A Quik Question

[DollyDarling]

Why would a man frequent a website that's clearly 100% about ESCORTS, and I do mean frequent it 7 days a week, and then say to escorts "You've fucked the world", "You'll fuck anything that moves", "You're Pussy must be loose and used up", "you're a has-been old pussy".... and other nasty remarks such as those? In my opinion, if a man has a problem with a women being sexually liberated and enjoying a multiple of partners, would he not be better off visiting a website about celibacy, or finding limited partners, your lifelong faithful partner, a religious discussion board, or maybe a website about trains, planes, and automobiles?
I clearly find this disturbing and hypocritic behavior, for a man to come on a true escort website, and then make comments about the amount of sex an escort has. I'm going to assume that these comments are made because of a few possible reasons...

You can also vote : ALL OF THE ABOVE REASONS

[anitasizzle]

He hates the fact that a 'woman' might be enjoying herself, and actually HAPPY

[nicegirlsarenice]

That guy has to be some kind of religious nut from the medieval ages.... some of us Irish still tend to be a bit like that, sorry.

My theory is that before civilisation took root, one man and one woman usually stayed together and the man got jealous if the woman had sex with other men as it would mean her baby could be from the other men. Maybe you see this in primates.

However obviously what escorts do is just pretend reproduction anyway, you're (probably) not going to have the baby of someone you see on this. It's just pretend, just like cubs playfight with each other or even dogs do sometimes. And as for jealousy and hatred over what a girl did in the PAST.... the only reason any guy could instinctually feel like that IMO is he's confusing the past with the present. He's making up the images in his head and feeling like it was only a very short while ago.

Also there's the whole religious/social bigotry, which is really just about control. It wouldn't be a good thing for males if every girl wanted money every time they had sex with him. Girls could probably hold out like that, guys couldn't... and it wouldn't really be fair for guys to be a slave to girls like that either. So IMO in a way not so bad that "whore" etc. is used for girls that will cheat on people and sleep around.... we don't want every girl becoming an escort or it'd be a disaster.

[Stewie]

For years we were taught that sex was filthy and that women who enjoyed it were the lowest of the low and damned for eternity the people that sprouted this shit usually liked to molest little boys and thankfully this way of thinking is dead however its residue lives on unfortunatly

Unfortunately it was nothing as glamorous as that dolly was in the chat room last night with a certain Ms Hilton who had been removed from a hotel in cork because someone had squealed her up ( or she is convinced someone did)

Anyway Liz launched in to her usual anti Irish tirade how she hates all Paddies we can't forget the famine etc etc usual Liz rant and Dolly joined her in this rascist ranting agreeing that Irish people couldn't let things go and that we all hate English people and she couldn't understand why.

So I suggested that if anyone had squealed up Liz she had brought it on herself and that dolly was being ignorant and should educate herself and not follow liz around like a lap dog agreeing with everything she says.

Needless to say this brought the heavens all down on me as liz and her lapdog tried to paint me as a woman or more particularly an escort hate.

Just the usual shit from Liz and her number one lap dog dolly

I made a couple of comments that they were over the hill and that is why they are so jealous of Malena and Carmen and Anna just to wind them up and boy did it work they went off like a couple of fire crackers

Obviously Dolly is still pissed off in fact she took me off her friends list needless to say I'm devastated but I will survive

So dolly can you add to the poll escort was being a racist bitch and was called on it and didn't like it one bit and is still ranting the next day cause that's what I want to vote for

[kieree]

Cal i wasnt aware of this and i will be removing my comment asap

[DollyDarling]

Cal i wasnt aware of this and i will be removing my comment asap

It is a shame that after our good times in the past, you would believe the comments of this mean person. It is true, I said that Irish people find it hard to let go of the past. But this is no new news. I do believe most Irish people would agree? They are still bitter towards the English?

