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    It's certainly worked wonders for me. I have to keep telling myself I've triumphed over adversary.

    It was to do with ridding myself of a block I had in my mind telling me that I was useless, impotent, not a real man. As I've stated elsewhere, love shyness (amongst other matters) pretty much crippled me when it came to approaching women. In certain ways, it ruined my life until fairly recently when I was able to turn things around.

    It's strange seeing these "REAL MEN DON'T PAY FOR SEX" posters about town. I guarantee that, up until a year ago, they would have sent me into a downward spiral of self loathing that would have lasted throughout the day. I would have felt an accusatory finger pointing at me, with a voice saying "you don't even have the bottle to give it a go, how do you think they'd view you?"

    Nowadays, I merely smile to myself.
    We live always underground
    It's going to be so quiet in here tonight
    A thousand islands in the sea
    It's a shame

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    visiting escorts is good for everyone only real men do it

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    Good for you man. One shot at life, no dress rehearsal. Keep it up

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    Quote Originally Posted by get20 View Post
    visiting escorts is good for everyone only real men do it
    A lot of holes in that statement but it's a feel good thread so..

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    Love stories DO start in EI.....
    Last edited by JAMESCORK; 07-06-15 at 20:36.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spanky Panky View Post
    A lot of holes in that statement but it's a feel good thread so..
    Damn it,right so....

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    Cheers for the support.

    I've still a long way to go, but I'm glad I'm not beating myself up any more. I suppose by confronting the issue head on, it does make me more of a man than these "real men." That's a good feeling.
    We live always underground
    It's going to be so quiet in here tonight
    A thousand islands in the sea
    It's a shame

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Love stories DO start in EI.....
    And normally finish too...

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    I can relate somewhat - I used to get down about my long bouts of being single. My relationship history in my 20's hasn't exactly been the most colorful, it doesn't make it any easier to take when you've most of your friends married either. That was until I stopped caring about societal notions and did something about it - I went to a Brothel in Australia where I met an amazing lady who did her all to show me a good time.

    These days I like my current situation - the freedom of being single with having my urges satisfied in amazing ways (thanks to the amazing ladies I've seen here) with minimal effort on my part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zealot7 View Post
    I can relate somewhat - I used to get down about my long bouts of being single. My relationship history in my 20's hasn't exactly been the most colorful, it doesn't make it any easier to take when you've most of your friends married either. That was until I stopped caring about societal notions and did something about it - I went to a Brothel in Australia where I met an amazing lady who did her all to show me a good time.

    These days I like my current situation - the freedom of being single with having my urges satisfied in amazing ways (thanks to the amazing ladies I've seen here) with minimal effort on my part.
    Its all good news .

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