Color of my skin

[Good4u2]

Hello, I am originally from Nigeria but living in Ireland for 14 years now and love the place, lived in London for 3 years. I got a professional good job and I am respectful to everyone but have been turned away from many escorts because of the color of my skin, some would make other excuses as they did not want to come straight out with it.
Do others like myself have similar problems when visiting on here.

[Kenton]

Hello, I am originally from Nigeria but living in Ireland for 14 years now and love the place, lived in London for 3 years. I got a professional good job and I am respectful to everyone but have been turned away from many escorts because of the color of my skin, some would make other excuses as they did not want to come straight out with it.
Do others like myself have similar problems when visiting on here.

Not doubting you but do you know for a fact it's because of your skin colour?

Like all walks of life unfortunately there is racisim everywhere but I can't imagine by any means that it's endemic amongst escorts

[hitman76]

Sorry to hear that bud I'm sure one of the lovely ladies will answer that or help out in some way. Personal I love the ladies with darker skins but don't see many here, hopefully you'll get sorted

[JAMESCORK]

Yes it is a problem bud, some do discriminate... As has been stated by many, escorting is a very personal service and we have to accept escorts personal choices.

But there are many excellent escorts out there that do not mind so long as you are clean and respectful. Just keep looking kid. Probably best to state your skin colour before travelling to avoid any unfortunate disappointments.

Good luck.

[Good4u2]

Not doubting you but do you know for a fact it's because of your skin colour?

Like all walks of life unfortunately there is racisim everywhere but I can't imagine by any means that it's endemic amongst escorts

I am sure as was told by some they don't see black men while others would say different but you would know by their face expressions when they open the door.
One lady even racially abused me on the phone by text message when I said I was Black, I was mortified and still have them texts stored.

[Good4u2]

Yes it is a problem bud, some do discriminate... As has been stated by many, escorting is a very personal service and we have to accept escorts personal choices.

But there are many excellent escorts out there that do not mind so long as you are clean and respectful. Just keep looking kid. Probably best to state your skin colour before travelling to avoid any unfortunate disappointments.

Good luck.

Thanks for the kind words and yes you are right but it can be so demoralizing when it happens and makes me feel like a second class citizen

[Cosa Nostra]

I am sure as was told by some they don't see black men while others would say different but you would know by their face expressions when they open the door.
One lady even racially abused me on the phone by text message when I said I was Black, I was mortified and still have them texts stored.

Establish your EI profile, leave a few reviews, maybe get an escort reference or two, post on the boards, send a few friend requests, join a few groups. Then if you contact a girl by PM, she will have some idea of the kind of person you are, the same goes for everyone regardless of skin colour.

I know a couple of Irish girls who prefer black men...might be the big willies

[Good4u2]

There is nothing you can do about any of it, the industry is unregulated you have nowhere to go to complain so just get on with it.
To lots of ladies your euro is as good as anybody else's so phone around.
There is a group on here somewhere of escorts that like black men.
There are also lots of black escorts so if they refuse you, you can't play your race card there.
Somehow I think your post is just a windup but I will give you the benefit of the doubt this time
On a more positive note I always that black guys had no problem picking up girls over here so the fact that you have to pay had made me feel a bit better about myself this morning

Do you know a lot of black ladies prefer to meet white guys only.
I am married and have professional job so can't be seen out and around picking up girls. I have to be very discreet in these matters

[nonpareil]

Hello, I am originally from Nigeria but living in Ireland for 14 years now and love the place, lived in London for 3 years. I got a professional good job and I am respectful to everyone but have been turned away from many escorts because of the color of my skin, some would make other excuses as they did not want to come straight out with it.
Do others like myself have similar problems when visiting on here.

A while back , I had someone aggressively shout at me several times that I wasn't Irish.
She also came out with the statement "All you foreigners are robbers".
She herself is black and non- Irish
At least she saved herself from my pasty white, copiously freckled skin with red patches (of sunburn).

[weeschmoo]

Do you know a lot of black ladies prefer to meet white guys only.
I am married and have professional job so can't be seen out and around picking up girls. I have to be very discreet in these matters

Then why are you dicking about? you muppet. If its not worth the candle, don't do it. Simple.