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    Default Help with self image

    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative

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    Quote Originally Posted by bjornagain View Post
    This is a very difficult post for me.
    I used to punt years ago, but then gave it up after a bad experience.
    I've always had a poor self image and hate looking in the mirror, especially full length.
    I'm a big guy. 5ft 7" 17.8 stone, 42inch waist, 45yrs old and a small cock, 4 inches at most and only as thick as 2 fingers.
    With my belly it looks much smaller, although I have made a woman cum with it

    The last escort I saw humiliated me by making constant references to my belly, and in the end I couldn't get it up. She just laughed and said "it aint me baby" and pointed at her perfect body with big tits. I paid for an hour and was too dumb struck to ask for any money back or say anything, she didn't offer to massage me or anything and in the end I left after about 15 mins.
    I don't really blame her, shes just a young kid in her 20's, but I blame myself more for not looking after myself. Drinking and eating too much in my 30's, I piled it on.
    Ive cut back now, but it just wont shift

    I'm thinking of going back punting but the thought of that incident just puts me off.
    The girls Ive seen advertised here are all just amazingly beautiful, you think why would they even bother with me, when other better looking, fitter guys would hire them.
    I know engaging an escort is a professional contract and the good ones can really pretend well, but I just feel so revolted by myself and I cant stop thinking the escort will be secretly revolted as well. I'd really like to make her cum as well but I know a lot fake it and I'm not a great lover, enthusiastic and well meaning yes, but not a stud.

    So, has anyone else felt this way and managed to lose weight in their 40's or can recommend a good escort that wont mind a tubby man so much, or any thoughts on getting more self confident?
    I walk about 4/5k everyday and I'd love to even lose a stone, tried the milk shakes etc but still cant shift it

    thanks for reading this if you got this far.
    Sorry to be negative
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.


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    I agree with Willie.

    Smoke herbs.


    Go for a jog.



    #sorted

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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.
    Fair play Wacker... Sound advice.

    Most established girls will more than accommodate you. If it makes you feel better maybe try and hint at your size in advance. Might relax you a bit, though most of these girls will have had a lot worse than you or me buddy...

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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Well your best bet is to look at the most reviewed girls here and send them a pm with your concerns.
    The good one,s will reply and will help u decide.

    A bit of personal advice, change your diet
    If your walking 4/5 km a day and not losing weight then it,s the food.
    Better eating will also help to make you a better lover as well, more veg , fruit and herbs.
    ^^^ this...
    but not this, dafuq willie
    Last edited by funlover12; 21-09-15 at 22:40.

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    Quote Originally Posted by funlover12 View Post
    ^^^ this...
    but not this, dafuq willie
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmallHorn View Post
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour
    .......

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    Quote Originally Posted by SmallHorn View Post
    He means celery increases your load.


    Pineapple adds flavour
    Thanks
    Good explanation


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    Quote Originally Posted by willie wacker View Post
    Thanks
    Good explanation
    No probs big Willie.

    Thats what mates are for

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    This may sound like bulls hit, but it's not and I am giving too much info out about myself but the similarities are striking.A little over one year ago I was also 17.5 stone, the 42" trousers was getting tight, I am same height, similar age, cock a bit bigger..average I assume.In a little over that year I may have seen 90/100 escorts..A number multiple times......not one gave any negative comment about the weight (when I was lying flat and they were giving oral , I couldn't see what was going on).I dropped last Autumn by about 4.5 stone.Did some more walking but not excessively. My tricks is that I can go long periods without eating , so for a while , on many days I would eat breakfast and nothing else for the rest of the day.This of course is not on for a lot of people I guess.Minimise bread, pasta, high fat foods, take- aways, biscuits, confectionary and keep up a reasonable level of exercise. Forget about one escorts who may have laughed at you , if you are pleasant and clean most will be glad to have your business.
    Indeed most are very pleasant people who often may offer you advice and some sympathy but best for you to probably stick with an escorts with fluent English and with plenty of good reviews and read some or all of those reviews to get an impression of the person.
    Best of luck to you .

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