Ladies: Have you ever experienced rude/threatening/harassing behaviour?

[Ms Laura D]

In person or, through calls & texts?

I've had my first experience of this today. I have been really very lucky up until now.

A provisional booking was made and confirmation was expected at a certain time. Between the provisional booking and confirmation time, I had a little bit of a family emergency and my work phone went on silent and was hidden in my bag.

When I was able to check my phone, I had almost twenty missed calls from the 'gentleman' that has urged me to make this thread. I had a text to say that it was bad form to not answer my phone. I responded (to his bait) and explained the situation. He replied that he was basically going to make my EI ad useless because he was going to continually ring my phone from seven different numbers he claimed to have. He called me dreadful names that should only be used in the bedroom (lol) and not with the intent and malice in which he used them.

This kinda threw me for a loop. I'm a very friendly, calm and nice person (I'd rather be a full time bad ass, but it doesn't suit me, ha!) and I don't behave or speak in a way that would garner such a torrent of abuse.

He then rang me and I answered because I thought that I would be able to explain the situation and hopefully calm him down. I tried to explain my situation and told him that his aggressive attitude made me uneasy. I didn't tell him what my emergency was about, yet he shouted that he wished that someone in my family would die.

I've never experienced such a thing. What's that about??

Now that I've typed it out, I don't really have any fear/uneasiness about it. It's someone with some problems, lashing out at a stranger. A his-problem, not a my-problem. I just needed to get it off my chest and was curious if other ladies or, indeed, gentlemen, have experienced similar behaviour from a client or escort?

This is my first post and I really hope I don't come across as someone who is just here for a moan! I've seen a few interesting threads and I'd like to contribute to the forums in a positive way, too

[amylove69]

I would imagine you have an escort profile on here to, and think that you should be using that to put this in the private forums, (post anon if you feel more comfortable) and not in the public view xx hope you are ok huny xxx

[Curvaceous Kate]

Yes I have and it is very unnerving. There is one client that I have never met after I sussed out he was making a fake booking and well over a year later he is still harassing me on the phone with texts and calls.

There was another chap who was way beyond scary and he actually came to the place I was working and knocked on the door without a booking, but he had worked out where I was working and tried to book me, then later started ranting via text etc.

The list goes on. It frightens the life out of you the first time and the second time, but after a while you get used to it and just switch off to it.

Best to just ignore it and keep looking forward. You know you did nothing wrong and that is what matters.

[get20]

wow that a bad start to the week tell him to go and have a wank

[xagerate]

In person or, through calls & texts?

I've had my first experience of this today. I have been really very lucky up until now.

A provisional booking was made and confirmation was expected at a certain time. Between the provisional booking and confirmation time, I had a little bit of a family emergency and my work phone went on silent and was hidden in my bag.

When I was able to check my phone, I had almost twenty missed calls from the 'gentleman' that has urged me to make this thread. I had a text to say that it was bad form to not answer my phone. I responded (to his bait) and explained the situation. He replied that he was basically going to make my EI ad useless because he was going to continually ring my phone from seven different numbers he claimed to have. He called me dreadful names that should only be used in the bedroom (lol) and not with the intent and malice in which he used them.

This kinda threw me for a loop. I'm a very friendly, calm and nice person (I'd rather be a full time bad ass, but it doesn't suit me, ha!) and I don't behave or speak in a way that would garner such a torrent of abuse.

He then rang me and I answered because I thought that I would be able to explain the situation and hopefully calm him down. I tried to explain my situation and told him that his aggressive attitude made me uneasy. I didn't tell him what my emergency was about, yet he shouted that he wished that someone in my family would die.

I've never experienced such a thing. What's that about??

Now that I've typed it out, I don't really have any fear/uneasiness about it. It's someone with some problems, lashing out at a stranger. A his-problem, not a my-problem. I just needed to get it off my chest and was curious if other ladies or, indeed, gentlemen, have experienced similar behaviour from a client or escort?

