Why do some escorts think it is a good idea to ask about significant others?

[DPM]

Jeez, just make up a story…. ye lot worry bout the strangest things…..

Of course the guy can respond with fact or fiction. But the question was why do escorts ask the question in the first place? I am legitimately curious as to what the thought process is.

Is it just small talk, genuine curiosity or something else?

[Clueless]

Who cares what people talk about - talk is cheap and you have to talk about something- some people are a bit too sensitive if they can't talk to escorts about their love life..

[DPM]

And why the most customers ask me if my boyfriend etc...let me do this job or if i have boyfriend/partner etc...?about 80% ask me this stupid questions...

Answering a question with a question!?

Sorry, I do not know why these guys ask you such questions. It seems odd to me. I would not think to do this so I can't offer any incite into why others would.

[Playitsam]

It's all small talk , and who doesn't lie anyway .

Ladies love to talk personal stuff, it's their thing , same as guys asking how busy a girl is or is she making good money or where is she really from . I mean who cares ffs. Just play along

[bootboy]

It's all small talk , and who doesn't lie anyway .

Ladies love to talk personal stuff, it's their thing , same as guys asking how busy a girl is or is she making good money or where is she really from . I mean who cares ffs. Just play along

Yep, its only small talk. Travel and holidays tend to dominate .

[bootboy]

Could be to break the ice, nosey escort , general conversation, girl needing visa into country, the list is endless.


Jeez, you should hear the convo's i have…..

I'd say you tell some porkies alright !

[Westsidex]

I am just wandering on this. I only see escorts when I am single, but I realise many punters do have wifes/gfs. I am not judging on that at all, hell if I end up married for 10-20 years I may yet be one of them.

My point is I am often asked by escorts if I have a wife/gf and I am just curious as to why this is. I cannot think of much plus side to asking. If was seeing someone I would not want to talk about it. The question could induce guilt or negative feelings. Do some punters like to talk about their problems at home?

I hear that some girls ask this if the guy is nervous or shy, but if he is feeling like this because he has a partner surely asking about it will not improve matters.

But the oddest thing is, when as a single guy, I am asked this question and I reply "no" the escort gives me a look like they do not believe me or even tell me this! This just makes me uncomfortable as she thinks I am lying. And if I was lying I presume I feel even worse for being called out! If the escort thinks I am lying surely it is not going to make things better to tell me this.

But I realise I could be wrong in my thinking. I would be interested in hearing thoughts from punters who have partners or escorts with experience.

It could mean anything and isnt worth thinking of tbh. Soem might hope you think you have a chance of dating them so you keep coming back. Other may just be nosy, others may actually be interested in you. It could be just a talking point. you could be the stud of the century who knows? There are too many variables to think about so its not worth thinking about.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Thats easy just do what I do if I'm asked any personal questions, answer with a load of bollocks.


Tiff xxx

Bollocks is probably asleep now.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

I never ask my clients if they are married/in a relationship, it's none of my business, but a lot of my clients ask if I'm married/in a relationship, so it's not just escorts who do this.

Sandy x

Smart woman. I would find a woman asking me this very insulting if she is with someone because it makes it look like they think you are stupid. I wouldnt dream of asking an escort this.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Its only to make conversation really, I was asked that alot during the massage

If its thai massage then its defo not to make up conversation but to play with your head totally. They are all married (thats how they get here) and they just lie and lie and lie some more.

Westside.