I've always considered the refractory period a bit of a myth. As a teenager I didn't know about it and I was pulling out of myself whenever I had spare time, a spare hand or a spare errection.
I remember in my 20s reading everywoman and thinking what bullshit. With a bit of interested penis worship I could go on for another helping or 3, with no more of a rest period than a change of position would take, until I was drained completely.
Nowadays I'm no longer the stud I once was, but if I save up for a day or 2, I can go on for a helping of oral without any droop, sometimes shooting another load within 20 seconds.
All too often though, I find that the woman presumes its all over once she feels a few thrusts of my pelvis, this is very off putting, a good lover should at least check for signs of life.
Certainly, sometimes I do shoot one load and I'm done, but for me, theres no rule and a lot has to do with attitude, diet, rest, actractiveness and compatibility.
Oppinions please.