This is my first post and I really hope I don't come across as someone who is just here for a moan! I've seen a few interesting threads and I'd like to contribute to the forums in a positive way, too

Never answer a call or text from someone who has already shown they are the type to bombard you with same.
They will get bored fast

(And anyone who has inundated you with calls/texts doesn't warrant an apology or explanation anyway)

[Curvaceous Kate]

I would imagine you have an escort profile on here to, and think that you should be using that to put this in the private forums, (post anon if you feel more comfortable) and not in the public view xx hope you are ok huny xxx

She only has one post. I don't think that is an option.

[bootboy]

In person or, through calls & texts?

I've had my first experience of this today. I have been really very lucky up until now.

A provisional booking was made and confirmation was expected at a certain time. Between the provisional booking and confirmation time, I had a little bit of a family emergency and my work phone went on silent and was hidden in my bag.

When I was able to check my phone, I had almost twenty missed calls from the 'gentleman' that has urged me to make this thread. I had a text to say that it was bad form to not answer my phone. I responded (to his bait) and explained the situation. He replied that he was basically going to make my EI ad useless because he was going to continually ring my phone from seven different numbers he claimed to have. He called me dreadful names that should only be used in the bedroom (lol) and not with the intent and malice in which he used them.

This kinda threw me for a loop. I'm a very friendly, calm and nice person (I'd rather be a full time bad ass, but it doesn't suit me, ha!) and I don't behave or speak in a way that would garner such a torrent of abuse.

He then rang me and I answered because I thought that I would be able to explain the situation and hopefully calm him down. I tried to explain my situation and told him that his aggressive attitude made me uneasy. I didn't tell him what my emergency was about, yet he shouted that he wished that someone in my family would die.

I've never experienced such a thing. What's that about??

Now that I've typed it out, I don't really have any fear/uneasiness about it. It's someone with some problems, lashing out at a stranger. A his-problem, not a my-problem. I just needed to get it off my chest and was curious if other ladies or, indeed, gentlemen, have experienced similar behaviour from a client or escort?

This is my first post and I really hope I don't come across as someone who is just here for a moan! I've seen a few interesting threads and I'd like to contribute to the forums in a positive way, too

Great to see you post Laura !

Has an escort ever been rude on the telephone to me ? NEVER !

[amylove69]

I noted that ,,, but said I assume she has an escort account or I would imagine she is advertising to be getting calls.

She only has one post. I don't think that is an option.

[bootboy]

I would imagine you have an escort profile on here to, and think that you should be using that to put this in the private forums, (post anon if you feel more comfortable) and not in the public view xx hope you are ok huny xxx

Don't think she has done anything wrong. She wants a balance view, probably unlikely she'd get one in private.

[Ms Laura D]

I would imagine you have an escort profile on here to, and think that you should be using that to put this in the private forums, (post anon if you feel more comfortable) and not in the public view xx hope you are ok huny xxx

I knew I was probably doing it wrong Still having a look around here and I don't think I've set this up right, but, sure, it'll be grand

And, yeah, I'm peachy, thanks Amy

Yes I have and it is very unnerving. There is one client that I have never met after I sussed out he was making a fake booking and well over a year later he is still harassing me on the phone with texts and calls.

There was another chap who was way beyond scary and he actually came to the place I was working and knocked on the door without a booking, but he had worked out where I was working and tried to book me, then later started ranting via text etc.

The list goes on. It frightens the life out of you the first time and the second time, but after a while you get used to it and just switch off to it.

Best to just ignore it and keep looking forward. You know you did nothing wrong and that is what matters.

oh, wow, Kate, in person I would go to pieces! Glad you weren't harmed. Thanks for the advice. Couple of other girls have told me the same. It's just mad to me that people go on like that. Need to toughen up

wow that a bad start to the week tell him to go and have a wank

Ah, sure I won't be responding to him again. And I had the wank