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    Default Why do some escorts think it is a good idea to ask about significant others?

    I am just wandering on this. I only see escorts when I am single, but I realise many punters do have wifes/gfs. I am not judging on that at all, hell if I end up married for 10-20 years I may yet be one of them.

    My point is I am often asked by escorts if I have a wife/gf and I am just curious as to why this is. I cannot think of much plus side to asking. If was seeing someone I would not want to talk about it. The question could induce guilt or negative feelings. Do some punters like to talk about their problems at home?

    I hear that some girls ask this if the guy is nervous or shy, but if he is feeling like this because he has a partner surely asking about it will not improve matters.

    But the oddest thing is, when as a single guy, I am asked this question and I reply "no" the escort gives me a look like they do not believe me or even tell me this! This just makes me uncomfortable as she thinks I am lying. And if I was lying I presume I feel even worse for being called out! If the escort thinks I am lying surely it is not going to make things better to tell me this.

    But I realise I could be wrong in my thinking. I would be interested in hearing thoughts from punters who have partners or escorts with experience.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DPM View Post
    I am just wandering on this. I only see escorts when I am single, but I realise many punters do have wifes/gfs. I am not judging on that at all, hell if I end up married for 10-20 years I may yet be one of them.

    My point is I am often asked by escorts if I have a wife/gf and I am just curious as to why this is. I cannot think of much plus side to asking. If was seeing someone I would not want to talk about it. The question could induce guilt or negative feelings. Do some punters like to talk about their problems at home?

    I hear that some girls ask this if the guy is nervous or shy, but if he is feeling like this because he has a partner surely asking about it will not improve matters.

    But the oddest thing is, when as a single guy, I am asked this question and I reply "no" the escort gives me a look like they do not believe me or even tell me this! This just makes me uncomfortable as she thinks I am lying. And if I was lying I presume I feel even worse for being called out! If the escort thinks I am lying surely it is not going to make things better to tell me this.

    But I realise I could be wrong in my thinking. I would be interested in hearing thoughts from punters who have partners or escorts with experience.
    Bit odd alright, I've never been asked by any of the Escorts I've seen if I was seeing someone just as I'd never ask them about it, maybe they were just terrible at making small talk ha
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    Quote Originally Posted by DPM View Post
    I am just wandering on this. I only see escorts when I am single, but I realise many punters do have wifes/gfs. I am not judging on that at all, hell if I end up married for 10-20 years I may yet be one of them.

    My point is I am often asked by escorts if I have a wife/gf and I am just curious as to why this is. I cannot think of much plus side to asking. If was seeing someone I would not want to talk about it. The question could induce guilt or negative feelings. Do some punters like to talk about their problems at home?

    I hear that some girls ask this if the guy is nervous or shy, but if he is feeling like this because he has a partner surely asking about it will not improve matters.

    But the oddest thing is, when as a single guy, I am asked this question and I reply "no" the escort gives me a look like they do not believe me or even tell me this! This just makes me uncomfortable as she thinks I am lying. And if I was lying I presume I feel even worse for being called out! If the escort thinks I am lying surely it is not going to make things better to tell me this.

    But I realise I could be wrong in my thinking. I would be interested in hearing thoughts from punters who have partners or escorts with experience.
    I dont mind at all, I haven't done guilt in a long long time.

    I'd take it as a compliment if they didn't believe you. I mean you are dashing, handsome, well ednowed and with great oral skills aren't you?? ;-) Surely you can't be single!
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    I never ask my clients if they are married/in a relationship, it's none of my business, but a lot of my clients ask if I'm married/in a relationship, so it's not just escorts who do this.

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    Its only to make conversation really, I was asked that alot during the massage and not bothered at all, few times they even asked after whats a good looking guy like you visiting escorts for... 'well I'm filthy rich and just love giving €50 away to the lucky ladies'
    Last edited by Oh Kevin; 12-06-15 at 16:29.

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    so you think when Im about to shag another woman (aka you) that its good to ask this question. what planet are you from! ffs!! talk about killing mood (or trying to)

    jesus fuchqin wept!

    some seriously shitty escort etiquette out there
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    I'm asked about Mrs Landers all the time

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    Quote Originally Posted by jakelanders View Post
    I'm asked about Mrs Landers all the time
    How is your mother keeping btw?

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    Quote Originally Posted by nonpareil View Post
    How is your mother keeping btw?
    You know better than I would

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    Quote Originally Posted by SophieX View Post
    Jeez, just make up a story…. ye lot worry bout the strangest things…..
    Post #6 (the one above yours)might be the salient point for some.

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