But Im not sure what that has to do with this poll. It has been said by a few people now, towards a few girls Ive heard it said. And I would like to know some opinions on why men would come to an escort website, and then say to an escort that she is disgusting for fucking alot of men. There is underlying bitterness, and it should be addressed.

I'm not here to change this website, as some feel they are on a mission to do..... I am asking for my own curiosity. I would like to know where this cruelty and hypocrisy springs from.

Kieree, if you do not wish to participate in this poll, I respect that, but Im truely dissapointed that you would remove your opinion, based on the comments and accusations and insults of a very angry cyber bully.

I am not a lapdog. And truely resent these insults. Not many of the people on these discussion boards has even met me. Its amazing how people make strong assumptions about others, without even knowing them.

[kieree]

I removed the comments because i did not know the facts i merely thought it was a general question. there has been a lot of anger in both in the forum and the chatroom which i am not involved with nor care to be and thats another reason why i removed them

[DollyDarling]

I removed the comments because i did not know the facts i merely thought it was a general question. there has been a lot of anger in both in the forum and the chatroom which i am not involved with nor care to be and thats another reason why i removed them

I know you are a peaceful person. And I have ALWAYS admired that about you. You know that Kieree. You know how I always blow you kisses and tell you how I love how you are neutral and peaceful.

I just want you to know, that this poll has nothing to do with "persay chatroom fight". If someone takes offense to my question, it is most likely because they fit into this description. I'm not here to point any fingers at anyone. I am simply asking for opinions. If anyone takes it personally, that was not my intention. But then again, maybe if they see the opinions of others, they could see the error of their thinking?? I dont know, dont care... Im not here to change anyone or abuse anyone. I just have always been into studying human behavior.... and do often ask questions and opinions of others on subjects that i'm not understanding.

I hope you will consider re-contributing to this poll. I value your opinion truely. And I assure, I am pointing fingers at noone.

Thanks Kieree for listening.

[kieree]

My answer to your question in general and not attacking anyone is religious brainwashing would make a guy hate a promiscouis woman

[TheNads]

That's one of those questions where Irish people keep our heads very deep in the sand.

We have been fucked up sexually for many generations due principally to the power the Catholic church had here. These oppressed, fucked-up men (priests) usually had their Mammy decide which boy was going to bring great honour to the family & be a priest. That of course was decided when they were about 10 & virtually none of them made a conscious decision to be celibate, let alone understood such a huge commitment.
In due course these fine men became our moral guardians & law makers, as the people running the state wouldn't pass anything into law without 1st running it past the top religious dog.
So, 99% of us as Papist sheep & a fucked-up, power flush, sexually oppressed lunatic effectively telling us how to behave. Anyone known to be having sexual relations outside of marriage was ostracized, fallen women who became pregnant were locked away like common criminals & their children taken from them to be adopted (I'm one of these little bastards !). These men were afraid of their own sexuality & of women & that was transferred to their parishoners. Look at the Catholic Church, it's afraid of women & their sexuality to this day.
Meanwhile, a large percentage of these fucked-up priests were abusing the most vulnerable, most accessible people once they could no longer contain themselves. - the children. Most parents wouldn't think twice about allowing Fr. access to their offspring.

Religion is not the only cause of our problems. As an Irish male I never discussed sex with my (adopted) father, ever ! I used to become uneasy at home when an add came on the box for Tampons if he was in the room, I could feel his unease. Then there's the question of witnessing & mimicing the behaviour of your father towards your mother. That's where we get our education & if that relationship is very one sided, as mine was, then that's where we learn our behaviour. I've had to consciously remind myself not to replicate what I learned at my father's knee. This generation generally treated women as obediant, 2nd class parents. Watching a father abuse a mother, even if it's only psychologically, emotionally or mentally, will have a bearing on how we view women.

This problem is multi-faceted & I've only scratched the surface but we need another generation or 2 of more enlightened teaching to our young men before we can say we truly are liberated sexual men. Of course this is a huge generalisation & only my opinion.

Some of us have dodged the bullet though Dolly,
TheNads.