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    Default How many calls is too many?

    This is a question for the ladies, though all opinions are welcome.

    Hereís the scenario.

    Normally when I meet a lady itís been arranged well in advance so any phone calls on the day are just to confirm the location and time, and usually itís with ladies I know well so itís all a very relaxed experience.

    But what about when itís someone new?

    A lady Iíve never met, but someone I really want to meet, is touring in my town. Sheís no email and her number only appears when her profile is activated so I canít attempt to book a meeting in advance.

    When the profile is active I try to ring her, a couple of calls over a few hours but each time I get voicemail. Now, of course, she may be busy with any number of things and I fully accept that she will only answer the phone when itís convenient for her, quite rightly.

    My question is how many phone calls is acceptable during her tour to indicate that I would very much like to meet her without going over the top?

    Would a lady be put off with a number of missed calls from one number and be less inclined to make contact?

    Iím sure when a popular lady checks her calls during a tour she may have any number of messages appear, will she call the first one back and if they agree to a meeting proceed from there and ignore the rest or will she ignore all missed calls as enough callers will get through to her anyway and be happy to go on from there?

    (I know sometimes a lady will ring a number back once when she becomes available, the call costs her nothing and the receiver gets a missed call from her number so knows to ring her back, but this scenario is about when that doesnít happen)

    Essentially ladies if someone new tries to contact you, but keeps missing you, how many times do you think itís acceptable for him to try to contact you before youíre put off and decide to ignore him?
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    Ring a few times on the half hour or the hour.
    Ring early in the day but not overly early in the morning, say 11 or 12 (unless on profile say work earlier...could try an exploratory call a bit earlier.
    After a few calls with no response..leave it to a later day.
    Even though many do not like texts, could venture a text(especially if texts are not discouraged on the profile)....I am so and so with a few reviews (most should have access to the " forum" if they want).
    If no response on a couple of tours, I would suggest not to be overly bothered (perhaps may not like your number for some reason. )
    I have had a similar response today, could have PM'd a couple of days ago but was in 2 minds and only rang in late afternoon.
    Escorts will probably be busy with a couple/few regulars today (1st day in town of 2).
    Onwards and upwards to somewhere else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by nonpareil View Post
    Ring a few times on the half hour or the hour.
    Ring early in the day but not overly early in the morning, say 11 or 12 (unless on profile say work earlier...could try an exploratory call a bit earlier.
    After a few calls with no response..leave it to a later day.
    Even though many do not like texts, could venture a text(especially if texts are not discouraged on the profile)....I am so and so with a few reviews (most should have access to the " forum" if they want).
    If no response on a couple of tours, I would suggest not to be overly bothered (perhaps may not like your number for some reason. )
    I have had a similar response today, could have PM'd a couple of days ago but was in 2 minds and only rang in late afternoon.
    Escorts will probably be busy with a couple/few regulars today (1st day in town of 2).
    Onwards and upwards to somewhere else.
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    Sounds about right, but to be honest after about an hour I get fed up & move on or give up. I think two or three short rings on the hour or half hour is plenty. She can always ring back and hang up like most do . If they want the business that is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakka Wakka View Post
    This is a question for the ladies, though all opinions are welcome.

    Hereís the scenario.

    Normally when I meet a lady itís been arranged well in advance so any phone calls on the day are just to confirm the location and time, and usually itís with ladies I know well so itís all a very relaxed experience.

    But what about when itís someone new?

    A lady Iíve never met, but someone I really want to meet, is touring in my town. Sheís no email and her number only appears when her profile is activated so I canít attempt to book a meeting in advance.

    When the profile is active I try to ring her, a couple of calls over a few hours but each time I get voicemail. Now, of course, she may be busy with any number of things and I fully accept that she will only answer the phone when itís convenient for her, quite rightly.

    My question is how many phone calls is acceptable during her tour to indicate that I would very much like to meet her without going over the top?

    Would a lady be put off with a number of missed calls from one number and be less inclined to make contact?

    Iím sure when a popular lady checks her calls during a tour she may have any number of messages appear, will she call the first one back and if they agree to a meeting proceed from there and ignore the rest or will she ignore all missed calls as enough callers will get through to her anyway and be happy to go on from there?

    (I know sometimes a lady will ring a number back once when she becomes available, the call costs her nothing and the receiver gets a missed call from her number so knows to ring her back, but this scenario is about when that doesnít happen)

    Essentially ladies if someone new tries to contact you, but keeps missing you, how many times do you think itís acceptable for him to try to contact you before youíre put off and decide to ignore him?
    when i am bussy and i have miss calls ..i call back when i get free..or i text depends..if my phone its close...means i dont work in that moment..if i reject your call and i dont call u back..its means u are on my block list
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    Quote Originally Posted by JessycaWild View Post
    when i am bussy and i have miss calls ..i call back when i get free..or i text depends..if my phone its close...means i dont work in that moment..if i reject your call and i dont call u back..its means u are on my block list
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    I would think one should ring about twice spaced by 30 mins- then follow up with text asking her to contact you when free- a text from her isn't going to break the bank- however some escorts are weary about that as some guys don't have punting phones..

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    if i call and no answer i like it when the girl texts to let me know she is free
    even the couple of rings and hang up also works for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clueless View Post
    I would think one should ring about twice spaced by 30 mins- then follow up with text asking her to contact you when free- a text from her isn't going to break the bank- however some escorts are weary about that as some guys don't have punting phones..
    Well here's the thing. The lady in question has NO TEXTS on her profile, as a general rule of etiquette I always go with what a lady puts up so I'm left with no option but to ring but don't want to ring too often as I could end up blocked before I have a chance to say hello.

    I've tried ringing a few times now with no response so may as well chalk this one up to experience and wait until she tours this direction again (hopefully) and try to catch her then.

    There's always been a reluctance among escorts to text, especially people they don't know, for privacy issues as much as anything else so I'd have to accept that.

    I'd still like to hear the experience of more of the ladies here to get their feeling of what they consider acceptable, or unacceptable, behaviour in cases like this as an indicator for the future, I think it would be useful
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wakka Wakka View Post
    Well here's the thing. The lady in question has NO TEXTS on her profile, as a general rule of etiquette I always go with what a lady puts up so I'm left with no option but to ring but don't want to ring too often as I could end up blocked before I have a chance to say hello.

    I've tried ringing a few times now with no response so may as well chalk this one up to experience and wait until she tours this direction again (hopefully) and try to catch her then.

    There's always been a reluctance among escorts to text, especially people they don't know, for privacy issues as much as anything else so I'd have to accept that.

    I'd still like to hear the experience of more of the ladies here to get their feeling of what they consider acceptable, or unacceptable, behaviour in cases like this as an indicator for the future, I think it would be useful
    If you really want to meet a particular girl and your having trouble, first thing in the morning works.

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    I actually find most ladies are pretty easy to pin down. They either answer the 1st or 2nd time around, or a lot of those that don't will give you a missed call back. I particularly like that, it really shows she's serious about getting clients.

    Generally with me though, I'll try a lady 2-3 times max with about 30 minutes to an hour between the calls, if I have a particular lady in mind to see. If not, I'll pick out a number of ladies and call them in order of preference. I too have found earlier in the day to work better.

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