Help for a newbie after a not-so-great first experience

[Tgrant]

I'll try to keep this brief! (I've only joined the forum today, I'm 30 and from Belfast)

My first (and only) ever experience with an Escort was back in January and although it wasn't a disaster, it did leave me feeling a bit underwhelmed.

I made a booking early in the day for that evening, it was put back a couple of times at the Escorts request and this was no problem. When I arrived I was greeted at the door (and admittedly the young woman was very polite and talkative) but she was far removed from the presentation in the photos. It was clearly the same person but very little effort had been put in, in terms of even brushing their hair (she said she would do so for 'next time') and clothing worn was denim shorts and a T-shirt. The 'accent' I was expecting (given her profile of being from a specific country) was missing and this was explained as being a method of putting off men from her actual home country from contacting her (which is understandable and again - no problem).

Now I'm honestly not being picky and all of the above could be overlooked however this is where I feel as a newbie I may need some guidance. I booked for one hour (to help with my nerves!) and discreetly provided the envelope at the beginning. I brought some nice chocolates and came dressed to (try to) impress (it's maybe relevant to note that I'm very OCD about my hygiene and keep myself in good shape / fit). Thereafter it felt very much like the appointment was being stalled with constant texting to and from her phone and the offer of a few more drinks etc.

I had explained it was my very first such visit when I initially rang and I was looking moreso for someone to take the lead for a simple GFE. In the end when things finally got moving, there was a bit of a methodic approach and then a pause where I was asked did I want more time booked for the session (we had only begun at this stage maybe 5 minutes) and I felt I was very much at their mercy.

All in all my first experience ended in paying for approximately 2 hours and driving home feeling a bit lacklustre - which has put me off trying again for ten months!

So this has led me to joining the forum today and looking for a bit of help as to warning signs to look for.

I gather the basics are very much look for verified photos and plenty of reviews but are there any other warning signs to look out for?

I thought it might be 'safer' for me meeting with a more local girl so there would be little language barrier and perhaps a regular appointment / agreement, but then I scan the adverts and there are also some gorgeous looking females who I know I would be physically attracted to. One in particular only has one review for example which has led to this post! I had actually joined trying to find info on a particular local girl, as I had saved her advert months ago and thought she'd come across as a genuine independent and local escort that ticked all the boxes. Unfortunately that doesn't look likely to happen anytime soon but I'd like to try again.

All in all I hoe I don't come across as nit picking or judgmental as that's not what's intended - and I'm fully aware that I could be just as much to blame for the first appointment not going so well. Just some pointers would be great so my next experience may be better for both parties.

I've got my first day off work for a long time tomorrow so I'm up late for once and thought I'd put my time to good use

[happygolucky]

I'll try to keep this brief! (I've only joined the forum today, I'm 30 and from Belfast)

My first (and only) ever experience with an Escort was back in January and although it wasn't a disaster, it did leave me feeling a bit underwhelmed.

I made a booking early in the day for that evening, it was put back a couple of times at the Escorts request and this was no problem. When I arrived I was greeted at the door (and admittedly the young woman was very polite and talkative) but she was far removed from the presentation in the photos. It was clearly the same person but very little effort had been put in, in terms of even brushing their hair (she said she would do so for 'next time') and clothing worn was denim shorts and a T-shirt. The 'accent' I was expecting (given her profile of being from a specific country) was missing and this was explained as being a method of putting off men from her actual home country from contacting her (which is understandable and again - no problem).

Now I'm honestly not being picky and all of the above could be overlooked however this is where I feel as a newbie I may need some guidance. I booked for one hour (to help with my nerves!) and discreetly provided the envelope at the beginning. I brought some nice chocolates and came dressed to (try to) impress (it's maybe relevant to note that I'm very OCD about my hygiene and keep myself in good shape / fit). Thereafter it felt very much like the appointment was being stalled with constant texting to and from her phone and the offer of a few more drinks etc.

I had explained it was my very first such visit when I initially rang and I was looking moreso for someone to take the lead for a simple GFE. In the end when things finally got moving, there was a bit of a methodic approach and then a pause where I was asked did I want more time booked for the session (we had only begun at this stage maybe 5 minutes) and I felt I was very much at their mercy.

All in all my first experience ended in paying for approximately 2 hours and driving home feeling a bit lacklustre - which has put me off trying again for ten months!

So this has led me to joining the forum today and looking for a bit of help as to warning signs to look for.

I gather the basics are very much look for verified photos and plenty of reviews but are there any other warning signs to look out for?

