By stating you are D Man I'm simply playing on words with your boards username because of sound advice from yourself I have learned since I got this advice from an experienced lad like yourself and some others is to take my time, PM first and then call so having said that maybe I'm rushing it for tomorrow too? I will lose all faith (and bank balance ) if I happen to choose another lady that just maybe might be having a bad day as I've seen from some reviews on here...I suppose it can happen eh? Maybe I'll PM her first and take my time until maybe next week... your a gent, thanks again