Why do some escorts think it is a good idea to ask about significant others?

[Naughtynatalie]

Of course the guy can respond with fact or fiction. But the question was why do escorts ask the question in the first place? I am legitimately curious as to what the thought process is.

Is it just small talk, genuine curiosity or something else?

Why dont you ask the escorts who ask you? They are they ones who know why! Most professional escorts can make small talk about anything & dont have to get so personal.

[Zealot7]

It's not something I've ever been asked, nor is it something I'd ever ask the respective lady either.

To be truthful, I'd rather not know either. I like to think the lady is all mine for the time I'm with her.

[ana massage]

I am just wandering on this. I only see escorts when I am single, but I realise many punters do have wifes/gfs. I am not judging on that at all, hell if I end up married for 10-20 years I may yet be one of them.

My point is I am often asked by escorts if I have a wife/gf and I am just curious as to why this is. I cannot think of much plus side to asking. If was seeing someone I would not want to talk about it. The question could induce guilt or negative feelings. Do some punters like to talk about their problems at home?

I hear that some girls ask this if the guy is nervous or shy, but if he is feeling like this because he has a partner surely asking about it will not improve matters.

But the oddest thing is, when as a single guy, I am asked this question and I reply "no" the escort gives me a look like they do not believe me or even tell me this! This just makes me uncomfortable as she thinks I am lying. And if I was lying I presume I feel even worse for being called out! If the escort thinks I am lying surely it is not going to make things better to tell me this.

But I realise I could be wrong in my thinking. I would be interested in hearing thoughts from punters who have partners or escorts with experience.

Maybe they think you are too handsome! And you being single is hard to believe LOL

[ana massage]

Its only to make conversation really, I was asked that alot during the massage and not bothered at all, few times they even asked after whats a good looking guy like you visiting escorts for... 'well I'm filthy rich and just love giving €50 away to the lucky ladies'

Not only rich but also tight fisted LOL

[nonpareil]

That struck me too :-)

[nonpareil]

It's not something I've ever been asked, nor is it something I'd ever ask the respective lady either.

To be truthful, I'd rather not know either. I like to think the lady is all mine for the time I'm with her.

Married?, children?, job? Do you come from here? Have been asked these fairly often.
Escort probably sees if you are relaxed about/interested in talking.If paranoid you can make it up.I agree with op that some clients may be discomfited by such talk (not me) but escorts may as I say , not introduce such topics with certain individuals.

[DPM]

Why dont you ask the escorts who ask you? They are they ones who know why! Most professional escorts can make small talk about anything & dont have to get so personal.

I don't know how I could do that without making the situation awkward, I am just not suave enough... If I asked someone a question and they responded by asking me why I was asking the question I would feel I had put them on the defensive. There aren't enough candles in Kandahar to lighten that mood.

Wait, I got it. I will ask after I cum. Nailed it.

[DPM]

Maybe they think you are too handsome! And you being single is hard to believe LOL

Or more likely they want me to think they think I am so handsome so that I will be regular business. Pros flatter to deceive right?

[bollocks]

I never ask my clients if they are married/in a relationship, it's none of my business, but a lot of my clients ask if I'm married/in a relationship, so it's not just escorts who do this.

Sandy x

Since no one else asked,,,,are you?