I thought it might be 'safer' for me meeting with a more local girl so there would be little language barrier and perhaps a regular appointment / agreement, but then I scan the adverts and there are also some gorgeous looking females who I know I would be physically attracted to. One in particular only has one review for example which has led to this post! I had actually joined trying to find info on a particular local girl, as I had saved her advert months ago and thought she'd come across as a genuine independent and local escort that ticked all the boxes. Unfortunately that doesn't look likely to happen anytime soon but I'd like to try again.

All in all I hoe I don't come across as nit picking or judgmental as that's not what's intended - and I'm fully aware that I could be just as much to blame for the first appointment not going so well. Just some pointers would be great so my next experience may be better for both parties.

I've got my first day off work for a long time tomorrow so I'm up late for once and thought I'd put my time to good use

There are a few good escorts in Belfast at the moment
3 I would recommend are in no particular order
English Tara
Irish SARAH
Kate
You won't go wrong with any of the above ladies
It all depends on your personal taste and favourites offered.

[justwhatiwant]

Sorry to hear it didn't go so well for you. You'll have you mix of good and bad on this site, so don't worry too much. Seeing as this is your first time (again!), I'd say go for the safest bet. Look for a lady with lots of positive reviews, regardless of her nationality or whatever - one who interacts on this forum a lot too wouldn't hurt. You also shouldn't need 2 hours really if you've not done it a lot before. Much more fun to spend half the time with two women, I find.

Honestly, it sounds like you were short-changed with your first effort. Keep the faith, try again, and I'm sure everyone here wishes you the best of luck.

[Occasional]

Correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like you went with a cheap punt when you really wanted high class service. With punting, as in everything, you get what you pay for. I recommend you splash out, go for a lady in the top price bracket, with verified photos and a lot of positive reviews. It will cost you but it will be so, so worth it.

Do you want to go to the chipper or a fine-dining restaurant?

[Tgrant]

Thanks for the replies so far and I've just read about Irish Sarah possibly retiring / moving on and having lots of reviews it may be a safe option

In regards to the cheap punt option, i probably should've clarified that bit too. I actually narrowed down my list at the start by only looking at the most expensive advertised as I thought this may in return provide a better class (exactly as you mean I suspect). I had paid £160 from memory for the first hour then another £100 or £120 as I was in a bit of a panic with having to go to the cash machine to collect more money first. So yeah somewhere between £250-£300 bracket which I'm hoping isn't a cheap punt or I'll maybe have to pencil in less regular appointments than I had planned

[Mister Anderson]

Thanks for the replies so far and I've just read about Irish Sarah possibly retiring / moving on and having lots of reviews it may be a safe option

In regards to the cheap punt option, i probably should've clarified that bit too. I actually narrowed down my list at the start by only looking at the most expensive advertised as I thought this may in return provide a better class (exactly as you mean I suspect). I had paid £160 from memory for the first hour then another £100 or £120 as I was in a bit of a panic with having to go to the cash machine to collect more money first. So yeah somewhere between £250-£300 bracket which I'm hoping isn't a cheap punt or I'll maybe have to pencil in less regular appointments than I had planned

I made a comment not so long back about
what I see as a new trend among certain advertisers. The trend seems to be that everyone now thinks that charging basic rate of 100 yoyos(southern prices) makes you legit and beyond question. My comment got swamped in allegations of anti-escort rhetoric but as you can see for yourself, the question is there.

It really is a case of having to spend a little time checking out things for yourself but the more time you spend checking in on the boards the better informed you will be.


Irish Sarah has a brilliant reputation around here, I imagine you can't go wrong there.

[ddbb]

I think Kisha is still up in your neck of the woods. Definitely worth a visit. Extremely hot but also a very nice person, easy to chat to if you're nervous. Plus she's a total babe.

[zoozoozoo]

Couple of ladies Ive met that are in Belfast
https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html

https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html

Both very professional in their approach and top class escorts

A lady Ive not met but have heard only good things about
https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html

[alcatel]

Both Kate and Nicole are great fun.
Still regretting I missed Nicole last time she was round my way.
Never met Rina as she spends most of her time in Belfast.

[blue rebel]

Hi Tgrant sorry to hear about your bad experience ,but you
are not alone in selecting a bad Escort as I think we all have had
a bad experience in our punting career's .I have also had that feeling of
walking away after a terrible punt and feeling like a mug that I let her get
away with it but my next punt would restore my faith on the vast majority of
good Escorts on here. I now only go with verified photo id and good reviews from
certain punters who tell it as it is as there are lot's of reviewers who just give good reviews
for the sake of it. I personally stopped giving reviews after 2 bad reviews were blocked and
one of them stopped doing reviews after I wrote about her and she had 3 previous would recommend
reviews so just don't trust every reviewer either and I hope your next punt really gives you a good time
and restore your faith in the majority of ladies on EI.