Visiting escorts as therapy

[Wolverine]

no offense op but if you tie your self esteem to being wanted by anyone in life regardless of sex, you are not going to be happy in the long run. people are irrational and unpredictable. the best way to approach life is to be happy either way, as in be happy single and be happy in a relationship. depending on a relationship for your substance is playing with dice

wise words.

[Meursault]

Then you can put the boot on the other foot and say some guys will need therapy after visiting a few of us ladies….

addiction counselling

[Kaz]

Helped my anxiety. I'm now 14st too.

[Zealot7]

In a way I'm happy with this arrangement as well, but there's still a part of me that would like something a little more permanent, more exclusive. Maybe it's a legacy of idealising relationships on my part. But I'm not sure I'm cut out for one yet (if at all). But one step at a time and all that.

Well, get into a few shitty ones and you won't be long taking them off the pedestal I can tell you.

After some close shaves and getting burned (I seem to attract psychopaths), I've no interest in not being single for the time being. "Miss Right" (hate that phrase) coming along might change that, but she's not showing any signs of turning up soon, so I just intend on enjoying the hell out of life while I can!

[Oh Kevin]

addiction counselling

or drive you to the drink or put your head astray

[Zealot7]

Reminds me of another thing...

I remember when I was young looking look at a tonne of porn, I mean what does any horny virginal guy in his teens do when he gets access to high speed internet after coming from dial up? Of course it's look up loads of porn. How many times did I often think it'd be nice if it was me in the shoot rather than the guy in question.

Well now... I can say I've been with not one but two actual pornstars. I find that amazing, I'd never in a million years have thought I'd be able to say such a thing.

[Clueless]

Do you get a bit of an adrenalin kick from the experience? If so that might account for the down feeling afterwards.

I'd say it's best if you have a wife or girlfriend to go home to- the downer surely relates to having no one at home to share with !

[Curvaceous Kate]

I'd say it's best if you have a wife or girlfriend to go home to- the downer surely relates to having no one at home to share with !

For some that would be the bonus.

[Clueless]

For some that would be the bonus.

True but I'd say loneliness is also a big factor relating to the downer some feel after leaving an escort...

[ZVN60]

no offense op

I love it when people start sentences with this.

but if you tie your self esteem to being wanted by anyone in life regardless of sex, you are not going to be happy in the long run. people are irrational and unpredictable. the best way to approach life is to be happy either way, as in be happy single and be happy in a relationship. depending on a relationship for your substance is playing with dice

I'm more than aware of that. However, depression/love shyness isn't very logical. It comes and attacks when you least expect it. So telling me this is the case isn't necessarily going to help. You can't tell someone who's depressed to snap out of it. Doesn't work like that.