/ridin' escorts' will almost inevitably take a turn towards merely being crude jokes and exaggerated bragging about supposed sexual prowess, why do you believe that an open, mature discourse about meeting escorts isn't something to be discussed, even with your mates?

fair play to yoyu if you are open about your escorting activities but yet you are posting here under a pseudonym

[Sexy Sandy 69]

Visiting escorts is not something to be ashamed but I do think that when discussing sexual exploits about escorts in public, they should be told with discretion. When people are drinking, they inevitably talk louder & louder, so the story can be heard by many. As the saying goes 'walls have ears', you don't know who is listening.

I also think viewing ei in a hotel lobby, is indiscreet. I certainly wouldn't access private sites in a public place, I wouldn't want the general public seeing what I was viewing if it was of a private nature.

Sandy x

[SteveB]

Or maybe these people haven't a shred of "cope on" or Discretion. A hotel reception where there can be kids running around!! What next, watching porn!!

I'm all for not having the new law enacted, but meeting escorts is something that needs to stay as a guilty pleasure rather than the excepted norm and not something you discuss with your mates down the boozer...

As I and others have said before, lack of discretion is a problem for Escort Ireland users.

[Cable87]

fair play to yoyu if you are open about your escorting activities but yet you are posting here under a pseudonym

There's a rather large distinction between posting in an open online forum on an escort website and private discussions had in-person with close friends.


I see no contradiction in my position, which seems to be the intended point of your rather pithy reply.

Yes, I am 'open' about my punting activities with a small number (but certainly not all) of my closest male friends; they know that I am 'Cable87' on E-I, and we have talked 'openly' about my punting activities, albeit in settings a bit more private and discreet than the local pub.


But NO, I am certainly not 'open' in the same way here on the forum, as none of us are. The point of the forum is to grant that anonymity necessary to both protect our privacy as well as to grant us a place to speak candidly without self-censorship based on the fear of private exposure. Using pseudonyms are the very foundation of that anonymity.

[The Libertarian]

I was in an Internet Cafe a couple of years ago in Galway and an aul fella in his 70s was openly looking at EI and taking notes, I thought he could have been a TORLER Spy!
Also a few young lads, Roma types, were looking at it there once, getting quite animated at the prospect of having a punt!

[MidlifeCrisis]

I would love to be more open with some friends - part of me wants to brag about the wonderful experiences I have had - but it is impossible to predict how people wiĺl react. In my group of friends (towards the older end of EI clients) even talk of marital experiences would be taboo. I have been tempted to say somrthing to one or two chosen mates, but if you guess wrong the consequences could be bad, so I probably never will.

[The Libertarian]

I would love to be more open with some friends - part of me wants to brag about the wonderful experiences I have had - but it is impossible to predict how people wiĺl react. In my group of friends (towards the older end of EI clients) even talk of marital experiences would be taboo. I have been tempted to say somrthing to one or two chosen mates, but if you guess wrong the consequences could be bad, so I probably never will.

A lot of good friends of mine have used escorts, indeed i have directed one towards escorts and clubs. I always ask him afterewards what's his marks out of ten for the experience and he invariably says 10! He was unbelivably taken by Rubina in particular! He's into art and told her he would love to draw her at another appointment, I think she was well up for it too!
He also had a nightmare in Paris, when not taking my advice and punting there!