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    Ok, I'm not sure about other guys, but I usually try to have some interaction with an escort before I visit them.

    This is usually in the form of PMs.

    An escort (not giving names) isn't set up with a profile to receive PMs, so I sent them a friend request. Heard nothing, so I sent a text.

    They also mention that they don't like long text message discussions, which is very understandable. I know escorts hate texts as they are usually timewasters and you would prefer a call. The again, I'm sure timewasters call also.

    I sent the escort a request for a booking- 'are you available for a 45 min appointment today' - or something similar. They initially agreed. As it was quite short notice, I began to drive in the general direction. So I asked where in the specific locality they were.

    That's when it got weird, and they acused me of being a timewaster, not calling etc. I understand that timewasters are a huge annoyance in this business.

    I thought I could re-assure the escort by texting my EI (punting phone, of course) name and the fact that I sent them a friend request recently. I hoped that would settle things, but it did the opposite.

    Basically told where to go. I replied that I respected their decision, and that maybe next time I should call beforehand.

    I understand the frustrations in this business, but I really don't see how that makes me a timewaster. Got a text that pretty much said don't bother in the future. I would have thought they would have replied to my address request with something like 'call me when you get to a certain street/landmark'. This is the usual procedure.

    I've heard this escort is brilliant, so I'm a little pissed at how it turned out.

    Maybe they've had a bad experience lately or a close call with a landlord, I don't know.

    My question is this, was I that out of line, I was to be told where to go so quickly?
    Last edited by wingman; 21-06-15 at 15:48.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wingman View Post
    Ok, I'm not sure about other guys, but I usually try to have some interaction with an escort before I visit them.

    This is usually in the form of PMs.

    An escort (not giving names) isn't set up with a profile to receive PMs, so I sent them a friend request. Heard nothing, so I sent a text.

    They also mention that they don't like long text message discussions, which is very understandable. I know escorts hate texts as they are usually timewasters and you would prefer a call. The again, I'm sure timewasters call also.

    I sent the escort a request for a booking- 'are you available for a 45 min appointment today' - or something similar. They initially agreed. As it was quite short notice, I began to drive in the general direction. So I asked where in the specific locality they were.

    That's when it got weird, and they acused me of being a timewaster, not calling etc. I understand that timewasters are a huge annoyance in this business.

    I thought I could re-assure the escort by texting my EI (punting phone, of course) name and the fact that I sent them a friend request recently. I hoped that would settle things, but it did the opposite.

    Basically told where to go. I replied that I respected their decision, and that maybe next time I should call beforehand.

    I understand the frustrations in this business, but I really don't see how that makes me a timewaster. Got a text that pretty much said don't bother in the future. I would have thought they would have replied to my address request with something like 'call me when you get to a certain street/landmark'. This is the usual procedure.

    I've heard this escort is brilliant, so I'm a little pissed at how it turned out.

    Maybe they've had a bad experience lately or a close call with a landlord, I don't know.

    My question is this, was I that out of line, I was to be told where to go so quickly?

    Majority will want to speak to you over the phone before accepting a meeting, to ensure you are not a complete melt.


    Granted some will accept via text or pm but you'd have to pretty friendly with the lady.

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    My point is this, what difference does it make after you have told them your EI name and the fact that you sent a friend request recently. A hponecall won't make much of a difference.

    She went nuts and began firing text messages in quick succession- she definately sent way more texts to me than I did to her.

    By texting my EI name and confirming the recent friend request, I probably gave more info that most people would who call.
    Last edited by wingman; 21-06-15 at 16:03.
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    Ok the obvious question - why didn't you call instead of persisting with texts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wingman View Post

    An escort (not giving names) isn't set up with a profile to receive PMs, so I sent them a friend request. Heard nothing, so I sent a text.

    They also mention that they don't like long text message discussions, which is very understandable. I know escorts hate texts as they are usually timewasters and you would prefer a call.
    At that stage I think it would have been best to pick up the phone and use it as it was originally intended — to ring the lady and speak to her
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    First text was sent to see if she was available. I usually don't just ring escorts initially. I have reviews etc to back up the fact that I'm genuine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Petros View Post
    At that stage I think it would have been best to pick up the phone and use it as it was originally intended — to ring the lady and speak to her
    I know, but I was driving the the location in her profile, and the barrage of texts started. I probably should have called, but if I'm honest, it takes a little while for me to speak initially. I like to get a sense of them first. At this stage it was going wrong, so I apologised by text and said maybe next time I'll call first.
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    Quote Originally Posted by frumsp View Post
    Ok the obvious question - why didn't you call instead of persisting with texts?

    It was meant to be a 2 text process before a call. First text to see if time suits. Second was to get a general idea where they were, I would have expected to have to call them when I got to the location. That is what usually happens?
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    Quote Originally Posted by wingman View Post
    First text was sent to see if she was available. I usually don't just ring escorts initially. I have reviews etc to back up the fact that I'm genuine.
    It does not come down to what "you usually do" — it is down to how the lady operates her business. You have to "fit in" with her method of operation, not the other way around!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Petros View Post
    It does not come down to what "you usually do" — it is down to how the lady operates her business. You have to "fit in" with her method of operation, not the other way around!
    I know, they requested direct texts in their profile, so I thougth I was going the way they like. My textx were as follows: 'Hi, I know it might be a little sort notice, but are you available for a 45 min appointment at 15:15 today? . Got the reply, yes, how about 15:30.

    Response was ok, can you give me an idea of the location.

    I would regard that as fairly direct, and from someone who was intent on following through??
    Then I give my EI profile, would that not usually help confirm a booking?
    Last edited by wingman; 21-06-15 at 16:12.
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