I feel strongly that us client posters are the least respected by EI as a company and also occasionally by certain escorts.
All too often we are banned for the most innocuous of comments, with no right of reply.
For example, a client could make a throwaway comment on here or if they dare to politely say that they prefer a different lady or even that they felt they didn't have a great time with a particular escort, the escort can ask him be banned, without ANY consultation with the poster. How is that fair?
The other day, a few of us posted our support for Cassendra and we, the clients, were warned, not the ladies who started it!!!
Why not the ladies involved?
I myself have been banned as a case of mistaken identity. All I did was make a post and an escort thought I was a client\friend of hers even though I had never seen her, and I was banned for a week. No apology, no reason ever given, either by the escort or by EI.
A true kangaroo court in action.
Now this is an adult site, but some people are so sensitive they take everything seriously.
so if you gently mock someone, even a fellow client, again you get banned because he went running to a mod like a tell tale kid. Not even warned. Yet the other person is free to continue posting, even though they created a thread mocking the other person. No consistency.
The business triangle of escorting consists of EI, the escorts and the clients, and it is all to easily forgotten, that without us paying clients, the whole thing would fall down.
Now I know that posting clients are a very small percentage of clients in general, but one of the reasons I use EI is to help choose our next date and I'm sure I'm not alone in this.
Yet some ladies are allowed to be down right rude and abusive to us and we client posters have no right to reply.
We are not allowed to defend ourselves or the ladies as it turns into a bitch fest.
I don't know if they realise but just as ladies talk amongst themselves and have their own private forum to do so, so do us clients, and sometimes we agree that no way in hell are we going to booking escort x, because of her behaviour on the forum.
Sometimes it seems you can only get along on here by repeatedly posting appreciation threads or responding to one of the many "look at me" needy escort threads.
And god help you if you don't find a lady attractive and dare to say so, I even got asked why I didn't thank such a post once!
Most of this takes place in the evening and there seems to never be a mod around when you need one.
I also know for a fact, that ladies have driven other ladies from this site as well as clients.
Again, this is an adult site and a degree of tolerance should be exercised.
I understand how it works, the ladies pay to advertise here and so they are given priority and blind eyes are turned.
But that doesn't mean its right. The forum should be treated as a separate entity.
I agree that no one, especially ladies should be verbally abused on a forum, but I never seen that by us clients
What I have seen is pm's from escorts threatening to post lies about us if we post even slightly negative remarks in reviews.
One escort actually pm'd me and demanded to know why I didn't give her 5/5 for value for money, even though the rest of the review was glowing!
And her way of getting back at me, was not to post a nice little "thank you" remark to my review. How petty!
EI needs to address a number of issues for us paying clients.
Be more open and have a better and fairer moderation system.
Be a lot more proactive on the fake profiles\pics system
Again, I fully acknowledge that escorting can be a dangerous occupation, but please be a little more respectful to the guys who post because in person, they will always be respectful. they just might joke around on here
I have actually seen and reviewed a number of ladies but when you are banned you lose all that, and when you are banned for no good reason, its very annoying having to start from scratch.
I fully expect this to either be deleted or ignored and I'll probably be banned again.
But I feel its worth taking that chance
Thank you listening